I hate mostly everyone in my school. :/

[OFWGKTA]

I have to go back to school in around two weeks, I hate mostly everybody in it and they all hate me, I hate doing group projects because 95% of the time I'm with somebody I hate and I hate going up in front of people. Can anyone help me with any of these problem? :/

Also, I have around four or five friends, and I can't make new friends. I have pretty much nothing in common with anybody because I'm an atheist, I hate all of the music and shit like that that everyone in my school likes, and I'm just completely unorthodox compared to everyone in my school.

It doesn't bother me too much but I just hate having to go to school and deal with stupid shit and people I don't like.

[AppealToReason]

Really, the only thing you can do is ignore them.
Don't let your feelings of them get in the way of your grades.

[User Deleted]

I felt the same way when I got depressed in elementary school and middle school.

[Nathan13]

Hey same exactly the same i get by in school by sitting solo in class unless im with a friend then at the end of the day i go home and go hang around with my real friends.

Do you have alot of friends out of school?

[dontcare97]

Felt the same way. You need to ignore them and not let these people you clearly hate dictate you educational year. Remember,your in school to learn, not make friends and have a tea party. But if you do wanna make some new friends here's my suggestions. Try to make yourself useful when you are in a group. Sure you might not have anything in common with other students, but so what? Differences make the world go round. Maybe you can learn from them as they from you. I'm not saying lie about yourself but rather introduce yourself in a way that can spur conversation and actually connect to some new people. You might find out things you never knew. A new school year, a new start.

[Nathan13]

Felt the same way. You need to ignore them and not let these people you clearly hate dictate you educational year. Remember,your in school to learn, not make friends and have a tea party.




A new school year, a new start.


That's what i thought, i don't need friends in school who only annoy me and distract me and don't even care about me becuase i have friends outside that do.

[pageplant77]

My advice is to just lighten up a little.
Instead of walking around the hallways with resent in your eyes and hatred in your heart, just simply lighten up. I know what it's like to be that kid. That's what middle school was like for me. But then I just learned to have a better sense of humor, and laugh things off. Sure it's a little awkward and strange at first, but you get used to the idea.
The least it will do get people off your back, and then maybe you can make more friends?
You'll be able to breathe much easier when you're not filled with feelings of contempt for you're fellow classmates. It makes school easier and it makes life easier.
And there isn't necessarily anything wrong with making friends with people who you don't have much in common with. On the contrary, it makes life interesting.

[Sporadica]

I hate alot of the outsides of people, I like most people when I get to know them in my scool, when I barely know someone or just bump into them in the hallway if they have a negative feel to them or say/do something negative I don't really like them. I don't like them also when they like the mainstream thing

But.... when I get to know these people they almost all of them are pretty cool, because they are open minded enough to accept me and I'm open enough to accept them. I more hate the sheepish tide of mainstream culture and high school drama BS

I used to be so afraid to get up in front of people

In my music class I had no trouble when everyone was practicing seperatlly but come performance day I broke down and skipped the first performance

come second performance our singer had 0 practice time with us and I forgot the pattern of the song and tanked. afterwards teacher took us outside to talk and I was shaking but miraculously come the next performance I knew what I was doing, I actually liked the song, and I destroyed it cuz after one happening I was fine with performing

What I'm trying to tell you is that the more you go infront of people the easier it gets, I know it's said alot but it's said alot because it's true.

[Emiil]

stop hating everyone :D be happy :) and i mean you said u have 4/5 friends, its better than nothing :) be positive :D

[Efflorescence]

I'm almost exactly in the same situation
but I 've decided to appreciate what I have......about 4 friends who are AMAZING.
If they don't like you for who you are: their problem....gl

[Peace God]

Can anyone help me with any of these problem?
Idk, maybe get over yourself? Stop judging people and get to know them?

You're not special enough to have nothing in common with people your age. Misanthropy is a social and intellectual temper tantrum, and to me it often appears to be a way of trying to seem superior.

[Efflorescence]

Stop judging people and get to know them?

You're not special enough to have nothing in common with people your age. Misanthropy is a social and intellectual temper tantrum, and to me it often appears to be a way of trying to seem superior.

How ironic....you're telling him not to judge others when it's exactly what you're doing yourself i. e. judging, in this case, judging people who suffer from misanthropy.

[Peace God]

How ironic....you're telling him not to judge others when it's exactly what you're doing yourself i. e. judging, in this case, judging people who suffer from misanthropy.
Fair enough, I am judging technically. Why did I say "Stop judging people and get to know them"? My point was to not let his previous judgement stop him from getting to know people better. I said what I said because he really does need to learn how to get over people's differences. Either he can do something about it or continue to complain about how "different" and misunderstood he is.

Even though I said "stop judging", I really didn't intend for him to stop judging completely, but like I said, just get over some of those judgements. Obviously not judging people at all can get you killed.

people who suffer from misanthropy.
While there are people that truly suffer from misanthropy, a lot of people of fucking proud of it or ok with it. Misanthropy is essentially bigotry. Bigotry is "a social and intellectual temper tantrum, and to me often appears to be a way of trying to seem superior." Well yes, some people technically "suffer" from bigotry too, but most don't.

[mrclutch1976]

yeah i see how you feel im atheist to i would see who your freinds, freinds are and see if you like hanging out with them.

[Efflorescence]

Fair enough, I am judging technically. Why did I say "Stop judging people and get to know them"? My point was to not let his previous judgement stop him from getting to know people better. I said what I said because he really does need to learn how to get over people's differences. Either he can do something about it or continue to complain about how "different" and misunderstood he is.

Even though I said "stop judging", I really didn't intend for him to stop judging completely, but like I said, just get over some of those judgements. Obviously not judging people at all can get you killed.

I agree with this.

While there are people that truly suffer from misanthropy, a lot of people of fucking proud of it or ok with it. Misanthropy is essentially bigotry. Bigotry is "a social and intellectual temper tantrum, and to me often appears to be a way of trying to seem superior." Well yes, some people technically "suffer" from bigotry too, but most don't.

I think you're wrong there. You do have to understand that misanthropy is a very strong feeling. Sometimes, even when it manifests itself in 'phases' (it's not a constant feeling), it can be overwhelming. I don't see any reason why anyone should be proud of it....it kills you from the inside and I don't think a person chooses to feel this way. I don't see how anyone can take pride in hating her own parents and family at times or worse, most of the time.