Crush is my best friend, help

[DramaKid13]

Ok so im bi, and i have a HUGE crush on my best friend, and it sucks. Ive had this crush since the beginning on this year, and i just keep thinking about him, and whenever i think about him, im just speechless. But 2 months ago i began coming out to my close friends, and i came out to him, which was the hardest thing to do, but he accepted it and we're better friends, however, when i told him, he asked if i liked him, and I had to say no because he had said that it would make it awkward, and i value our friendship more than anything. After i said no, he said back, "THANK GOD!" which crushed me. But right now idk what to do, i mean he gave me so many signs before, touching me, asking me to help him unchange during the school plays, is there anyone who can give me any advice? thanks

[LifeisLife]

i guess you cant do anything about it, if he thinks it would be awkward if you had a crush on him then you'll either have to keep it secret and stay friends until the crush passes or you'll have to confess and see how it goes from there :/ i know it's a hard decision, and i'm not going to tell you what I would do because that might influence YOUR decision. it's tough but you've gotta make the call yourself... :/

[ADC12]

hey ur in the exact position as me! ive had a crush on my best mate for 3 years now! and i came out to him that i was bi 2 weeks ago... he was cool with it but he said 'jus dont try anything on me'.. which sort of let me down :( like ur friend, my friend also touches and flirts with me...
i guess we jus have to endure it and keep going in life, sooner or later well both have to admit our crushes.. and if hes not the one, hes not the one.. there is someone else for us (cheesy, i kno, dnt judge :P )

[nameless12]

wow, thats the same as me too :) thought a bit different. i had a crush on my best friend too and i wasnt planing on telling him that i was bi, but someone told him and i thought we were cool, but later on i found out he ALSO knew i liked him and... well... lets just say it whas horrible thing to do :( .

i think you should just let it pass, i know how you feel. after it passes maybe then you can tell him if you want, hope i helped :)

[Koffing]

I'm in the same situation, but i think I can help you a bit ;)

Well, if you are really sure that you are in love with this guy, you should tell it to him.
If he doesn't accept you for who yo are, then he isn't a good friend. ;)

But it's easier to say that to do, otherwise I wasn't in the same situation :rolleyes:

Good Luck!

[BiBoy5674]

unfortunetly i would say move on and try find someone else :)

[Syvelocin]

Please do not bump old threads. :locked: