View Full Version : How did you first find out you were gay or bi?
RandomChick242
April 19th, 2009, 11:55 PM
I found out when I was 11, I'm not quite sure how I found out though, before I did everyone thought that I was bi (tunred out to be true) and then months later I guess one night I thought to myself 'Am I bi....???' So then after months of thinking it over and trying to accept it I came out to my best friend and then yeah..........
Yoofus
April 28th, 2009, 04:16 PM
Well, i'm not really sure if i'm gay or bi or what but im on the swim team at my school and sometimes you just ... see stuff. And seeing stuff has given me boners so I wonder, is it because its guys?
laxgoalie182
April 29th, 2009, 06:46 PM
i have always liked girls since as long as i can remember. im in 7th grade right now and this is the year i have found myself very attracted to other boys. i have masturbated to gay porn and i love it. i also like girls too but i really think i would rather have a boyfriend right now <3 a few of my friends know im bi and others do too...but no boys r bi or gay that i no of =[[[ i really wanna make out with a guy ... and my parents dont know. does anyone have a suggestion on how to tell them ='( i dont want to tell them tho. so i gradually learned i was bi and my attraction for guys kept getting stronger. i dont like anyone at my school really but i want a boyfriend
mchboy1
April 30th, 2009, 06:16 PM
i have always liked girls since as long as i can remember. im in 7th grade right now and this is the year i have found myself very attracted to other boys. i have masturbated to gay porn and i love it. i also like girls too but i really think i would rather have a boyfriend right now <3 a few of my friends know im bi and others do too...but no boys r bi or gay that i no of =[[[ i really wanna make out with a guy ... and my parents dont know. does anyone have a suggestion on how to tell them ='( i dont want to tell them tho. so i gradually learned i was bi and my attraction for guys kept getting stronger. i dont like anyone at my school really but i want a boyfriend
Other than the first two or three sentances, im basicall the same way....
guacamole24
May 1st, 2009, 06:00 AM
ok, this is a story i havent told ANYONE!!!! so yea...well, i was at my friends house, which was huge!!! we were all there cause we were going to play hide and seek... it was dark....i came in late, and people were changing into dark clothes...i walked into a closet that was...occupied by a boy the same age as me *this was the beginning of 7th grade btw* and he was openly gay... i always that he was kinda handsome, not cute, but handsome....anyway, he turned around and he was BUCK NAKED! and, i got soo....happy....and i kissed him.....for very long....like an hour.....and then, a boy walked in, not noticing us kissing, and crouched down....he was in his black boxers, and no shirt...and happend to be gay too....and i liked him...alot....so, i left the other guy for a second, and started kissing the guy who walked in.....and then the 1st guy came over, and started, like, petting the guys chest....and i got sooooooo horny...and then all of us 3 started...getting it on............i wont go farther, but when we finished, there was no1 else in the house...and it was midnight.....yea...THE END!...dont laugh.... :oops:
WOW, that's hot. And in 7th grade? Daaaaaaaamn!!!
david191
May 2nd, 2009, 12:00 AM
I guess it would be when I was at my best friend's house in Grade 5/6 at a sleepover.
I turned around and he cock-slapped me. We didn't go anywhere from that though.
alexpoptarts
May 3rd, 2009, 05:15 AM
i have alot actraction in both but more in girls so im curious
alexpoptarts
May 3rd, 2009, 05:20 AM
im curious so i cnt anwers well
Oren
May 10th, 2009, 08:50 PM
It was just sort of a thing... I just knew it? Was like 3 yrs ago. :D
Konnor
May 11th, 2009, 08:13 PM
im bi and this year (7th grade). it started when i was in my french class and this guy that sits next to me got a boner. it was huge. he gets one every day and is not very good about hiding it. i always have fantasies about him
Slaughtlander
May 13th, 2009, 12:09 AM
I have always had sexual feelings towards men, and not toward women at all. I have done a great job at hiding this from friends/parents all my life tho =] Plan to come out of the closet when I turn 16!
darren1990
May 13th, 2009, 03:56 PM
ive always known i was gay , i first kissed a guy when i was in year 2, and i told my family i had a boyfriend tho they just thought it would pass but nope it didnt and im proud to be gay lol xoxo
dstnyisurs
May 18th, 2009, 05:23 PM
Well, I thought I was just curious about what other girls look like, and it was like yeah normal.
I've always thought that girls were beautiful, but I first began considering bisexuality around 8th grade, but I didn't dare be open about it... but now I'm like what the hell. I'm proudly bi/pan sexual.
jeremiahc
May 20th, 2009, 08:47 PM
im not sur eif im gay but i have feeling for guys and girls i think i might be bi
well kinda the same here its just im into girls but when i see other penises i get horny...is that how you feel?
NeverTooLate
May 20th, 2009, 08:51 PM
i knew i was bi since i was young i alway enjoyed girls and love being with boys
Schon
May 24th, 2009, 01:48 AM
i think what really kicked it off for me, was when i started watching gay porn.
tomm
May 24th, 2009, 02:39 PM
I always liked girls, always saw straight porn, and always had girlfriends... But once i ended up watching some gay porn with a friend... And... xDDD
Atropos
May 25th, 2009, 04:00 AM
I think I'm gay..
I don't feel an attraction towards men.. and i've been with a guy this year, but I didn't feel myself pysically or mentally attractive towards him, but I feel attractive towards girls.
My mom thinks im gay, rofl, she asked me if i needed to speak with my lesbian sister the other day, it was awkward..:rolleyes:
Prosecutor. Lang
May 30th, 2009, 06:43 PM
The first time something definite had happened was my Sophomore year of High School. I had been looking at gay porn as far as I can remember. It was like around January and I was in my Business Computer Application II Course. One of my friends, Brian, was in the room. (I'm not sure why.) I'd been attracted to him for a good while and still am. I was giving him a hug, and then I just started to kiss him on the neck. He was pretty confused, I imagine he was kinda shocked. I just joked to him about it and he was fine with it. Like I said, it was probably really weird for him. But I really enjoyed it. I still give him hugs on a daily basis, and I really wish he wouldn't let go. :)
punkjake
May 30th, 2009, 11:54 PM
ok, this is a story i havent told ANYONE!!!! so yea...well, i was at my friends house, which was huge!!! we were all there cause we were going to play hide and seek... it was dark....i came in late, and people were changing into dark clothes...i walked into a closet that was...occupied by a boy the same age as me *this was the beginning of 7th grade btw* and he was openly gay... i always that he was kinda handsome, not cute, but handsome....anyway, he turned around and he was BUCK NAKED! and, i got soo....happy....and i kissed him.....for very long....like an hour.....and then, a boy walked in, not noticing us kissing, and crouched down....he was in his black boxers, and no shirt...and happend to be gay too....and i liked him...alot....so, i left the other guy for a second, and started kissing the guy who walked in.....and then the 1st guy came over, and started, like, petting the guys chest....and i got sooooooo horny...and then all of us 3 started...getting it on............i wont go farther, but when we finished, there was no1 else in the house...and it was midnight.....yea...THE END!...dont laugh.... :oops:
wow I'm str8 and that kinda made me horny T_T :P but im still str8 :D
Shreddyrman
May 31st, 2009, 03:19 AM
Well, I started questioning my identity. Eventually I dropped a lot of weight, got ripped and took up guitar-- I was obsessed with, I got good at it, and started focusing on other things. Realized I had feelings for guys still dated girls. Eventually on a class trip, I shared a bed with a good friend, told me he's gay, don't need tovtell you the rest. Still, I currently date a girl, guys are afraid of me-- I beat up a cheating boyfriend, fractured his jaw, broke his arm , broke to ribs, and did something to his eyesoccket. Oh a happy ending... :rolleyes:
peaceloverugby
June 2nd, 2009, 02:10 PM
idk, i guess i've always known that I like guys b/c i've been getting boners from them forever lol
I didn't realise that I was bi until i had sex with a girl
ackmedsgirl666
June 5th, 2009, 09:38 AM
i started to question mny sexuality when i realized i started having feelings for a really close girlfriend of mine. usually i wold only date guys and never took interest in girls but once i got to know this girl better i found my true sexuality. me and her hoooked up and dated 4 three mths. i trully understood i was bisexual when i was always in agreeance to do stuff with her and i kinda enjoyed it. and usually in some cases i don get horny, but whenever i was around her horny took on a a whole new meaning. but anyways im still struggling with my sexuality. i do like girls but i bop back and forth. she was my first girlfriend and i curently have a male friend who i am seeing, so im still stuck between bi-curious or les
supercharm100
June 5th, 2009, 10:00 PM
i found out when i had a funny feeling in my stomach around this guy everytime he talked to me.. and i always tried to impress him, lets just say that i didnt impress him but some wat depressed him... this was like four, five months ago though..
