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Jamie
August 26th, 2011, 02:17 AM
I recently met this boy near me, who's extremely attractive, very nice and funny, and an all-around good guy. I've taken quite the liking to him, and he has to me as well. We've done... cyber things together. And now we're thinking of more than that. Tonight he asked me if I had condoms... and now I'm wondering more about this. My best mate said he finds it a bit immoral for someone to sleep with a thirteen year old, regardless of age. I mean, I am only 3 years older (we both just turned our current ages within the past month and a half). Neither of us are virgins (or so he says). I suppose my question is, what would you do? And how do you see this?
Any advice is appreciated. :)
Skyhawk
August 26th, 2011, 02:34 AM
Well, I usually don't care for age gaps of over 2 years, but it's your relationship, not mine.

I have no idea as for your location due to age of consent laws.

I think 13 is too young for sex anyway.
Jamie
August 26th, 2011, 03:18 AM
The state of California, United States.
OptimusPrime
August 26th, 2011, 03:22 AM
Well, I usually don't care for age gaps of over 2 years, but it's your relationship, not mine.

I have no idea as for your location due to age of consent laws.

I think 13 is too young for sex anyway.

Agreed with this guy.
screamtobeheard
August 26th, 2011, 05:52 AM
Three years is no big deal of an age gaps in some relationships; however, you're only thirteen. A lot of people will take advantage of the fact that someone's found like that and will use them for sex, especially if they're more than a year or two older. I mean, he could be different, but that's just my experience. I'd probably drop the relationship personally. I don't like to be used for sex.
MalditoDia
August 27th, 2011, 03:18 PM
^ i agree with this guy bout being used. Its your relationship and you should wait a lil while. I had this same thing last year but i was 14 and she was 18. Have fun do you!
jaden6
August 27th, 2011, 08:48 PM
13 NO way
Smartypants
August 27th, 2011, 08:59 PM
If I was his brother I won't let him... maybe wait a few more years?
Rawrgasm
August 30th, 2011, 07:47 AM
theres always a risk, even with a condom.. i would rather it happen at 15 then 13...
jacobcox13
September 27th, 2011, 10:40 PM
i beleive its ok if you both want to go for it :yes:
mark15
September 28th, 2011, 01:20 AM
its okay if u feel comfortable with that why not