Ugh so annoying

[Nathan13]

So when a girl hangs around with a bunch of boys and plays shooter and football its ok they get called "tomboy" but when i hang around with some girls to play DS games together, bounce on a trampoline and play tig games i get accused of either 'liking' the girl(s) or being gay. and it was my cousin who is 18 who even said it.

[christcenteredlife]

nathan13, your positions on things are changing constantly. one day you hang out with 8 year olds and don't care what anyone has to say about it. now suddenly you care what your 18 year old cousin thinks. why? i don't believe i'm the only only one who's confused here.

[AppealToReason]

Double standards.
Sucks, but sometimes you have to just deal with it and move on.

[DerBear]

nathan13, your positions on things are changing constantly. one day you hang out with 8 year olds and don't care what anyone has to say about it. now suddenly you care what your 18 year old cousin thinks. why? i don't believe i'm the only only one who's confused here.

Yes I agree Christcenteredlife. Nathan you are always changing your mind one minute your like "fuck it, I dont care what anyone says" next you are like "Well my cousin has said ********* and I need help" I am getting confused too the max when it comes to your posts

[Nathan13]

Yes I agree Christcenteredlife. Nathan you are always changing your mind one minute your like "fuck it, I dont care what anyone says" next you are like "Well my cousin has said ********* and I need help" I am getting confused too the max when it comes to your posts

Every post i have made has been becuase of what my cousin has said i wouldntr be here if it wasnt for him annoying me about every little thing.

I don't care what anyone says but when my cousin annoys me 24/7 it's quite annoying

[DerBear]

Yes because he seems like he makes sense.

No point in making posts about it because you are the only one who can tell him to shut the fuck up

[Kujiro]

Not to sound rude, but silverwolf and kai are right.
Your both threads contradict each other at the poles.

If you have the mindset to not careless about the world, and enjoy what is infront of you.
Why are you deluded by your cousin's mere comments.

If his/her intention is to annoy you, just to see your reaction. Then i'd suppose she is successful.

You have made up your mind to have friends which you told me :
These people most are 13 and younger so im more likely to be the one to influence them. though i won't

So im sure you should be happy with whats happening around you now?

Why not do what you have already planned on doing, and ignore your cousin?
Afterall, i'd suppose its for the best.

Good luck
*smile*

[DoctorWho]

Well when has being gay or liking the girls been wrong huh

[Nathan13]

There is nothing wrong with being gay its just becuase im not and i dont like the girld and i posted this to see if my cousin is wrong meaning is it ok?(in your opinion)

[Kujiro]

There is no defination to right and wrong.
There are only perspectives and opinions, 2 sides with 2 different stand points.
To you, she may be annoying, but it could mean something else to her.

Talking to her would be the best way to stop it, if its annoying you. Any form of reaction or getting irritated by her comments would evidently fuel her anxiety to spike you further.
You may choose to ignore her, or choose to talk to her. It depends on which approach you intend to take to work it out.

Good luck
*smile*

[Solvez18]

ok, so suddenly hanging with girls makes u gay.... but it makes me a guy that has "scored" a bunch of girls.... im not even gay, i just hang out with girls i know if i want. they don't mind. were all people, just different genders. if u have ever heard of Human Rights one of ur rights as a human is "We r all born free and equal" so were all the same in different ways. and we have alot of other human rights too.

[Nathan13]

ok, so suddenly hanging with girls makes u gay.... but it makes me a guy that has "scored" a bunch of girls.... im not even gay, i just hang out with girls i know if i want. they don't mind. were all people, just different genders. if u have ever heard of Human Rights one of ur rights as a human is "We r all born free and equal" so were all the same in different ways. and we have alot of other human rights too.

Yes that is why i am asking questions becuase my big male 18 year old cousin says its wrong and im either gay or a pedo for doimg it

[Sporadica]

tell the people who say that to bug off, you don't need to listen to them also why should you care what they think?

[superstar2067]

Double standards, life is full of them and they suck

[kuuliluuk]

You shouldn't care much about what other say. If they say such things, they demonstrate their immaturity.

[mxiii]

there is nothing wrong. their just finding fault. humans react this way =D
dun change just because of them. it would ruin ur life

[Nathan13]

Thanks guys, rteally :)