Curious with freinds

[Shockme]

I hear so many guys saying they always wank and suck there friends but how do they know their friends are curious i would find it really hard to ask my friends that. How can i ask them?, i don't want them to say no and me be embarrassed. So have any of you guys asked your friends and what did they say?

[TheMJS]

Are you talking about male or female fiends?

[Shockme]

male

[TheMJS]

I spelt friends wrong. Oops.

Never asked a male before!

[Neptune]

I don't think most people just ask ''Hey, can I suck your dick?'' I think most of the time, people start off the conversations with stuff that lead up to the question. Like maybe saying ''What your size? Wanna compare?'' and that leads to something else.

[Unsolvedmind]

your all just at that age where you all are experimenting

[jimmy-magic]

I would suggest, if it is indeed with one of or your closest friends don't rush into anything, it would be terrible to ruin a friendship or risk ruining a friendship over a bit of curiosity. A good way I would feel to have a chance of this happening is simply watching some porn with him, just put on a straight porn clip, if he get's into and seems to be enjoying it, bring up wanking off to it in a joking light hearted way, gage his reaction if he freaks out a bit then at least it looks like you were joking.

If he says 'i would' or seems keen on the idea, then try and take it from there. It really is a hard thing to happen, it happend to me by complete suprise as i wasn't looking for it to happen. Just don't rush itno it, and if it does happen, dont take it to far just do whatever he wants to do so you don't scare him off or make him regret it.

[Akily007]

You could start by doing dares or comparing

[Electra Heart]

ease into it, you dont want to go scarring them for life

[Nyxeka]

truth and dare was the way that I was able to do it.

[hhhfiuashfosihdf]

Just be confident and ask him , maybe like "I've never asked you what your sexuality is" or something?

[russsh]

i have let my friends see me naked 'accidentaly' and seen their reaction then u can talk about it easier or if they dont want to chat its kinda obvious

[russsh]

i shouldve said that is how ive done it at sleepovers

[Willie98]

They are your friend, you must know something about them, how they act, what they think about. I agree, do things that are teasing, playful, things that can't come back to hurt you. Or confide in him a secret of yours that you "trust him enough to share" that is just on the border of "weird". See how he reacts. Look to him for sympathy and comfort. If he handles that well, you will have learned a lot more about him. Remember, he is not the boss. He loos to you too, for guidance on what the friendship is to include.

That's how I got my boyfriend. I worked at becoming the best, closest possible friend, and then introduced him to the idea of experimenting. He followed my lead, and now he is the one always asking, he is the one always in a hurry for more.

[BoroBoi95]

i have done, wait until their horny at a sleepover or jokily ask them something ''gay'' and see their reaction

[lambo420]

when they go out of the room for a sec, quickly put on porn and than go back to where you were sitting and say oh dude you have a pop up on your computer. Lol see what they do?

[Unlucky_Leprechaun]

Starts with dares or comparing and usually watching porn of some sort will trigger stuff. Yea, you don't want to ask right out... but ease into the conversation about experimenting..or man that looks awesome or something along those lines.

[Coolcat1314]

i knew my friend was straight and he doesnt do gay things so i aske him if he considered jacking together being gay...he said yes:'(

[PerpetualMotionSquad]

I didn't ask I just showed him that experimenting was normal and he suggested doing it

[tony123]

ease into it, you dont want to go scarring them for life

true dude

[jfletchy]

just start talking bout sx and ur dicks n stuff c if he gets hard then ask to c it? its just sumthing tht happens really

[AustinFB]

just wait to see if it just happens i guess.

[logan fields]

until just a little while ago i never even thought about stuff like this but now i do and it scares me because it makes me think i might be gay. i have a few friends that i think are nice looking and i wonder sometimes if they do stuff like experiment but i would never have the balls to ever ask them because if they didnt they would think i was gay and i dont want anyone thinking that. i read all this stuff on vt and wish people where we lived would think like this but if they do they never talk about it.

[Trinity_15]

no i havent we just end up doing it some how

[Whitehoopster]

I always just wanna jack off I'm str8 but when I have a friend over idk how they'd react to it

[iCookie Jar]

Be careful though, my friend blackmailed me into wanking him off. He was the only person who knew i was gay, so he said he'd tell everyone if I didn't do it. Obviously we're not friends anymore.

Just be careful. make sure it's a mutual thing.

[Kaius]

Please don't bump old threads :locked: