Said she's not ready

[Nameless]

I've been going out with this girl for 6 weeks and suddenly she turns around and says she's not ready for a relationship. I don't know what to do.. Should i stick around until shes ready and give it another go? or should i just move on?
Thanks

[Kaius]

How do you feel about it? Do you feel shes worth the wait or you're better off finding someone else? At the end of the day if shes not ready then shes not ready, there's nothing anyone can do about it. It all depends on you really, we can't tell you whether shes worth the wait cause we don't know her :)

[Nameless]

Thanks for your reply, I do believe she's worth the wait and she says she really wants to be friends, but i'm not sure whether i'll be wasting my time by just hanging around.

[Love.Hate]

Thanks for your reply, I do believe she's worth the wait and she says she really wants to be friends, but i'm not sure whether i'll be wasting my time by just hanging around.

I dont think your wasting your time, if you really want her you will wait until she is ready. I hope that is soon, just give her time :)

[Nameless]

Thanks for your reply, I think i'll give it a couple of months and see if she's still the one i want, I've only joined this today but I wish i had found it sooner, its been great help thanks :)

[Nameless]

A quick question if anyone sees this, how should i act around her? and should I continue to talk to her as much as we did during the relationship or should I just wait for her to come and talk to me? thanks.

[Kaius]

Act friendly, dont act like you were in the relationship because she might feel like her feelings aren't being considered, just ask how she is and ask if she wants to hang out at some point. Act like you did before you were together and see how it goes from there.

[Love.Hate]

I think you should act normally around her, she is still the same person. Dont blank her at all, otherwise she will think you are ignoring her. So act around her how you usually would. :)

[Nameless]

Thanks for your quick replies I really appreciate it, before we were together I was quite flirty and conversation flowed quiet easily at the moment it seems pretty awkward she doesn't really seem to be taking an interest in talking to me, any ideas?

[Kaius]

It might just take time, give her some space for a few days, let her come to you.

[Nameless]

Okay I will, thanks for your help Kaius and Fran, I really do appreciate it

[Nameless]

Sorry for the continuation for questions :L but i was just wondering have you got any ideas on what I can do to keep my mind off talking to her while i wait for her to talk to me? I don't want to go out and meet other girls as she might get the impression I'm gone and she might do the same thing with guys

[Kaius]

I posted in your other thread mate :)