I'm in love with my best friend.

[Logan8]

I know this may sound cheesy to some, but it was all straight from the heart.


There's this girl. I've known her for 3 years now. I dont know a great way to explain her, but I'll give it my best shot. She's everything a guy would want in a girl. She's beautiful, smart, funny, and everything else. She is one of those girls you dream about. We have a special bond, we both have had problems and we can talk about them together. She asked me out 2 years ago, but I was too young and stupid to say yes. I regret this decision all the time. People say "Oh, you're too young to fully understand love." They do not know this girl. I used to talk/text her all the time, but lately we have stopped talking so much. It kind of seems like she has lost some of her interest in me, but I'm not sure. What should I do??

[LittlePaperStars]

Well, maybe you can try talking to her about it?
I mean, you're friends, right?
You could try asking if you can hang out again, because you miss the bond you have...
That's what I'd do. :)

Good luck!

[itsandrew_]

You should talk to her about it. Like Robin said, ask to hang out with her, tell her you miss the bond you guys had. And just keep talking for a while. Maybe, she might ask you out again, or you could ask her.

[OptimusPrime]

You need to follow your heart. If you want and love this girl you need to make people understand that.

[Kujiro]

People say "Oh, you're too young to fully understand love."

Who are they to judge? While even people of their age are having headaches and getting wasted on alcohol and drugs because of love?

Firstly, it takes 2 hands to clap, if she has stopped talking to you, does it too mean that you have been sitting down and waiting for her to talk to you as well?

It does seem that you have been rather passive in this friendship, and at times waiting for things to happen.
I dont mean to be rude, but i feel you should try to take the lead and take the initiative to ask her.

You may have "rejected" her 2 years ago, but it does not mean its a fullstop to the line.
Now that you are 15, and clearly the path infront of you is clearer than 2 years before.

Start by rekindling the friendship bonds, take it a step at a time.
Understand that in these 2 years, people grow and change. Perspectives and goals would change.
Start it from scratch, understand from her perspective and proceed from where you left off.

Nothing is impossible, if you really want it, im sure you will find a way to make it happen.
Confidence and perseverance are what you need in your arsenal for this journey.

Take it one step at a time, and im sure you will eventually reach your goal.
Remember to always stay positive at all times.

Good luck
*smile*