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Baby_James94
August 28th, 2011, 08:12 PM
Well I've always had a theory that all guys have been someone bi-curious at some point and had some level of fantasy's about other guys. Now the more time I spend the more I realize that I was right. So my question is, why exactly is it that guys who get these fantasy's, feelings, and curiosity rarely ever act on it. Is it just society? That they don't want to be picked on for it? Or does it have to do with them thinking it's not normal.
I know this is a semi odd post, but I honestly think that if guys who had these bi curious feelings experimented they would find that they might like it. I don't know though, anyone have any ideas?
OptimusPrime
August 28th, 2011, 08:29 PM
I have had some level of feelings for guys (and did act on them)
Never experiemented but I know I'm bi already. :)
Fear
August 28th, 2011, 08:36 PM
No, never had. I feel very uncomfortable and ashamed if I did. And, the fact that if anyone found out if I did, probably would never been the same again.
Baby_James94
August 28th, 2011, 08:44 PM
No, never had. I feel very uncomfortable and ashamed if I did. And, the fact that if anyone found out if I did, probably would never been the same again.
I don't understand why ashamed. To better word the question I guess would probably make this poll easier for people. So whoever decides to read the comments here is a better phrased question. Have you ever felt any type of sexual attraction to a member of the same sex, which includes erections caused by someone of the same sex, whether they forced it or you saw something about them you liked and it excited you. I guess would be a better way to word things. lol
russjr08
August 28th, 2011, 08:44 PM
No, never had. I feel very uncomfortable and ashamed if I did. And, the fact that if anyone found out if I did, probably would never been the same again.
Well, you shouldn't have to be ashamed. It happens to almost every guy at least once. It's just hormones, and if someone found out, well sometimes you can't let people control your lives because of what they say. Chances are, it probably has happened to them too, they just don't admit it.
Fear
August 28th, 2011, 08:48 PM
Maybe once...
Baby_James94
August 28th, 2011, 08:51 PM
Maybe once...
and there isn't anything wrong with that. I honestly have a theory that at one point, even for just a split second every male has some sort of attraction/curiosity/desire for the same sex. But a lot of people bury those feelings deep down and never let them surface again because they are afraid of what others would think.
Kdude146
August 28th, 2011, 08:59 PM
well I am yet to do anything with my BF cuz he lives 14 hours away from me I asked him out cuz I want to do things with him and he wants to do things to me
Fear
August 28th, 2011, 09:02 PM
and there isn't anything wrong with that. I honestly have a theory that at one point, even for just a split second every male has some sort of attraction/curiosity/desire for the same sex. But a lot of people bury those feelings deep down and never let them surface again because they are afraid of what others would think.
That's a good theory.
Unsolvedmind
August 28th, 2011, 09:13 PM
love being Bisexual <3
Unlucky_Leprechaun
August 28th, 2011, 09:24 PM
I'm not sure where the feelings come from..maybe its from boys hanging out with other boys and wanting to check out the competition...being curious is one thing but acting on them ( experimenting) is another...I pretty much knew from a young age I was more attracted to guys...most do not know about it...as I keep it to myself
Baby_James94
August 28th, 2011, 09:28 PM
I'm not sure where the feelings come from..maybe its from boys hanging out with other boys and wanting to check out the competition...being curious is one thing but acting on them ( experimenting) is another...I pretty much knew from a young age I was more attracted to guys...most do not know about it...as I keep it to myself
I've been attracted to guys as long as I can remember. I think a lot of its simple curiousity and wanting to see what others look like. I've found out a lot of homophobes have experimented but they were always taught it was wrong. Which confuses me because for them to do what they did there would have been some amount of attraction. You know?
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Electra Heart
August 28th, 2011, 09:45 PM
im bi, love girls and boys, love it
Coolcat1314
August 28th, 2011, 10:23 PM
i currently have sexual attraction towards other guys (only sexual) and its driving me nuts (no pun intended)
Calex
August 29th, 2011, 12:21 AM
I had feelings for the same sex, acted on it and loved it haha yet I still have feelings for girls but more for guys haha
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