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green
August 24th, 2011, 06:48 AM
ok so im friends with a girl and i asked her out the other day. we are like really good friends and her reply was " im not sure, im confused and im not ready for intimate feelings, but i want to." what am i supposed to do? we have agreed to stay as friends and move on from that but how can i show her that we are good together?

Travis Is Losing It
August 24th, 2011, 06:49 AM
If she needs time give her time. its the best option dont try pushing things

Giles
August 24th, 2011, 08:26 AM
If she has said that she isn't ready then there's nothing you can do but wait around and be there for her when she is. Don't put pressure, intentionally or not, on her and just be patient and stay friends.

TaNei
August 24th, 2011, 01:14 PM
Just be nice with her and don't be too much time around her because she will feel more "pressurized" lol

christcenteredlife
August 24th, 2011, 02:16 PM
intimate feelings are very hard to deal with, so be accepting of her thought's. as said, don't try "proving" anything. remain friends and do the normal things you'd do. if she ends up liking you, great! if not, respect that. i'm sure you know what to do, it just hurts because you really like her.

ImCoolBeans
August 25th, 2011, 12:27 AM
i'd just continue doing whatever you've been doing, being yourself and everything. be yourself, be sweet and time will do it's thing