Parents

[Link3737]

Ok well first off, you'd probably have to know me to understand why such a minor thing would bother me but hey, thats just me. Ok, well my parents are such f*** heads who are always makin me feel like i CANT talk to them about anything even though they keep reassuring me i can. anyways, a while back i wasted a lot of money on something that my parents didnt find "worth the money" and so anyways, ever since then if i want to buy something i have to "have their permission." today, my mom asked me if i wanted to go to target with her, and i said sure why not. she said she wasnt gonna buy me anything and started goin on about how i wasted money on something she didnt find suitible. i told her to fuck off and leave me alone cuz i can make my own decisions (also told her to go stuff her face, since she is very weight conscious) i know its kinda rude for something that little but you gotta understand that they had been riding me for WEEKS making me feel more and more pissed at em. but the point im making here is that i need some time away from my parents but the last time i ran away i stayed out for two days (had NO problems, in fact i was actually better off) until my retards of parents called the cops to look for me. when the cops found me i lied about my identity but the cops apparantly took a photo anyways and my parents found out and made life even WORSE at home. but now im left with no decisions on how to get time off from my parents...HELP ME PLZ!!!:( :( :(

[sammy119]

it sounds like your having a rough time. First things first, it sounds like there are some trust issues between you and your parents. Maybe if you tried really hard to gain their trust, things would start to get easier. At first, its going to seem like going the extra mile and doing things when not asked isn't getting you anywhere, but I'm pretty confident that one day you will say "hey, how did I manage to get to this point?!". Also, if your parents say something that really hits a sore spot, although it may be really really really hard, it may be best to just hold your tongue and agree, and eventually they will start to give you some lenience and stop riding your back.

I hope this helps!

[Hyper]

it sounds like your having a rough time. First things first, it sounds like there are some trust issues between you and your parents. Maybe if you tried really hard to gain their trust, things would start to get easier. At first, its going to seem like going the extra mile and doing things when not asked isn't getting you anywhere, but I'm pretty confident that one day you will say "hey, how did I manage to get to this point?!". Also, if your parents say something that really hits a sore spot, although it may be really really really hard, it may be best to just hold your tongue and agree, and eventually they will start to give you some lenience and stop riding your back.

I hope this helps!

It just sounds that he's a stupid teen, no offense :P

[*lynn*]

It just sounds that he's a stupid teen, no offense :P

well, that's really helpful, and i thought that's what VT was about, helping people, but hey, what do i know...

it sounds like your parents are holding onto something that they need to stop referring back to with you. but that's what parents do, throw something we've done back in our faces for a long time after. i think it's so they can prove a point, but i haven't figured it out yet...:)

anyways, just try to stay calm around them and not get so angry, because that makes them more angry and just escalates the problem. so when you're angry, walk away. tell them you need to take a break and go to your room and cool off or go for a run (that's what i do and it helps!) or whatever helps you go from angry to calm.

but don't call your mom names, because really that doesn't help your situation and is just really rude on your part.

hope all this helps...!

lynn

[Hyper]

Sorry lynn but I don't follow the usual VT club of let's write long posts that realy say nothing useful and keep the truth from everyone as long as we can, untill everything fucks up in 1 huge pile

[sashoma]

hey no offense hyper, but go fuck off.....

i hae a similar problem and lynn i think that u helped i wanna give u rep, but idk how

[Maverick]

You may or may not realize this but until you are 18 years old, have your own job, pay your own bills, and have your own place you are under your parents rules. Don't like it? Tough.

You need to show respect to your parents and stop being a selfish brat. You should be lucky that your parents even bother to call the police and care about your safety. You wasted your money so it's your fault your parents go onto you about that. You gave them a reason to get on you about that. Instead of rebelling follow their rules and don't give them any reason to lecture you about something.