Please help me :(

[Link9991]

I am thirteen, almost fourteen, i am succesful at school and have a group of friends i hang out with.. I like having lots of friends and i am generally a happy person who enjoys making others feel good. But recently i have felt differently about it all, i am a guy who has never had a girl to love and care for, my friends like me for my sense of humor BUT do girls really want a guy with a sense of humor. I dont know if girls are physically attracted to me as i have never even tried, i am shy and emotional near girls (apart from the ones i hang about with who i can talk to about pretty much anything).

So all i am asking is for help, i want to know how i can get a girlfriend, how to become more outgoing..

(I will never self harm myself to get over the depression so dont bother telling me to, its wrong in my opinian) :(

[Ironic Infidel In England]

You sound like a nice guy, just get yourself out there and find someone you like!

[Bobby]

This is more of a relationship problem.

[MOVING TO RELATIONSHIPS]

[Octo22]

In response to if girls can like a guy based on humour; HELL YES.

My girlfriend at the moment is in love with me, because I'm fun. My nickname is Crack Head, just because of my humour.

So yes, to answer your question, if you're funny and not too emotional, a girl will be yours in no time ^___^

[football]

k yea were alike here...jus be urself man trust me

[ScotsGirl]

I wouldnt...actually, its more like...I COULDNT be with someone if they didnt make me laugh!

xxx

[Link3737]

Scots those are some wise words! its hard to be in a relationship wiht someone if they cant make you laugh or they dont have a sense of humor

[Everglow]

I like guys with a sense of humor...they always seem to lighten up the mood :) With the attraction part...bro you just gotta put yourself out there..someone's bound to like you, plus you have a fun personality..that's always a good thing.

hmm tips to be more outgoing....lol i'm totally an introvert...but no one would ever guess it...just don't be afraid to step out of your normal comfort zone and let people see you be you!! go to parties and stuff...trust me, you will definatley feel good

[*lynn*]

I am thirteen, almost fourteen, i am succesful at school and have a group of friends i hang out with.. I like having lots of friends and i am generally a happy person who enjoys making others feel good. But recently i have felt differently about it all, i am a guy who has never had a girl to love and care for, my friends like me for my sense of humor BUT do girls really want a guy with a sense of humor. I dont know if girls are physically attracted to me as i have never even tried, i am shy and emotional near girls (apart from the ones i hang about with who i can talk to about pretty much anything).

So all i am asking is for help, i want to know how i can get a girlfriend, how to become more outgoing..

(I will never self harm myself to get over the depression so dont bother telling me to, its wrong in my opinian) :(



well i'm glad you're not going to SI...that wouldn't exactly be helpful in this situation...

girls love guys who have a sense of humor...we like to laugh at your jokes, laugh at the silly things you say or do, it's just what we like.

as for being more outgoing...try doing some new things like...saying hi to someone in school that you don't normally say hi to, or taking time out of whatever you are doing to have a conversation with the person you are sitting next to in class. do small stuff first and then it'll get easier to go out of your comfort zone and talk and be more outgoing.

hope this helps, and good luck. there's a girl out there for you, don't worry!
lynn

[Ventrue]

Dude you have all the time in the world. I am 18 and have never been in a relationship. Your funny and friendly right? Then you should be able to find a girl easily. Just get out there and try. Ya got nothing to lose right. Yet you have everything to gain. (prepare for cliched quote) "Go get em tiger".

[Ventrue]

By the way Scotsgirl...you rock. Just though I'd say that. I love the Scottish and everything about them. I am proud to have that land as part of my heritage. I salute you madam

[kikicupkake]

you sould have no problem geting a girl we like jokes and to giggl