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Baby_James94
August 27th, 2011, 09:40 PM
Does anyone else feel really guilty when you get a random erection around friends or family. Not caused by sexual thoughts, just one of those random ones. I always feel so freakin guilty and filthy for it. I know there's nothing bad about it, it just kinda puts me on a big old guilt trip. :(

Byrdman10
August 27th, 2011, 09:42 PM
uhh no just dont think bout it haha

Tenoramic
August 27th, 2011, 10:03 PM
I don't feel guilty or anything just annoying.

Fear
August 27th, 2011, 10:07 PM
I feel embarrassed. I try to hide it as quickly as possible.

Baby_James94
August 27th, 2011, 10:22 PM
I get embarrassed And try hiding it as fast as I Can but I'm sure my dad knows what's going on

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lambo420
August 27th, 2011, 10:24 PM
Not guilty.. more like aggravated lol I Hate random boners at the wrong time! Its embarrassing if someone notices

OptimusPrime
August 27th, 2011, 10:27 PM
I used to get them over hot people on Facebook. Though I rarely get 'random' ones anymore.

IanB
August 27th, 2011, 10:27 PM
Never thought about it

logan fields
August 27th, 2011, 11:06 PM
yea i dont feel guilty or anything but i hope they dont notice it and try to turn away or something

Unlucky_Leprechaun
August 27th, 2011, 11:42 PM
Embarrassed and annoyed as well. Nothing you can do, but try n hide it the best way possible at the moment... i feel for ya and I am sure it has happened to A LOT of guys on VT

Kujiro
August 27th, 2011, 11:47 PM
I would fall more to the embarassed side, than to guilt.
It varies from household to household.
If your parents are not that open minded on sexual discussions and have been telling you that wanking is bad, then perhaps there would be this old guilt trip that you mentioned.

But in general everyone would be embarassed if they sprout a boner with others around, its natural to have such feelings.

Just do not make it more obvious than it already is, im sure everything would be fine.
Many a times, attempts to cover up would cause people to realise it, rather than not doing anything about it.

Good luck
*smile*

Baby_James94
August 28th, 2011, 02:01 AM
I would fall more to the embarassed side, than to guilt.
It varies from household to household.
If your parents are not that open minded on sexual discussions and have been telling you that wanking is bad, then perhaps there would be this old guilt trip that you mentioned.

But in general everyone would be embarassed if they sprout a boner with others around, its natural to have such feelings.

Just do not make it more obvious than it already is, im sure everything would be fine.
Many a times, attempts to cover up would cause people to realise it, rather than not doing anything about it.

Good luck
*smile*

My parents are VERY open about sexuality. I was raised knowing what a penis and vagina were, knowing where babies came from, knowing what sex was. (No it was not taught negatively, they just wanted me to know). I do get embarrassed and I dont know if it's guilt or just feeling awkward I guess. Sometimes I have to adjust if I'm in the car with my dad, because I have to get out of the car. I've become a master at quick adjustments though. But I guess other guys and stuff would probably notice since i'm sure they have had to do it.

Mehloljk
August 28th, 2011, 02:03 AM
Not At All, I just don't think about an it goes away right away :3

Kujiro
August 28th, 2011, 02:04 AM
My parents are VERY open about sexuality. I was raised knowing what a penis and vagina were, knowing where babies came from, knowing what sex was. (No it was not taught negatively, they just wanted me to know). I do get embarrassed and I dont know if it's guilt or just feeling awkward I guess. Sometimes I have to adjust if I'm in the car with my dad, because I have to get out of the car. I've become a master at quick adjustments though. But I guess other guys and stuff would probably notice since i'm sure they have had to do it.

Then i'd suppose, its not an old guilt trip, just alittle embarrassment and awkwardness in place.

Nothing to worry about, we get that all the time.
And if people are able unable to notice such, you have mastered being stealthy about it.

Cheers
*smile*

hollisterboi95
August 28th, 2011, 02:16 AM
I hate random boners! I wish I couldn't get them, I get them for no reason, Especially in school, then when I'm called up to the board I have to think fast and hide it. It's normal though, I feel more of an embarrassment though. I am not self conciois of my size or anything. I just would hate to be the kid with the boner all the time. I have like 25 erections daily.

hhhfiuashfosihdf
August 28th, 2011, 05:52 AM
Nope I normally feel irritated and annoyed. Because I hate getting them.

soxandboxersboy
August 28th, 2011, 10:25 AM
yeah i get random boners all the time but i dont get embarrassed. if girls r around i hide them, but if its only guys around, i dont even try to hide them, i dont care if guys see me with boners

SWMG
August 28th, 2011, 10:46 AM
I jusy feel embarassed

Unsolvedmind
August 28th, 2011, 11:18 AM
no not really

BeachBoy
August 28th, 2011, 12:24 PM
Doesnt bother me at all. I just make a few quick adjustments and its all good. All guys get them when you dont want to sometimes so around my guy friends I could care less if they see. If they get one when they see me with one well thats a diff story?? hahaha

Jdima911
August 28th, 2011, 12:47 PM
its annoying for sure.. like one time during class i had a boner and it lasted almost the whole period, and when it was time to leave i was walking out the class with the backpack in front of my boner. pretty embarassing

darkknight
September 9th, 2011, 08:18 PM
every guy gets random boners in some part of their lifes

soxandboxersboy
September 10th, 2011, 08:05 AM
i was thinking about ur question, and i think i know why ur feeling the way u do. ur thinking if u get an erection around a family member, then that means ur secretly attracted to them - not true! tell urself they r just random and u cant help it so u dont feel bad about urself. plus u say ur family is very open, so they will understand that they just happen.

russjr08
September 10th, 2011, 03:49 PM
I don't feel guilty, just embarassed, because they happen everywhere. I just try to hide it the best I can though when it happens. Plus, random boners can be bad! What if your girlfriend saw you look at another girl and then you got one.... it would be hard to explain.