Untouched
June 7th, 2009, 02:45 PM
I first had my suspicions when I started to think girls at my school were hot/attractive. Then I started liking one of my girl friends there and I was positive I was bi. How did I know I wasn't a lesbian? Because at the same time, I still had some sort of feelings for an ex-boyfriend. Well, technically we had never gone out, but we did like each other. It's a complicating story that I really don't feel the need to divulge into at the moment. I also was still attracted to guys. Still am. Although, I do prefer women.
maeniel
June 8th, 2009, 07:43 AM
I think its pretty much a natural thing...you like what you like...
Ive never really had much interest in girls...always been more for the boys...
joey95
June 12th, 2009, 07:03 AM
i have known that i was bi since i saw a penis (besides my own) :wub:
kingpinnn
June 18th, 2009, 03:15 AM
well, it all started in 6th grade, we used to mess around and pretend to be gay, and i got into the act a bit more than others, and i realized i did kind of think about guys on a more intimate level than i thought normal.
i blew it off and stopped acting gay in 7th grade.
in 8th grade, everyone was pretending, and having fun, so was I, same hing happened, but during this time i was also getting into porn. i used to watch straight porn, and i would always notice weather a guy's dick was bug, or regular, how muscular a gy was, until i typed up hot buy on my computer, and was totally aroused by all the pics. and now im bi, and i am not telling anyone except you guys. lol
zoom zoom
June 18th, 2009, 03:18 AM
well it depends on what type of sexuality you look at. if you look at both or just one
Mind forte
June 20th, 2009, 03:31 PM
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GeOrge1355
June 21st, 2009, 03:41 AM
i cant even imagine about being gay?? is like no offense u guys its my opinion but yeim straight i freaking love girls
The Harlequin
June 21st, 2009, 01:33 PM
Okay, so I'm bisexual - a bisexual guy living in England... Last night I admitted it to myself and said it aloud. I always have (and will) love girls and their bodies but... Most recently I've been treated badly by them - taken advantage of, so...
When I was in primary school (like - lil' kid) me and my best mate used to sneak into the boys tiolets and kiss each other, and it was never bad... We didn't know the meaning of gay, I just think we had a love there...
Anyway, the dinnerladies used to stop us and eventually we stopped, but then I went to this guys house a few years later and he told me he was gay, at first I said I wasn't but then I caved in and I just enjoyed it, the whole experience we had. One night I was sleeping over at his and we got it on and his mum caught us, but when he asked me to back him up, admit we were gay I refused - I felt like a bastard but my family are so traditional, I still haven't come out to them yet...
After that I thought of myself as dirty for ever feeling attracted to him, but oh how I wish I could see him again,
I've had gfs and love titties (X^,
But recently get turned on heavily by gay porn, and I've started checking guys as well as girls, I'm scared my family will find out before I'm ready to tell them, and worst of all I've actually fallen in love with this guy called Lewis, I can't stop thinking about him, I hugged him a few months ago and just felt as though I didn't want to leave his grasp, but people were looking and I dudn't know wtf to think then,
I really love him but I don't know his orientation, I want a bf because whilst girls are hot they use me, and I need advice...
Please help...
This screw-up wants saving (:'^<
-- THE HARLEQUIN
bobbyredsnow
June 24th, 2009, 03:43 PM
and i am not telling anyone except you guys. lol
well eventually ur gonna have to tell someone
I'm somewhere in the gay/bi zone, i don't know which one. I'm mostly gay. I realized it in 7th grade and hid it until i told my best friend this past fall and i told my mom in the winter
iamm12345n
June 29th, 2009, 04:55 PM
well i am bi and i found out 1 of my old freinds thats 15 jn going on 16 ust to experament on me well he was mail and i liked it but then i saw this rly hot girl and iv liked her since like primary school (Tessa) shes well fit enny way i just relisd this year cos i cant be gay cos i rly like girls but i cant be str8 bcs i c a lot of fit boys all the time and cant help watching them when im in the changing rooms ther r some hot boys but not a lot and i don't get hard in the changing rooms i dn how even tho i was staring at this guy geting drest heas well fit and heas forn but i will never tell my mum that I am bi I don't no what she'l say iv not told enny 1 yet so I'm so scared if some 1 finds out (sorry about SP speling aint my cup of tea) but
YourFriend
July 2nd, 2009, 04:35 PM
i am gay, i realized i had emotional attraction towards guys and girls didn't attract me at all, it wasn't any even that made me realize it
polarbear
July 3rd, 2009, 04:18 AM
I first found out i was gay when my friends were with me in the showers, i got an erection but to my surprise instead of laughing there eyes lit up and got closer... needless to say 12 boys in the shower is still one of my best sexual experiences. But on the other hand you do have to be careful as one of them got a bit boisterous during our "session and i had to go to hospital with rectal bleeding, so yeah...:yeah:
b4 that happend did you mom and dad know you were gay or did they learn that in the hospital
Confused Bi
July 3rd, 2009, 04:52 PM
Hello Everyone, my first post.
I found out when i was 13 and liked seeing naked guys. Especially when one of my friends took off his shirt and let me lick his chest:yummy:. One thing lead to another:yeah:
electric_feel01
July 4th, 2009, 12:42 PM
One day I was looking through a magazine, I kept noticing I had this attraction to like all the guys, & I knew I was gay.
The Harlequin
July 4th, 2009, 07:44 PM
One day I was looking through a magazine, I kept noticing I had this attraction to like all the guys, & I knew I was gay.
Ugh!
If only my life was as straightforward as you made that sound! (:^~
mustang
July 8th, 2009, 07:13 AM
when i was in year 6 at school i dicoverd i was gay. in ict i sat next to a friend that i liked so i put my hand on his leg and then we went to the toilet and we kissed each other and he showed me his penis and i showd him mineso about 10 years old
YesterdaysNews
July 18th, 2009, 04:15 PM
I find both males and females attractive and I dont think there is anything wrong with that :p. I have never actually been in a serious relationship yet (I'm only 14) but I dont think I would have a problem dating a girl. I do find guys more attractive though. so I guess you could call me open/ bi curious. I think everyone is beautiful :] (except myself but lets not get into that)
<3
polarbear
July 20th, 2009, 03:59 AM
iv kinda just allways know
JimSauce
July 23rd, 2009, 03:56 PM
I find both males and females attractive and I dont think there is anything wrong with that :p. I have never actually been in a serious relationship yet (I'm only 14) but I dont think I would have a problem dating a girl. I do find guys more attractive though. so I guess you could call me open/ bi curious. I think everyone is beautiful :] (except myself but lets not get into that)
<3
You're always beautiful to me ♥
I didn't really find out, I was always attracted to guys but I didn't know it was something special. Then my brother and I were watching that Degrassi episode when Marco came out, and he explained the term to me. (I was like huh? Gay? isn't that what the boys in school call me?) I made the connection and embraced my sexuality like a stray kitten. :yeah:
DTeen
July 26th, 2009, 03:30 AM
I figured out that i was bi when i was about 9 and
TracyMarie
July 26th, 2009, 06:42 PM
I realised I was bi when I hit puberty in all honesty. I found both sexes physically attractive. :)
Fourth Dimension
July 26th, 2009, 07:38 PM
well im bi and i have allways known i was differnt but i figured it out that i was bi at about age 10 or 11
The Harlequin
July 27th, 2009, 11:52 AM
Uhhh, this thread is entitled 'How' not 'When'
bizarre
July 31st, 2009, 02:32 AM
well when i was 5 i started to get attracted to guys and then in 5th grade i liked girls a lot then but in 6th grade i liked this one guy named anthony and this girl narda i thought it was a phase but in 7th grade i had a crush on my best friend julian i though he was really hot:wub: but i liked this girl cassidy by then i knew i was bi then i became friends with her then i asked her out.BIG MISTAKE!!! she dumped me the day after saying she wanted to be friends then i told her i liked guys she liked the fact that i was honest with her and we have been bff ever since. and at one my friend mary's birth day party we plaed truth or dare and got asked if i was bi i said yes then it was this guy chris's turn and he got dared to kiss me and i chickened out but then i got dared again and so we when into mary's garage an there was 4 other people besides me and chris i was super nervous and he leaned in and i scooted away and 10 minutes later i got the courage and leaned over to him and kissed him but only one person saw and she screamed "i was a witness!" then we had to do it again but that time we started to make out and so the other people (all girls) started staring :redface: and we stoped 10 minutes later mary said "WOW THAT WAS HOT!" and later that night chris called my house and asked me out i said yes we went to starbucks wuth mary and her bf he was bi and we sat down at a table and chris said i love you i said nothing a month later we broke up.then a month after that i asked this girl named jennna out she said yes and we kissed u know regular teen couple stuff we broke up a month later. then i told julian i liked him and i was bi and he said he was bi to and he walked away later that day he called me and we talked then i asked him out and he said yes so we meet up at his house for a sleepover it was like 8 o'clock and we were in his room and he put his face close to mine then we made out for a half an hour and something:yeah: was pokeing me and then we watched a movie and we went back to his room and i had to sleep in his bed he did not tell me why then he touch me in a personal area and i got creeped out then we started to make out (again) and then we fell asleep at like 2:00 am and the next morning we went to the mall and we have been going out ever since like march im very happy with that:) but i have not told my parent so ya im bi but i lean twords guys more. (sorry it wwas so long had a lot to say:whoops:)
Moneyjr
August 1st, 2009, 04:47 PM
I was always tought to like girls, but I remember in grade 6, i thought this guy was hot, and thinking this isnt normal..... And then in grade 7, i was sitting in class, staring at a guy thinking wow....hes hot! Oh shit....
Contactez-moi pour les traduires.. pourquoi?
Moneyjr
August 1st, 2009, 04:55 PM
i don't know exactly ...i just grew up likening female and male.. some days it would be females some days just males..
but sadly.. their are a lot of assholes in my schools they are either homophobic or tease people about being homo . stuff that makes me very Uncomphy. so i could never say i was bi in school afraid that i would be teased .. fyi 70% of my school is like this with both girls and boys.. for some reason they make being homo a huge deal so every day is drama..
the only people who know are my family. my good friends.. which is like one person...
but i have trouble about telling it to my guy friend Shannon.. im afraid if he knows then he'll be insecure with me or stop being friends.. but i really don't know.. i very much doubt hes that much agiasn't homo's and we have been friends for 7-8 years but im not risking it.
i pretty sure he knows im bi because he's asked me one time if i was.. ( i said no ..)
Solosakuri
August 1st, 2009, 05:22 PM
when my best mate accidently fell and sat on my crouch... i wanted to have his junk right there... but we were in skule and hes strait not bi (like moiself) or gay
hereitgoes
August 2nd, 2009, 03:18 AM
i realized about two years ago, that i was attracted to girls physically as well as emotionally. i guess it just kind of hit me that i looked them in a way like "i want them" and not like an innocent "they're pretty." i noticed later that, although i can fall in love with both a male and a female, i was not attracted to males physically and i only was attracted to certain personalities and faces of the feminine ones. so i identify myself as a lesbian.
i've been in a relationship with my girlfriend for almost a year now and we've gone the whole nine yards so i am 110% sure i like sex with girls.
tommycg95
August 7th, 2009, 10:49 AM
i remember in 5th grade that my older brother had a friend that he and my brother always made fun of me and picked on me alot. So i gave him a b.j. and i liked it. It also stopped him from picking on me.
kalkidude
August 9th, 2009, 02:18 PM
i found out i was bi when i found myself having a major crush on my friend
and he was a guy. i kinda freaked out but nowadays i'm more like uhhh whatever
I think everyone is beautiful :]
thats exactly how i feel
i can't help myself!!!
:)
BeautifulSilence
August 10th, 2009, 04:04 PM
Wow. I haven't posted here yet have I?
Okay. Everyone knows, BUT. I fell in love with one of my closest friends. First, it was really strong emotional feelings because she was the only person who'd be there for me when I was going through my rough time. Then, I became physically attracted to her as well. I tried to deny it, but after I accepted that I was crazy for her, I realised I quite liked other girls (physically) too. I've never since had another powerful emotional relationship with a female, but I know there'll be someone special sooner or later.
Oh, and then I've always liked boys without questioning it, it's just always been seen as acceptable.
conmc1996
August 10th, 2009, 05:49 PM
well im going to admit it on this but nowhere else. Im bisexual. And i dont like it but im very dirty :(. And well i pretend people are... forcing me. Is this ok or way to dirty:what:
thepieman
August 11th, 2009, 03:45 PM
I've always fancied girls, but I started having feelings for guys around the age of 13. Since then they got stronger, but I always tried to shake them off. Then I watched Queer as Folk (UK) on the internet and I seemed to have similarities to some characters lol. I've since realised I could be bi, but I still put it down to the hormones! :)
Fourth Dimension
August 15th, 2009, 11:18 PM
Well I Always Knew I Was Different Even When I Was Little I Mean I Had My Guy Friends But I Had Girl Friends Too And This Is During That Period Where Girls Are Ew Lol But I Felt More Ok With Them Around 10 Or 11 I Just Figure Out That That Something Was That I Like Guys And Girls I Didn't Want To Accept It But Finally Around 14 I Just Realized That Im Just Me This Is Who I Am Im Bi
mikesteve
August 23rd, 2009, 12:09 PM
Hi
any one help me how can i find out i am guy because i love girls or guys both.
Thanks
Mike
alex.c
August 29th, 2009, 04:46 PM
When i was younger i always felt tingly in my stomach when i saw guys with no top nd stuff but i had a crush on girls nd stuff. Then when i hit puberty i realized i liked naked guys but i still had crushes on girls.
Now I just say that I'm gay nd only my bff know (3 girls 1 boy)
I still have 3 other friends i want to tell but i keep backin out 2 are guys who are more guyish den d other 1 i told.
Then there is this girl who i really want to tell but i dont know why i cant.
When we were younger we kissed maybe that is why i cant
I really wished i could tell them
themanwhoneverwould
August 30th, 2009, 04:46 PM
Just through thinking about it i found out i am Bi (but more interested in men.) I was so fonfused, adn i just thought about it, adn now it all seams clear. This was not long a go at all.
Which is is why i want to thank the VT forums, i feel like i have had a massive weight lifted from my shoulders, i actually feel happier. I am not going to burst out to people at school, because during puberty anything can change, so i want to wait till my hormones have settelled before i come out of the closet as it where.
