what should i say?

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basically my mate offered me a blow job, i said no.. im straight and i think he's bi but he tells me he's just curious. we experimented (just handjobs) when we were younger and i regretted it afterwards and found it awkward to speak to him as i think he told his friends.. but now im wondering what a bj feels like... i dont know any girls around where i live that are into me and i dunno weather i should see if he's still willing, im not attracted to him i am just getting really horny. we're both 18 and i know if i say yes ill regret it but i want to experience one really bad... if i ever get the courage should i say yes and would it mean im gay?

[Baby_James94]

Lol getting oral from a guy doesn't make you gay. Just do what your comfortable with

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[thebgsamuel]

well say yes if you regret it (you wont a bj is soooo great! to me anyway) well to bad you will have tried ad least and if you dont well your gonna wonder about it probably a long time and geting a bj from a guy doesnt make you gay just curious!

[LuckyLuke]

Whether or not it's worth destroying a friendship and possibly your reputation over a few minutes of sexual pleasure is a decision that's up to you.

Do I think it's worth it? No.

[StoppingTime]

I don't think you should if you aren't comfortable with it. Like Luke said, is it worth ruining a friendship over that?

[thebgsamuel]

Whether or not it's worth destroying a friendship and possibly your reputation over a few minutes of sexual pleasure is a decision that's up to you.

Do I think it's worth it? No.

well it actualy could. i didn't think of it like that...

[BeachBoy]

doesnt mean your gay. Just be careful with your friend you dont want to loose that. Have a frind who is gay and he as wanted to suck me off mant times but I say no. he is a good friend and dont want to loose that. even though a good bj would be hot

[spoke]

if you regretted masturbating with him, and were afraid he told people about it, i think you'd regret lettimg him gie you a b/j even more. as the other guys said, friendship is more important.

[Kujiro]

Firstly, giving or recieving a blowjob does not determine your sexuality.
As being homosexual, one would have to explore the emotional aspect as well.

You mentioned you think he told his friends, is it paranoia due to the guilt? Or did he admit to you that he told his friends about it?

Its normal to be curious of how it's going to feel like, especially if you never had one.
There is no right or wrong answer, the choice is always up to you.

If you feel that you would regret doing so, then i would suggest it should not start either.

It comes down to how much you trust him as well, but im sure if you are uncomfortable doing it with him, then it would be better for curiousity to wait.
There is not a need to rush to satisify this curiousity, in due time you would get your window for it.

Good luck
*smile*

[ericthekid]

go for it