Need some advice

[Brokeandbetrayed]

Hi im 14... idk if this is average for my age if i have like a 3 3/4 erect dick and some pubes and no facial hair and maybe 5 underarm hairs and im 5'2. is this behind in puberty for my age?

[TMACJETT]

Hey man I wouldn't worry about it. I had the same problem everyone goes through puberty at their own rate. And honestly I am just now starting to get armpit hair really and you are still young. You still have lots of time to go through puberty and it will happen at its own rate.

[Brokeandbetrayed]

alright thanks :P ust annoys me cus im the shortest of my classmates and the furthest behind in puberty :yawn:

[christcenteredlife]

you are actually right about where you should be for your age. don't worry one bit.

[Brokeandbetrayed]

awesome.

[Vegito]

ur a bit behind i think, but ull catch up eventually

[christcenteredlife]

ur a bit behind i think, but ull catch up eventually

the average 14 year old is right about 4" erect. well, that's what my doctor told me. i'm incredibly behind in puberty, to the point i haven't started yet. i'm about 3" erect at 14, but again, i haven't started puberty. my doctor said you average person my age should be around 4" give or take a bit. he said it's very unusual a 14 year old will have anything over 4.5 at this point, but it's possible. he also said, a males penis growing too quickly can cause harm to our system. so don't desire it too soon. when it happens it will happen when it's supposed to and in a healthy manner.

[curious_boy123]

ehh dont worry. everyone will grow out eventually

[Brokeandbetrayed]

Ok. So I'm not majorly behind?

[christcenteredlife]

i wouldn't say you are behind at all. think about it, your average adult man is 5.5-6.5, so you being right about 4 at 14, is just fine. relax.

[StoppingTime]

Your not ahead, you not behind, your you.
There isn't any need to worry where you are in puberty right now.
Guys stop growing around 18-21, so you sill have plenty of time.
For 14, that size is fine, and the average adult male height is 5'7", so thats not really a problem either.
Facial hair is usually one of the last steps, but it is different for everyone.
To sum up, yea, your normal, don't worry.

[itsthat0n3kid]

the average 14 year old is right about 4" erect. well, that's what my doctor told me. i'm incredibly behind in puberty, to the point i haven't started yet. i'm about 3" erect at 14, but again, i haven't started puberty. my doctor said you average person my age should be around 4" give or take a bit. he said it's very unusual a 14 year old will have anything over 4.5 at this point, but it's possible. he also said, a males penis growing too quickly can cause harm to our system. so don't desire it too soon. when it happens it will happen when it's supposed to and in a healthy manner.

i couldnt have said it better! he has a huge point (no pun intended) i was only like 4 inches last year and now im almost 6! it will grow. dont worry :)

[Giles]

You're not necessarily behind and you're not ahead either. Try reading this thread before asking questions about this sort of thing.

Section 4: Penis size
Most guys are paranoid, or boastful, about their penis size. It may be hard, but the best thing to do is to realise it doesn't matter. Any penis size is fine, as long as you can see it. A girl, or boy, won't mind if she, or he, likes you. Any person who will only date you because of your penis size shouldn't be dating anyway. During puberty, your penis still has time to grow. So even if you do measure it, it's not a useful number because the size of it will change. After puberty, you can take a measurement and know it won't change. The average penis size is about 6 inches. A broader average may be 5-7 inches. 4 and under being slightly under average, five or six being average, seven being large, and over seven being very large.

A very common question we get is "my penis is x inches long, I am y years old, will it get bigger?" the answer is a very loud WE DON'T KNOW!, puberty takes a different course for everyone and some people will do all their growing after 16 years of age, some before 16 years of age. The chances are though is that you will continue growing til you are about 17/18, but we can't tell you that for sure. Don't be worried about it, as long as your erect penis size is somewhere above 4" by the time you're an adult you'll be able to satisfy whoever you're supposed to be. "It's not how big it is, it's what you do with it"
http://www.virtualteen.org/forums/showthread.php?t=88729

[Unlucky_Leprechaun]

Your not ahead, you not behind, your you.
There isn't any need to worry where you are in puberty right now.
Guys stop growing around 18-21, so you sill have plenty of time.
For 14, that size is fine, and the average adult male height is 5'7", so thats not really a problem either.
Facial hair is usually one of the last steps, but it is different for everyone.
To sum up, yea, your normal, don't worry.

Very well said. I am 17 and 5'-6" and only 4.5"c still waiting :-) it is all good tho..I cannot change it...so I try not to worry about it but I'm one of the shortest in my class as well.

[Michigan48111]

You may be a little behind but don't worry about it. Give it some time it isn't a race. Some people go thru their entire life with not much body hair....and others look like fur balls.