But i am so happy now that i am pretty sure what i am, and when i first joined here, i was worried about being Gay or Bi, but after readign about it, i know its nothing bad, and that homophobics are just as bad as racists.
So thanks to VT and ALL the members here. You've been a masssssiiiivveee help! :D
Jagador
August 30th, 2009, 11:32 PM
Heh.. newly joined here and excited to post and help if i can. Umm... when i was little, my parents lodged this thought into my head that guys are always supposed to like girls. And i listened to them and i did but that was only in my elementary years, however whenever i had a crush on a girl or i liked her... it would get spreaded out throughout the whole school which made me change my mind everytime about the gilr because i'm always afraid of the outcome so i would deny i liked her afterwards. Towards middle school, i liked this one girl named Heren who transfered near my community from hongkong. Me and her got along well, but eventually she started ignoring me so i was highly sad and depressed. At the end of 8th grade, i was then Bi, and after some research on the web (not info research) i find that i am gay. And there is no going back because im gay and proud
diamond jetstream
August 31st, 2009, 07:02 AM
for me it was when i suddenly thought that my best friend was hot but i had a girlfriend at the time
aaaaaaaaaaaaaaagg
August 31st, 2009, 07:23 AM
When I was 13 this girl wanted to make out with me and I thought it'd be interesting just to try. I really enjoyed it then I started having feelings towards girls and I knew I was bi. I like boys more but I like girls too.
themanwhoneverwould
August 31st, 2009, 10:27 AM
I had had girl friends before, but slowly over time i started noticing men more, and with a little help of this forums i am not straight.
Its weird, because i was dead set on having a girl friend / wife and kids, a good job etc
But i actually feel more complete now i know that i am not 100% straight. I now want a boy friend, who i want to be deeply in love with, probably adopt a child, and just be happy. The Possibilities of life are great :)
loopdeloop
September 2nd, 2009, 09:59 AM
Well, I guess I've always known on some level, but at an earlier age I just sort of ignored it and carried on with my life as usual. Then, when I was around 12/13, I realised that I really didn't find girls attractive at all, just guys. I partially convinced myself that I was straight, or at least bi, but in the end I came to terms with it and I'm now at peace with myself.
Ratedteen
September 5th, 2009, 09:19 PM
HAHA i love ur comment.
u seem cool
The femal body is a work of art.
i think we can both agree :)
OhHeyItsTy
September 14th, 2009, 02:34 PM
Sometime in early elementary school is when I knew that I liked guys, although I didn't know anything about gay or straight at that time, so I guess that probably doesn't count too much. When I did find out what gay/straight/bi was all about, I thought I was bi from like sixth grade up until ninth. Then when I started actually doing stuff with guys, that's when I knew for sure that I was gay.
Though every once-in-a-while, I do find a girl that I'm attracted to.
Giles
September 15th, 2009, 04:46 PM
I just am attracted to guys slightly more than girls. Happened when i was about 10 (4 yr ago)
daveywavey
September 16th, 2009, 10:35 PM
i have never talked about this before until now... but i think i first knew when i was around 7 or 8, me and a friend used to 'play' around with eachother, it went on for about 3 years, then we stopped because i was getting over wealmed, then not to long ago i started messing around my best friend adam, it just started with talking online cause we couldnt talk in person about it, then we talked about it in person at my house one night on a sleep over, and one thing lead to another before i knew it i had given him head and visa versa, i have since moved away and i miss him really bad, i have not yet came out to anybody but him, i dont know how my family will react because i have a very strict military dad, wow it feels good talking about this though, thanks for listening, and btw im new to the board so hey guys nice to find people i might be able to talk too
i dont mind talking to anybody on here , i got alot of things i would be willing to want to talk to about
Speedy-D
September 17th, 2009, 04:26 PM
I kissed my best mate for a dare :D
Benpr328
September 25th, 2009, 09:30 PM
I have always had an idea I was gay even has a little boy. I really came out when I was about 13 and then came out to my parents and brother when I was 14.
NewChangedBeing
September 27th, 2009, 12:19 PM
I realized that I was bi when I was like 4 or 5. i always knew I had a crush for girls :)
Appleton
September 28th, 2009, 06:20 AM
I got a letter in the mail which was confirmed by an email later that day which was then confirmed by a three way chat on msn.
Jacob1993
October 1st, 2009, 11:14 PM
Starting when i was about 12.5 i began realizing i had feelings for guys. On the day after my 14th birthday i met this really great guy. We went from friends to much more over the next month. Thats when I realized I was definitely Bi.
Kahn
October 4th, 2009, 07:05 PM
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The Harlequin
October 5th, 2009, 12:43 PM
Well sometimes I take a good look at a guy and I sometimes get a thought of me kissing him in my head... Don't laugh but there's this hansom guy in my class that I kinda wish was Bi. I would love to make-out with him. But I REALLY like Girls.
Why would we laugh about that? I think it's actually quite sweet (:^,
BigBulge
October 7th, 2009, 12:12 PM
i thought i was gay - i loved gay porn. but now when i j/o i fantisise about MMF 3 way
toinfinityandbeyond
October 11th, 2009, 11:23 AM
cool story. man i wanna kiss a guy :cry:
Don't worry m'man! your time will come! I find party games like spin the bottle or Truth or Dare also help!
Don3
October 12th, 2009, 12:06 AM
I'm not but i might be.
TheKingDavis
October 12th, 2009, 08:30 PM
I discovered i was bi in the 7th grade, i had sex with a sophmore (10th grade) and he was like 10" he was huge and it hurt like hell, but i still liked it and wanted to experience further
Stewart
October 12th, 2009, 08:32 PM
I have just always known. I started thinking guys are hot and wanting to kiss them and now I want a boyfriend so it'z all good!
henry1996
October 14th, 2009, 06:21 AM
Everytime I go tothe gents, I will go and peek at other people penis. I am very curios how the penis look like when I grow up
DareDevil
October 14th, 2009, 10:31 PM
There were little signs all throughout early years but for me personally I grew up in a Christian school environment (heavily conservative, no tolerance, blah blah you're going to hell blah) and it was all very sheltered. So I had (and really, none of us guys did I think, or at least never discussed it!) no idea about masturbation or, until later in middle school, homosexuality and such.
I actually discovered masturbating out of an extreme need to do- well something about my need to take care of a problem I had no idea how to cope with. That was at 13, nearly 14. I just instinctively started at it and luckily had read about (I know, nerd) sex and rather than freaking out at the semen, I had a lightbulb click on in my head. (Actually, a lot of lightbulbs. Lots of jokes in movies/tv made a looooooot of sense after that moment.)
I went a few weeks doing it over the toilet before one morning I had just woken up with an... urge- and started. I began to think about my best friend at the time and realized that it made the whole thing more interesting.
From that point I realized guys were significant to me somehow, but didn't put a name to it (in this case, bi) until a year later. I didn't fully accept that I was gay until this past summer, age 17.
Charizard8
October 21st, 2009, 06:37 PM
you know its wierd with me. im bi, and some days i the girls are hot, guys are not, and vice versa
Helicopter Eyes
October 21st, 2009, 06:50 PM
I was straight in middle school but, as I hit puberty guys started to become hot and I still thought girls were hot. After a lot of thought I knew I was bi
Quick_Sylver
October 22nd, 2009, 04:34 PM
I'm pretty sure I'm bi, because I'm in love with two girls(one of them knows I like her and she likes me back but she's in a relationship, the other is oblivious) but also because I'm in love with a guy. I started liking the oblivious girl in grade 7 (in grade 8 now) and then started liking the other girl at the same time I started liking the guy. Well I know that one girl likes me but the other wouldn't even think about it. The guy thinks about as a little sister so no joy there. N (the girl who likes me) is dating a guy so... *shrug* what can you do?
apocalypse
October 22nd, 2009, 05:24 PM
I've known I had a physical attraction to my own sex for as long as I can remember. To me, something just feels right when it comes to men, and when I was with previous girlfriends, the feeling of being with a male was always in my mind.
bestie_mate
October 23rd, 2009, 10:26 AM
I found out two years ago when I had strange feelings for a cute friends of mine and I realized that I was a bisexual to homosexual!
pleXo96
October 24th, 2009, 09:59 PM
I think i'm BI cuz, i like a girl named Jenny but i also like boys..
