I'm confused with my ex

[OptimusPrime]

Me and my 'online' ex had a major fight at least a couple months ago where me and him hated each other, he admitted he didn't like me, and I blocked him on Facebook. Now that I've given him a fair break and unblocked me he's like saying he's always liked me, and wants to be with me.

I'm really confused on if I should believe him after the big fight me and him had.

Any advice would be appreciated.

[OptimusPrime]

Sorry for the bump but an update.

He hasn't been talking much and whenever I MSN him he has been ignoring for the past day but he just randomly went to one of my Facebook statuses that does not have a single thing to do about love or him at all and he said "I love you" ... Now I am really really confused and have no clue what to do. =/

[Kujiro]

Try to used the edit function for updating, it's not that nice to do a double post.

On this matter, what happened was done in a fit of rage, blocking of Facebook, and stuff are just acts which can be discluded, sorry but imo it's plain childish to do so, only to ultimately unblock the person. unless it's a spammer or an advertising profile.

As said, do not make decisions when you are angry, and do not make promises when you are happy.

He must have realized how extreme his actions took him and regretted after cooling down a little.

To believe him depends on you, and the nature of the fight.
If he has held that integerity for thus long, I'm sure you can look past the argument and move on.
People generally forgive, but seldom forget.
Ultimately if this relationship is not worth pursuing, you would not be confused in the first place.

Everyone deserves a 2nd chance, talk to him about how you feel, approach it in a matured and welcoming perspective.
I'm not saying it would be easy, but I'm saying it would be worth it.

Good luck
*smile*

[OptimusPrime]

I really do not understand what you said. O.o

[christcenteredlife]

i'd say forget about it. it's not worth all the drama. especially if you're over him and moved on, don't reopen the wound.

[ShatteredWings]

Please keep personal fights off site and stay on topic

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