How to go about starting over.

[Dack]

I need help from those of you more fortunate to have people you can trust. As you may know, I lost my last close friend whom I trusted.

I want to start this year fresh. How would I go about doing that? I'm the guy who sits back and is quiet most of the time, usually. But I want to change. Want to get invited to parties, get drunk, fool around, y'know, just be the kid that people go to first when planning something. Experience being a teenager instead of this shell I'm in, and I have a feeling it won't be easy to do. How should I go about doing it? I don't expect anything spontaneous, and I don't want to have to literally fight my way up, so I need some help with it.

Alot of you have experienced stuff like it, and I want help being maybe not the cool guy, but at least the guy who people want to hang with.

[Vonn]

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Find someone who sounds exactly like that and befriend them. Or at least see how they behave and try to mimic them without being creepy. Or just be more sociable. Whatever works for you.

[TheMJS]

I had the same thing with a lady friend... we fell out and didn't talk for months... see was really pissed off at me. But because we see each other everyday we just got on with it, put the past behind and slowly moved on... No need for childish falling out shit.. we're not 5

[mxiii]

firstly, what happened between you guys? if its your fault, go apologize. if it isnt your fault, go apologize =D. then take baby steps to becoming friends. ur no longer 6. people of your age shouldnt hold grudges.

[Dack]

He thinks I stole his girlfriend. I suppose I kind of did....:but not in the way he thinks that I did. I am not going to apologize for something I did not do.

I just want to be a different person, is that too much to fucking ask?

[mxiii]

he tinks you stole his girlfriend? well if he really is your friend, he wouldnt put a girl ahead of your friendship. its your call . IMHO, U should go clear things up wit him. Ask him what happened between you guys . if you tink its not your fault, try to reason wit him. if you tink its your fault, apologize. =DD

[cpr97]

imho n no offense ment by this but it seems like your quiet cuz maybe your not happy with yourself n in order for others to like you n be happy around you you gotta like n be happy bout yourself first
deff try n patch things up with your friend though talk bout it openly (dont blame him n dont let him blame you) just talk things out chances are it was a misunderstandin i doubt either of you would of purposely done somethin to hurt eachother or ruin a friendship... we all make mistakes specially at this point in our lifes our bodys are changin so fast i know ive done stupid things recently anyways