Cinderandsmoke
October 25th, 2009, 02:13 PM
I've basically always known i was a lesbian. I actually went up to a friend in kindergarten and said i wanted to marry girls cause theyre hotter than guys. I was exposed to a lot of sexuality stuff at a young age so I've always known what i want.
finallygother
October 25th, 2009, 11:47 PM
On the first day of Christian camp one year I met this girl and she was just amazing. I didn't think anything of it though, that night I had a very intense dream about her and I freaked out. It took me the whole week of Christian camp to finally accept who I was and in the end the girl liked me back. She's been my girlfriend for 5 years.
hhhhssssuuuuhhhh
October 26th, 2009, 06:54 AM
i first realized i was bi when i slept over my best friends house with some other friends in the summer and it was really hot so we took our shirts and shorts off, but my friend and i were still hot so we took our shorts off and hung out in our boxers. when everyone else went to sleep we took an empty air mattress and he just put his arms around me and we slept holding on to each other the whole night. im still best friends with this guy
lengthy_brochure
October 26th, 2009, 04:38 PM
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The Joker
November 1st, 2009, 05:53 PM
i first realized i was bi when i slept over my best friends house with some other friends in the summer and it was really hot so we took our shirts and shorts off, but my friend and i were still hot so we took our shorts off and hung out in our boxers. when everyone else went to sleep we took an empty air mattress and he just put his arms around me and we slept holding on to each other the whole night. im still best friends with this guy
That's really cute!
Mik-Mik
November 7th, 2009, 01:03 AM
I always straight until seventh grade, and then I began to see muscles on boys (six packs, biceps, etc). Then I was introduced to the wonderful land of YouTube where I started watching boys flexing and so forth and my sexual attraction towards both boys and girls became equal. As time progressed (8th grade I think), I started looking at gay porn and having orgasms over them and started thinking of girls less and less. Now that I'm in Grade Nice, I've been starting to doubt my sexual orientation (since I always considered myself straight). Now I class myself as bisexual because I'd like boy/girlfriend either way.
brandon333
November 7th, 2009, 01:15 AM
when i was in 8th grade i walked into a bathroom at my friends house and found him sitting there masturbating. he didnt notice me at first because he had his eyes closed. then when he opened them we started to kiss and stuff. (we were the only 2 in the house) then we both got completly naked and started to rub each others penises and stuff. i wont go into anymore details but that is when i found out.
Zack666
November 7th, 2009, 12:39 PM
i had afeeling for guys. I may not know you yet i can tell that you hot
SGT_
November 9th, 2009, 05:37 AM
Magazines had always told me that having feelings for people of the same gender can just be a stage in search of "sexual identity".
But then I actually got full on feelings for a girl.
Though I also get the same feelings for guys.
So I guess I'm bi.:)
Gaffer17
November 9th, 2009, 02:24 PM
Ive always kinda known but just nvr reli thought much of it,so one day i siad to myself im gay and i recently came out (yay!!!) and apparently its been sooo obvious that my 'rents have suspected it since i was 3 :L
Steve1993
November 16th, 2009, 11:27 AM
:whoops:
How do you know if your really Bi. I like looking at boys, men you know as well as girls?
Lozart
November 19th, 2009, 04:35 AM
I found out that i was bi cause i still like going out with girls in a more than friend way but at the same time i like guys cause to be honest its just less complcated than it is with girls.
Miniman
November 20th, 2009, 08:28 PM
im on the swim team, so it is easy to see other boys penises; not much in the way when were changing into speedos. theres like 5 of us and we practice w the high schoolers, and there is one big shower. i think im gay because i dont really feel anything for girls, but all the naked guys on the swim team turn me on kinda. i dont think im alone, cuz there are quite a few boners in the shower,and no one tries to hide. im only 13 and havent hit puberty yet, so i dont know if sexuality changes later, but me and my friend (from the team) have played around; on this one sleepover, he has a lot of property, and we were camping in a tent out in his woods. that night we both got naked and messed around with each others penises, i think were gay for each other bc that was just the 1st time...:wub:
MacMilker
November 21st, 2009, 03:04 PM
i fell in love, how else?
adriano
November 23rd, 2009, 01:49 AM
i am gay .
and there`s nothing wrong with it .
just understand it a matter of what do i like .
for example i like coffe with milk ? do you?. is the same thing
enjoy your life whether you are str8 or gay or bi. just love
zgrazier
November 23rd, 2009, 01:20 PM
ive always had a thing for both girl and guys.
idk i just knew.
for a long time since like 6th grade.
Faithfull
November 24th, 2009, 02:45 PM
I think i knew when i was about 11, i used to look at this girl in my calss and i could imagien kissing her, but i thought there was something wrong with being bi so i told myself not to be silly and of course i didn't like girls... about 2 / 3 years ago i realised that it wouln't go away and there was nothing wrong with liking guys and girls so i 'came out'.
OstrichAficionado
November 27th, 2009, 11:40 PM
I got turned on by a picture of a muscular billboard guy when I was 9, lol.
Krazymitch
November 28th, 2009, 07:29 AM
when i was a kid i never saw my parents i was in family day care centres all day nd even wen i was at school i wuld to go after hours care and my day care mum wuld pik me up... she had a son about 15 yrs older then me and i always like takeing showers with him, every morning i wuld have a shower with him, until 1 day (wen i was really young) i put his dick in my mouth and he didnt notice till it got hard, and then i knew i like Boys, and now im gay/bi. and i luv penis
M-Guy
December 13th, 2009, 07:45 AM
and i luv penis ..... lol
M-Guy
December 13th, 2009, 07:46 AM
[QUOTE=and i luv penis[/QUOTE] lol... hillarious...
MusicallyObsessedBoi
December 15th, 2009, 05:28 PM
It was last year actually. I was in 7th grade at the time and 12 years old. I looked at this one guy in my Social Studies class and I was like "my boner is gonna bust through my pants here in a minute."
Later on, like 2 months, I started dating one of my friends. All we did was kiss. And I liked it a lot. But he was about to turn 16 and some of my friends where starting to find out about us and others did as well. I dumped him.
And now I have a girlfriend, but I want to go back out with him. So I guess I'm bi.
MusicallyObsessedBoi
December 16th, 2009, 04:12 PM
:!:And, my cousin gave me a hand job once. AND, I always grabbed this kids nuts in kindergarten.
Obscene Eyedeas
December 18th, 2009, 01:14 PM
it was in september i first started having feelings for this girl and then we became great friends and wenevr wed be messin and we touched it sent electric thrills thru me and i just new dat i loved her and it was so scary and i cld barely accept it
skyekirstyn
December 18th, 2009, 07:06 PM
i have always just appreciated beauty. guy, girl: it makes no diference. then one day i realized that because i thought this way i am catergorized as bisexual. (:
Fuchs
December 19th, 2009, 04:03 AM
At first i used to deny it, just thought i was having a little fun, but then a year ago when my friend who i had been "playing with" decided to have sex, i knew for sure, it's kinda hard to deny when your calling out harder and faster while you've got a cock in your butt
Zero Beat
December 19th, 2009, 06:07 AM
I liked boy bits way more then ewy girl bits.
MusicallyObsessedBoi
December 19th, 2009, 05:53 PM
At first i used to deny it, just thought i was having a little fun, but then a year ago when my friend who i had been "playing with" decided to have sex, i knew for sure, it's kinda hard to deny when your calling out harder and faster while you've got a cock in your butt
XD And some people STILL claim to be straight!
oopymoss
December 20th, 2009, 09:38 AM
I figured out I was bi when I started going to swimming pool, and saw all these great swimmer's bodies. I wasn't really turned on by them, but idk, I just liked looking at those bodies. I've had girlfriends, but I've never touched a guy.
Cave Johnson
December 20th, 2009, 12:40 PM
I started to realize I wasn't straight when l saw a guy and l found him very hot. That was 3 years ago. Then, 2 years ago l met a guy and l found him very hot. We met at camp and we talked a lot. One night we told me that he had a boyfriend back in his hometown but that he also really liked girls too. He told me that he was getting horny talking about this and l should hide my head under the covers so l couldn't see him jack off. l was curious so l peeked and l really liked what l saw so l watched him.
Cave Johnson
December 20th, 2009, 12:46 PM
so at that point l thought l was gay, l watched gay porn and never really noticed straight porn. A year ago there was a girl l really liked and that was when l found out l was bi. This year my friend from camp moved to my school. He has only gotten hotter and he's still bi. l just want to know how l should tell him that l'm bi because l also want to kiss him. please help in this forum or pm me. thanks in advance
MusicallyObsessedBoi
December 20th, 2009, 02:37 PM
so at that point l thought l was gay, l watched gay porn and never really noticed straight porn. A year ago there was a girl l really liked and that was when l found out l was bi. This year my friend from camp moved to my school. He has only gotten hotter and he's still bi. l just want to know how l should tell him that l'm bi because l also want to kiss him. please help in this forum or pm me. thanks in advance
Well, since he's already stated that he's bi (from him having a boyfriend and also liking girls), just say "Hey, did I mention that I'm bi?"
He won't hate you or anything, so you're in one of those perfect situations!
OrionX
December 22nd, 2009, 11:29 PM
I was always interested in girls and had lots of little relationships in primary (elementry i think in USA) school. Gradually, i got curious of what other people look like (down there) eventually i began to look around the internet but i never liked it when boys would have sex (anal) i would only watch them jakin or blowin cause i was interested in cocks (: and then i started to like them fucking and i still like girls so yeah... (:
rainbowveins
December 24th, 2009, 04:32 AM
I'm bisexual but at first when I was younger I used to deny to myself that I liked women. I'd grown up with gay being semi accepted by my mother, and I considered it a bad thing to think about liking girls.
When I got into middle school my friends where more accepting about different sexuality and some people I knew where bi-curious as well. Even then, though, I still could not admit my feelings. But when I hit my freshman year of high school I met the most amazing girl and I just KNEW that I had an undeniable thing for girls.
obiwan94
December 26th, 2009, 09:57 PM
I guess I knew when I only thought about guys but really lied to myself until I got into a relationship with a girl and realized it really wasn't for me and that I had to stop pretending to myself. We recently broke up and I came out to her...she took it pretty well
penguin13
January 5th, 2010, 05:54 PM
I guess, I was around 12 or 13 and generally in my head kept thinking it was a phase for a month or two. But that phase has never ended and never will so I know I am.
Zanra
January 5th, 2010, 08:12 PM
Since I can remember Ive been into guys and girls, and since I was like 8 I kept telling myself "I'll be bi but I won't ever go gay" (no offence, religious matter) and than I just accepted that I'm bi when I fell in love once upon a time
Reflection.
January 5th, 2010, 08:29 PM
Well even though i used to j/o with my friend, and do other stuff with him when i was younger. I never thought of myself as gay, bi or even curious, i always considered myself straight because i always used to talk to and look at girls.
It wasn't until about a year and a half ago that i really started to get into guys and notice them more. Even then though i used to always deny it to myself, i knew i was bi. i was so ashamed of myself and i wondered what everybody would think of me if i was bi. But over time those feelings went away and i couldn't be happier with my sexuality now.
emiliYO
January 9th, 2010, 01:25 AM
i will only love women and i know that 1 day ill get married (straight) and have kids BUT... i love looking at guys!:yes:i prefer to watch gay porn and i like looking atmen in their underwear.i love a girl with a nice butt and and good boobs but i have sneaked peeks at guys in the locker room
SOOOO... i guess im bi
ltimm
January 10th, 2010, 01:25 AM
I don't really find too many girls attractive....but when i do it's not so i can screw 'em... I've liked guys now, so i guess i'm bi with more attraction to guys
josh93
January 20th, 2010, 07:34 PM
iam bi i found out when i started to get boners around boys that look hot to me
gregk
January 20th, 2010, 10:18 PM
im bi new when i was 10 that i liked both sexes and still get turned on by both
DoveGreySands
January 21st, 2010, 11:39 AM
I almost seemed to be fighting with myself over my sexuality. I was attracted to guys and girls at the same time, and I was just constantly trying to blame it on everyone else but me. I finally accepted it after chatting with a gay friend, and fully decided on it when I experimented and it was fantastic. Now i'm completely comfortable with who I am.
Asylum
January 26th, 2010, 02:03 PM
i don't know when it was an exct time... it was just... she is really cute... and thoughts.. wasn't an epiphany or anything... i like girls!!
cody2010
January 26th, 2010, 06:33 PM
i first started feeling attractions for the same sex in like 7th or 8th grade. i ignored it back then, but i can't anymore. i'm just now starting to accept it. so i guess i'm bi now. since i still like girls.
Botchy
January 30th, 2010, 05:21 PM
1 year ago i admited to my salf i was bi a year on and now i think im gay and im starting to admit im gay
hannahd96
January 31st, 2010, 07:04 PM
I have "done things" with one of my friends, but not sure if that makes me fully bi or not. I would do again given the chance so suppose it does. I am only 13 so I suppose I have plenty of time to work it out yet.
DayBreakArt
February 1st, 2010, 12:33 PM
I guess liking girls came the same way as liking boys. I just started liking them physically then emotionally. At first I thought it was my hormones but when I started liking girls for more than their bodies I knew I was bi. Never denied it, just questioned whether it was for real.
gayguy1
February 2nd, 2010, 09:31 PM
Flavored Skittles that was the sexiest story I have heard. Surely got my hormones boiling. YU are more sane than most. I would love to talk to you
AJay
February 6th, 2010, 02:03 PM
I ignored my feelings for guys for a long time but after I thought about it I realized I'm bi. It had just never thought of it before because until recently I had been trying to live as a norm in society and so the prospect that I might be bi never crossed my mind until I decided to stop living in the social norm and how other people view me and I decided to be myself.
Fnbcrazy
February 6th, 2010, 10:47 PM
I'm bi but I've never been with a boy. I want to be tho but I can't find out :(
gone
February 8th, 2010, 02:12 AM
Im still not sure about my sexuality, I think Im going to be gay but I don't need the label
I just go with the flow
;)
xSEBBIE
February 8th, 2010, 03:21 AM
When I hit that age where you start looking at others in that way, i was just always sexually attracted to guys. Id have an odd girl crush but i realise i just loved spending time with them. However i was always attracted to guys, never to girls and thats how it happened. I just knew.
Charizard8
February 12th, 2010, 05:20 AM
In 5th grade, I was really sexually active then, i had sex with a few boys and a couple girls. Eventually resulting in my son.:what::yeah::what:
Example..
February 13th, 2010, 03:23 PM
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garrysmod
February 13th, 2010, 11:43 PM
When entering high school. I was starting to feal attracted to both guys and girls.
hot man
February 14th, 2010, 02:02 AM
umm i looked a a guy naked and liked it....
shoeboxluv
February 14th, 2010, 04:32 AM
When I was younger I found myself checking out everyone lol. I had a girlfriend in 6th and 7th grade and I loved her. I honestly did, but I knew there was a problem when I was checking out her ex boyfriend lmao. But since then, I have very rarely checked out a girl. She was my one female love, and probably my only. I know I'm gay, but get me drunk and anything could happen =p
Dannybre
February 15th, 2010, 11:13 PM
I first found out I was Bi when I woke up 1 day, in bed, butt naked, with a guy on my left and a girl on the right, lol jk
Willzilla
February 16th, 2010, 03:24 AM
i have signs of being gay somtimes but i think im bi because chicks still turn me on ... i dont tell anyone i know though im afraid of what they would say my family isnt exactly "Loving" you could say
JRM96
February 18th, 2010, 01:03 AM
iam not really sure.
i wouldnt want to be known as the bi kid but i still kinda like some guys. and i really like this girl. so i think iam bi but i dont really know if iam or not.
i guess i will find out as the time passes
Fliyte
February 18th, 2010, 10:52 PM
Ahh, homosexuality. :wub:
I didn't want to be this way at first. i thought God hated my kind..I thought wrong. i finally accepted my lesbianism a few weeks ago, telling myself, "what is penis to you?" I don't like guys physically and wouldn't be able to have a successful relationship, although i was a lover for nice personalities.
I've only had one real life partner, but it just wasn't right. I dumped him and a few weeks later finally fully accepted it--I just don't like guys. I mean, the few times i watched porn (this was at the time i just REAAAAALLY couldn't accept it), i tried to ignore the man leaning over the woman and his bulging "hotdog". i tried to make myself like it, forced myself to watch man-on-man porn and straight porn.
When i was little, the feeling of homosexuality intoxicated me. At the age of seven, i was a total perv. I looked down my teachers shirts when they helped me and always walked behind them--tried to tell myself it wasn't christian. i was only attracted to men for their personalities, and found my self gaga over girls. (i knew about sex at a disturbing age).
Now i just accept it and act like all the other students, i don't watch others in gym to prevent rise of suspicion (i don't want my teachers to know, i mean, come on.) My perverseness has plummeted and i'm just like any other girl--accept instead of saying "i want so-and-so in bed for his large you-know-what", i say "dang, that girl is beautiful!"
My heart is set on one girl--with her long blonde hair and her shortself,i can't help but get the chills.
humanesquire
February 19th, 2010, 11:30 PM
I was in denial about it for like a year, like whenever I would check out a guy, I would try to force the thoughts out of my head. But then, like 3 weeks ago, I started talking to this bi guy on Omegle.com and I was like, ''I need to stop kidding myself. This is who I am.'' and now I've told my friends about it and I'm not being completely shunned like I thought I would. :) :D
knas
February 21st, 2010, 07:21 AM
I've always known I'm bi^^ Like, ever since I was little I've been in love with both guys and girls and then in fourth/fifth grade when people started to talk about "gay" and all that, I was just like "oh there's a word for the way I am" ^^
xxBrydenxx
February 21st, 2010, 10:03 AM
I'm BI and I found out in 6th grade when some hot girl asked me out and I said no because I was looking at some other guys..
Charizard8
February 21st, 2010, 04:02 PM
I first found out I was Bi when I got a Guy pregnant, lol jk.
envy12180
February 22nd, 2010, 07:24 PM
i think when u think ur gay kiss a guy and see how you react to it
Magus
February 23rd, 2010, 07:53 AM
Had this subtle Boy to girl attraction but instead of a girl, it is what you call them "twinks"
KChiChi
February 23rd, 2010, 08:01 AM
i think i just... knew it. clearly i was different and i couldn't help but keep staring at my roomate. but i still like guys, which is comforting, but girls just turn my world around!! i'm fourteen, and its horrible when everyone's homophobic left, right AND centre!!!
Ballin2much
February 24th, 2010, 06:47 PM
well kid named nick was in my class in 6th grade, and i had never felt for guys before, but then when he started saying things like, ur mom, lol, i started to like him, he was good looking smart and had a nice ersonality, ever sense then, i have been bi and have fallen for plenty of guys and girls
BigJayUK
February 25th, 2010, 10:41 AM
Hi, I dunno what I am atm. Ive had gay sex but really like girls, Ive yet to have sex with a girl but really enjoy gay sex. I dont like being called Bi or confused, I live far away from my gay freind and we talk often, he is the only person I have had sex with. Maybe im just gready lol
Voodoo
February 28th, 2010, 01:14 AM
Lol. well I was in my friends pool with alot of friends playing macro polo, i was it, heard a sound, went over, TOUCHED, one of my best friends in his area, i could feel my self gettin' hard, and he was also, but i was so embarrassed he was like WTF DUDE, but yeh. later that day we were going back into our tents (my friend had a three day long sleep over/pool party) and he came in when i was naked and goes; "about this after noon" he looked up and saw me and goes.. "OMG I'm so sorry" (we shared a tent) I go. "its okay" and turned around... and continued to get dressed all embarrassed but yah. Ever since then I've had wet dreams about doing him and what not. Thats how I found out im bi.
foreverjd14
February 28th, 2010, 01:39 AM
i think i liked boys ever since i was little. i mean i like girls too but idk when i liked guys in elementary school i always though they were "cool" and thats why i wanted to hang out with them cause when i was little i never thought a guy could like another guy it just never crossed my mind
songboy
March 2nd, 2010, 09:36 PM
I think I may be gay I like watching guys dicks on porn sites and I hate the site of a pussy
teenmanchester
March 4th, 2010, 11:00 AM
ok, this is a story i havent told ANYONE!!!! so yea...well, i was at my friends house, which was huge!!! we were all there cause we were going to play hide and seek... it was dark....i came in late, and people were changing into dark clothes...i walked into a closet that was...occupied by a boy the same age as me *this was the beginning of 7th grade btw* and he was openly gay... i always that he was kinda handsome, not cute, but handsome....anyway, he turned around and he was BUCK NAKED! and, i got soo....happy....and i kissed him.....for very long....like an hour.....and then, a boy walked in, not noticing us kissing, and crouched down....he was in his black boxers, and no shirt...and happend to be gay too....and i liked him...alot....so, i left the other guy for a second, and started kissing the guy who walked in.....and then the 1st guy came over, and started, like, petting the guys chest....and i got sooooooo horny...and then all of us 3 started...getting it on............i wont go farther, but when we finished, there was no1 else in the house...and it was midnight.....yea...THE END!...dont laugh.... :oops: Great story! Lol!
Syvelocin
March 10th, 2010, 11:49 PM
*sigh* Never thought I'd drop by this board.
Well... I was confused as a kid. My whole idea when I was younger was that I thought girls were so much prettier than guys, I envied guys because I thought they got the more attractive sex to love. I was worried, after thinking the same way through school. Though I distictly remember having a crush on an actor in like 2nd grade, and through that I denied it and decided I was straight. I still like guys now. But recently, there's one girl that I actually would "go lesbian for" and it's kind of confusing me. o.O Only one girl. Bahhh. I just wish I could know if I was bi for sure.
supercharm100
March 11th, 2010, 10:26 PM
hhmmmm, usualy it is some wat dificult to figur out!:[ i had to try stuf out b4 i catargorized myself, u'll find it guy.. dnt sweat it, if u like this at 1 point nd that at anuthr that wat the hell! go for it:)!
