View Full Version : How to keep mind off ex?
Nameless
August 25th, 2011, 11:47 AM
Has anyone got any tips in keeping your mind off your Ex that just broke up with you? I don't feel like going out and meeting new girls at this time, so any ideas? Thanks
Kaius
August 25th, 2011, 11:54 AM
Explore your hobbies, don't turn to things like alcohol because it won't help, thats the biggest mistake i made when it came to my ex. Spend time with your friends and family and try and get out of the house. Is there any sports you like doing?
Nameless
August 25th, 2011, 11:58 AM
Thanks for the reply and speaking from experience. I'm currently on holiday with my parents and grandparents, we're on a small island and there really isn't much to do so i'm just by the pool the whole day and all i can do is think about her. I enjoy rugby but need to wait till I get back in a couple of weeks and for school to start again.
Hatsune Miku
August 25th, 2011, 12:18 PM
I'm in your exact situation right now. Just got broken up with and I will admit its hard to forget about your ex. The best thing you can do is talk to friends. Since you're far from any, you seem to have internet so talk to them online, anything to keep you busy.
Kaius
August 25th, 2011, 12:20 PM
Mhm, Matt has the right idea there. Also now you've got time why not find a tv show you like or something you've been meaning to watch
Nameless
August 25th, 2011, 12:33 PM
Cheers guys for these replys, sorry to hear about your break-up Matt hope it all goes well for you, nice name also ;) I'm really thankful for all this help, I'm having enough fun on here to keep my mind off it now that i've joined, once again thank you.
Tristin.
August 25th, 2011, 02:33 PM
i see some of my ex's everyday, i even have a class or two with one. I find the best way to do it, is just think about something else, or, now i do not recomend this, find a new boy. iv done this in the past and it helped. (DO NOT DO THIS!) other than that, focus on hobbies or anything that makes you forget them xx
Nameless
August 25th, 2011, 03:39 PM
Thanks for the reply.
Kujiro
August 26th, 2011, 02:39 PM
To be really honest, there is no way you are going to forget your ex.
Many years down the road and regardless, you know this person still exist.
Its difficult to get over a broken relationship, and these are wounds that only time will heal.
Going out and keeping yourself buzy is only temporary, but it helps you by keeping your mind buzy for that period of time.
The pain will strike when you are on your bed at night.
The trouble is finding something to fill that void that was created after she walked out of your life.
Whats most importantly you need to accept, accept that she is no longer where she used to be.
There is really no reason so stay at home, and get emotional when its likely she does not really give a thing about it.
Spend the extra time with your friends, the ones whom you may have neglected when she was there.
Im sure in the process of a relationship, you may and would have neglected a friend or 2 which you held dearly.
Play a sport, or pick a new hobby, do something you really enjoy doing, something that you were unable to do when you were in the relationship.
To let go or not, lies in only 1 string of though.
You have to be strong and prove that you can be still happy without her.
If you do need to talk it out, im here.
Best of luck
*smile*
@Poison, im sorry to ask, was it the same girl on the thread you posted the other day?
Im good to talk if you need someone, just drop me a message.
Take care.
*smile*
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