guy friends

[osa-cur199]

:what:im in high school and its good and all but im having trouble making guy friends. im not in sports so thats not a topic of intrest to talk to other guys. im thinking whts keeping me from making guy friends is that i have alot of friends that are girls. Im thinking they might thnk im gay or something and avoid me. i just want guy friends because i dont want to talk about certain stuff to girls its getting lonely for me at high school. :what:

[LifeisLife]

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[Guillermo]

Not ALL guys care about or like sports. I know that sometimes it might seem like this, but I know a few guys that really don't care about that stuff. All I can say about this is make more (girl) friends and sometimes they might have friends that could also be friends with you...Or just be on the look out for guys that look friendly.

[AppealToReason]

Join a class or club that interests you. It doesn't have to be a sport, it can be band, art, aquatics, anything. It's easiest to make friends when you both have something in common.

[DerBear]

Not all guys care about sports.

You just need to find these guys. Join clubs or talk to guys in class (obvoiusly not when teaching is taken place) Try to find common intrests.

[Fear]

I'm the complete opposite. I odon't have many guy friends, and no female friends at all. The best thing to do is, maybe in class, sit next to someone new, if they are struggling, maybe help them during class. Maybe ask a few questions and see what happens.

[Contra]

I am exactly the same and I came to this thread looking for advice, but perhaps I can leave a word of encouragement. Maybe you have the luck, unlike me, to live in a big city so maybe it's easier for you to find people.
My advice would be, talk to your girl friends and see if they have any guy friends you could meet, maybe you could all go out together, that's a good opportunity.

Best of luck :)

[Smartypants]

Well i always make my way to talk to guys by just talking about food, working out and compliimenting them lol.

[Nathan13]

Hey im a guy and i don't care about sports its probably better to have "girl friends" because then when you are older you will have a lot of girl friends who might become your real girlfriend

[mxiii]

well , not all guys is interested in sports. even if they are, im pretty sure they don't talk about sports ALL THE TIME. just trying making friends and try sports =D who knows? u might just be good at it. having girl friends is fine just don't get involved in their "high school drama" . it will kill u!

[Sporadica]

:what:im in high school and its good and all but im having trouble making guy friends. im not in sports so thats not a topic of intrest to talk to other guys. im thinking whts keeping me from making guy friends is that i have alot of friends that are girls. Im thinking they might thnk im gay or something and avoid me. i just want guy friends because i dont want to talk about certain stuff to girls its getting lonely for me at high school. :what:

well I always raise my hand in class and speak so people take notice of me, but alot in class i'll lean over and make a wisecrack and so people will talk to me, i don't have too much of a problem

my advice is that you just make small talk with people

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