Scarface
March 12th, 2010, 09:55 AM
i always knew that i never liked woman in that sort of way, but when i kissed a boy for the first time in the 8th grade it was clarified. Since then i've accepted myself and I'm proud of who i am
Peace God
March 13th, 2010, 05:17 PM
I've never known what it was like not to be attracted good lookin people of any gender. I've also never heard one valid reason why i shouldn't be so...yeah
UndecidedMatter
March 17th, 2010, 12:58 PM
well my best guy friend announced he was gay and then my best friend announced she bi-sexual. So it made me think about how i feel.
im straight... but if a girl (im a girl) asked me out i would probably say yes. so im not bi-sexual but im straight och i dont know....
i think i might be bi-curious... in between straight and bi.
rainbowtweek
March 19th, 2010, 01:08 PM
I always felt like I was different from other boys in my school because when I was in the 5th grade I started havin this attraction towards other guys. Then when I was in middle school my feelings started growing but by then people were asking me was I gay I was denying ti. Until 8th grade I accepted that I was gay and life's been good since then
justn16IA
March 21st, 2010, 03:10 AM
I just love how a guys body develops and gets more cut, defined, muscular as we go thru puberty. I've been with a couple of guys casually and once with a girl and I definitely liked being with a guy a hell of a lot better. You can do so much with a guy and you get visual results you did a good job in more than one way.
YouKnowWho
March 23rd, 2010, 10:31 PM
How did I know...I liked boys and dreamt of girls. Didn't have a name for it, but it always felt natural.
MaliciousBunface
March 26th, 2010, 02:37 PM
I found out wen i started gettin crushes on guys in my class
ModernWarfare
March 28th, 2010, 10:52 AM
My neighbor is gay and I never knew it. One day he came over to play video games, and I had to change my clothes quick. I thought he wasn't paying attention and when I turned to grab my underwear, he was naked, masturbating. I walked over to my underwear drawer, grabbed 2 condoms, and we started having anul intercourse. It was all sucking at first, then having acutal intercours threw the anus.
YouKnowWho
March 29th, 2010, 09:55 PM
I haven't come out completely, but I never really "found out".. I openly liked guys, but dreamt of women at night. I just accepted both. I grew up in a semi-genderless home thanks to my mom. So it was never really "find out" it was more natural, like "of course I like both sexes!" kind of thing.
YouKnowWho
March 29th, 2010, 09:57 PM
Whoops commented on this twice. I'm forgetful xD Sorry!
Cherokee17
April 2nd, 2010, 04:09 PM
well i never told this story to anyone but when i was in elementary i think, me and my friend fell in the bushes and he fell on top of me and he started hunching me... so i guess in my mind it processed this as being normal lmao and then from that point on i slowly got more interested in guys but up to now i still do like guys and find them attractive but i also so like girls, but i didnt wana accept much that i was bi until last year so now im in the process of slowly accepting it... lol
nhhssuperstar
April 8th, 2010, 02:42 PM
I really don't remember at what age I knew I was bi but it has been a while
brummiejosh
April 13th, 2010, 07:30 AM
At 13 I went through a 2 week phase of being fully gay.
And then the summer of 2008 I fancied this guy on holiday and it went from there.
WilliamOrtego
April 19th, 2010, 11:41 AM
When I was ten i was at a neighbor's house and there was a guy there, he was sixteen and he came out of his room as if he had JUST woken up and his undies were very low, showing off his pubes and the base of his penis.
I got an erection from that, so about then I think I knew I could be gay. :]
peace
April 19th, 2010, 03:06 PM
I always knew.
Guyteen
April 19th, 2010, 06:46 PM
i think ive always known i as gay
Jack303
April 21st, 2010, 11:54 PM
I found out when me and my friend
were the last on changeing in the locker
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than we started dating so ya
One time I was change in in my room
and my friend was to and his boxers had
a hole and u saw his pennis so he said
I saw it so he had to see mine and he
took a pic so we are both gay .
angello
April 22nd, 2010, 07:53 AM
I was 16 when I kissed a guy first... Than I felt something inside...
hillmatic
April 25th, 2010, 02:17 PM
pardon me, my story might be a little longer than others.
Always thought I was straight up until around 6th or 7th grade when I recognized that I was curious but not fully gay.
When I got to high school I dated a girl for a little over a year. At first I was just trying to convince myself that I was straight, but I fell in love with this girl. and not like a gay guy and his best girl-friend, I was attracted to her. I knew this was real.
A little while after we broke up, I explored my sexuality with guys. I liked it. I thought I was gay. Then I hooked up with a girl. Then I got really confused. It wasn't until last year that I acknowledged I was bisexual. I haven't come out yet. Think I'm gonna wait till after high school. Too much drama already here.
Mitch14
May 17th, 2010, 01:07 AM
i honestly am confused, i like girls, but i have lots of close friends that are girls and whenever they have guy problems i comfort them, i dont really notice guys, well except for one filipino guy in my class. am i just sensitive or gay?
Zeh Crazy
May 20th, 2010, 10:49 PM
I've always known. Ever since I was a little kid. I've always felt like a boy, too. I grew up thinking it was wrong (because of my grandma), but inside, it was always there.
cristian123
May 20th, 2010, 11:09 PM
im pretty sure im bi couris because i find boys and girls attractive
CaliKid24
May 23rd, 2010, 04:29 AM
ive always thot girls were hot. since i looked at playboy wen i was like 4. and i always hav been attracted to guys so i guess ive known im bi forever.
xHunterXloganx
May 23rd, 2010, 07:45 PM
It started when in PE i saw this guys abs, and i was like woah, totall hotty over here!
brandon6123
May 24th, 2010, 01:50 AM
im straight but i like talking to bi guys on omegle and letting them tell me what to myself
Andyx.x
May 24th, 2010, 01:06 PM
Although im only 14 turning 15, i've realized that im gay. I really enjoy watching gay porn, and masturbating to it. There is this one guy whos locker is beside mine and I fantasize about him alot, in fact I moved lockers just to be beside his. I've never had any sexual experiences with a guy outside of my imagination. I really want to give oral to men, it is such a turn on for me, just the thought of a man inside me is amazingly orgasmic. Breasts and vaginas totally turn me off, I cannot watch porn with women in it at all. I'm not openly gay, and havn't told anyone, but I wish I could.
jaydawg729
May 24th, 2010, 05:09 PM
i knew since i was 5 i had a feeling for boys, but then i also liked girls. i didn't know that the word bisexual exsisted until i was 13
CaliKid24
May 24th, 2010, 10:30 PM
same thing as the person above me.
boy_
May 28th, 2010, 11:28 AM
I was 100% sure that I'm gay when I was 13..
ryker
May 29th, 2010, 04:06 PM
I still question what sexual orientatio I have. I think I is gay
ThomasB.
May 30th, 2010, 11:09 AM
I think i've always had feelings for both sexes. Only a while ago I thought I was Gay, and then Straight, and Gay again and thats when I realised that I was Bi-Sexual!! ;)
justsomekid
June 2nd, 2010, 11:47 PM
well it was slow like I was close with his brother as friends. I never thought of him or his brother as anything other than guys I knew pretty well and that he was my buddy from 1rst grade. He never judged me for my type of friends. We did everything together. It all changed when I was 12. His brother camfrom summer camp. I just noticed he was a lot more sexy and defined you know what I mean. Well I always felt pretty hot when he was around. Well my relationship with my ex-girlfrind was pretty rocky. I had a hard day and well he was there and tat was when I realized thatI did like guys sometimes. Either that or that my relationship made me willing to let my true feelings out.
Freak_show_and_PROUD
June 3rd, 2010, 06:34 PM
i realized i was bi when my boyfriend and my best friend went out to the movies ton hang out and it got to a really sexual scene and i was siting between them and realized i was have troble keeping my hands to myself
turns out my best friend is bi and was afraid to tell us she confessed the next morning after an akward night now we are all kinda together but i feel bad because i am in love with my boyfriend and have been for a year and lets just say i can be a little jelous...ok more like RAVING BITCH JELOUS when they start to pay to much attention to each other im confused. help?
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