From a guy to a girl. (confused)

[Baby_James94]

Alright. I'm gay and have been or sooooo long.. Now, I only recently came out to friend about a year and half to two years ago. When I was claiming to be bi I made it a last ditch effort to stay bi and would always flirt and make out with my friend (girl). (I didn't want to believe I was gay, no avoiding it after a whole life of it though I guess). Well, she was the first person I told because she's my best friend. She always make's comments about how she doesnt believe me. Well until recently, she starts making comments about how it's gay night at the bowling alley and we should go and stuff. I'm sure it shouldn't be confusing other than she just finally accepted it and stuff. But a lot of times she will still kiss me and if I don't kiss her back she get's kinda down. I love her, as a friend of course, and I'm not grossed out with girls, it's just I don't want her to get hurt thinking that since i'm allowing her to kiss me that I'm into her like that. You know? Any advice? From guys or girls, it doesnt matter.

1.) What should I do?
2.) Am I leading her on if I've made it clear I'm 100% gay?
3.) Does it make me a bad friend because I allow her to do that?
4.) Are there any girls in this situation? Where they like their gay friend or whatever.
5.) Is it weird that I allow it to happen? I KNOW I'm gay. No doubt about it, do you think I just allow it because she's my friend? or what.

[vtRED]

1.) What should I do? tell her straight up how you feel, from what you wrote sounds like you already have, just remind her that you want to be friends, just friends.
2.) Am I leading her on if I've made it clear I'm 100% gay? sounds like you made it clear that you gay.
3.) Does it make me a bad friend because I allow her to do that? no, just tell her you wont to be friends and you enjoy being around her
4.) Are there any girls in this situation? Where they like their gay friend or whatever.
5.) Is it weird that I allow it to happen? I KNOW I'm gay. No doubt about it, do you think I just allow it because she's my friend? or what. maybe your having seconds thoughts and arent completely gay maybe you just bi?

[Baby_James94]

1.) What should I do? tell her straight up how you feel, from what you wrote sounds like you already have, just remind her that you want to be friends, just friends.
2.) Am I leading her on if I've made it clear I'm 100% gay? sounds like you made it clear that you gay.
3.) Does it make me a bad friend because I allow her to do that? no, just tell her you wont to be friends and you enjoy being around her
4.) Are there any girls in this situation? Where they like their gay friend or whatever.
5.) Is it weird that I allow it to happen? I KNOW I'm gay. No doubt about it, do you think I just allow it because she's my friend? or what. maybe your having seconds thoughts and arent completely gay maybe you just bi?

Lol no I'm not bi. I'm gay. I have no attraction to girls at all. There aren't any second thoughts. I'm just confused on why she still kisses me amd stuff.

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[Fear]

That's a tough one in my opinion. She's got to accept the fact that you're gay, and kissing you isn't going to make you change. Does she kiss you on the lips and tries to make out, or as a gentle peck on the cheek?

[Baby_James94]

That's a tough one in my opinion. She's got to accept the fact that you're gay, and kissing you isn't going to make you change. Does she kiss you on the lips and tries to make out, or as a gentle peck on the cheek?

She'll kiss me on the lips. We've made out before. Idk to me it's more like it's for fun. I don't think she's trying to change me because she's introduced me to a lot of guys and stuff. But idk.

[Fear]

Still. You don't know whats going on in her mind.

[Baby_James94]

Yeah that's true. I just don't know how to bring all of that up again. :/

[Fear]

I can imagine.