I wonder...

[TheGreenTomato]

Hey guys n gals, I was just wondering... if a certain kid(s) like me. Well I am a bisexual 14 year old and I just started high school a couple days ago. And there is this openly gay kid at school. He seems really nice but also annoying. I dont know if I shud tell him Im bi or not. Already over 25 people know i am bi( Family, friends, n some others) but i dont know what to do. Also, there are two kids, Niel and Ryan who I'm extremly attracted to. I dont know much about them but I do talk to them at school. Ryan n Niel are in like 2-3 classes with me each day. I made Ryan laugh today n it always seems like hes looking at me. So i dont know how to approach this. And on top of it all I have a girl friend now. I want a relationship with a guy more tho. So any advice would b helpful:):yeah:

[KillerKing]

Well, for starters, I would re-evaluate whether your going out with this girl just cuz you are, or because you do actually like her. It would be better for both of you if your not really interested and would rather pursue a relationship with another boy. Also, regarding the two boys, get to know them first! Just build up a good friendship and then try and find out what they are themselves, if they're straight then there is nothing you can really do. Lastly, about this gay kid, I don't see why you have the dilema of deciding whether to tell him or not XD, if you talk to him then sure go for it, but telling him your Bi just for the sake of it doesnt really seem worth it.

Good luck either ways :)

[ADC12]

I agree with wt he sed... Get to kno them first... All relationships start with a gd friendship... Though ryan might just b looking at u because hes considering u as a friend since neither of u actually kno a lot about each other...
And same here im bi and ive got a closeted gay friend( though hedoesnt kno that i kno hes gay) hes an ok friend though i would never tell him im bi jus bcos hes gay cos sometimes hes waaay annoying but realy at the end of the day its up to u whether u want to tell him or not... :D

[tyler007]

I agree with Killerking, and think i his was good advice.
You should spend more time getting to know Neil and Ryan, before you rush into anything (including getting your hopes up that they might be like you and like you)
As far as the openly gay kid goes if you want to be his friend thats cool, but i have found out that not all bi kids want to be friends.. I dont think yo can have a good friendship based solely on the fact he is gay and you are bi..

Remember if you are out to 25 people, just try to be your self at school and see what happens.

[BiBoy5674]

i would tell the gay person only if you are comforable in telling him :) and as for ryan and niel i don't know lol :)

[Syvelocin]

Please do not bump old threads. :locked: