InMyOwnImagination
August 24th, 2011, 06:57 AM
Hey, I'm not sure if you guys could help me, but i'm in a bit of a dilemma... So there's this girl in one of my classes and I'm not positive, but I'm pretty sure she cuts. I've seen her wrist a couple of times and the first time I was positive I saw cuts there. Ever since she has had that area of her arm covered with bracelets and she's been taking an awful lot of care in not extending that arm and keeping her wrist hidden whereas before she was not like that... Or maybe I just never noticed? Our teacher is really mean to her, she always singles her out and ridicules her if she does something wrong so I'd understand if she did cut. I'm not friends with this girl, to be honest I've never really talked to her, but I'm worried. I've been cutting for a while (trying to stop at the moment, but anyway) so I know my reasons for cutting, and I don't know if I should talk to her about it? Like I said I don't know for sure that she does cut... Also I know that when I was cutting heavily I would have been mortified if anyone found out, even if they cut themselves and/or were just trying to be nice. If I'm right and she is cutting I would feel so much as if I have intruded on something private, and if I am wrong it would just be plain awkward and she might then have suspicions about me (nobody knows I cut). So, I dunno... Talking from personal experiences would you guys have been happy if someone had/were to go to you and talk to you about your cutting or would you completely advise against it? Do you think I should? Sorry for the long post :(