View Full Version : Gay, straight, bi or just curious???
ice1996
August 23rd, 2011, 11:23 AM
Hey im icy1996 here and im not sure if im gay, straight or bi.:confused:
You see, since november ive been starting to have feelings and sexual attraction/tension with many other males. I also have started watching gay porn even more then straight porn. I often fantasize and masturbate to me in homosexual situations. I am more attracted sexually/physically to guys then i am gals but i have a more emotional connection with gals, for guys its purely physical. I even find myself looking at other mens/boys bulges in change rooms, mens/boys dicks in changerooms, or looking over to see dicks in the next urinal stall . I also am very attracted to other features such muscles.
Please help me, i really need to know what i am so i can accept myself.
ice1996
August 23rd, 2011, 11:53 AM
please post too lol dont just vote
LifeisLife
August 23rd, 2011, 12:09 PM
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Love.Hate
August 23rd, 2011, 12:12 PM
Could you imagine yourself in a relationship with a guy? how about a girl?
I think your cuious, but actualy more towards being gay. Do you feel emotion or sexual attraction to girls at all?
ice1996
August 23rd, 2011, 12:13 PM
more emotions for girls, physical for guys. id only see relatioonships with gals but sexual with both but more guys
Koffing
August 23rd, 2011, 12:38 PM
Well if you are gay/bi, you need to love boys both sexual and emotional. Do you like guys emotionaly, than you are bi. But it can change because you are in the middle of puberty ;)
And it was me who voted without reply, sorry :D
ice1996
August 23rd, 2011, 12:41 PM
nope, never had emotions for a boy, just sexual attraction
Koffing
August 23rd, 2011, 12:49 PM
Then I think you are only a bit curius ;)
prob1996
August 23rd, 2011, 08:59 PM
based on everything you've said in the above posts, I think you're just curious. It sounds like their is some attraction but nothing emotional to say gay or bi. Hey, it's all good and don't worry so much about labels
jessehs
August 28th, 2011, 06:37 PM
yeah it dosnt mean your bi or gay if you think guys are hot, has to be emotional to
ExhibitG
August 28th, 2011, 07:04 PM
yeah it dosnt mean your bi or gay if you think guys are hot, has to be emotional to
i agree with this 100%.
the OP describes me EXACTLY, but i label myself as curious. if i ever have BOTH an emotional and sexual attraction to guys, i will label myself bisexual. but i don't, it's just sexual.
Joe1996
August 28th, 2011, 07:07 PM
Gay <3
Patti
August 29th, 2011, 03:33 PM
I'm 15 so it's still just curiosity :P
Weeping
August 29th, 2011, 04:08 PM
Well I think that you should try not to think about it "more than necessary".
I mean, if you put pressure on getting to know, it might turn out "wrong". Just try to relax about it, and you'll realize 'what you are' soon enough.
Skyhawk
August 29th, 2011, 07:31 PM
Two words: RAGING HORMONES.
That should do it. :)
You're probably straight in your scenario you depicted.
hoot-up-17
August 29th, 2011, 10:40 PM
u de the right think sweet hart
Lego
August 31st, 2011, 01:13 AM
Yeah dude i'm 16 and feel the same a relstionship with another male no thanks. Maybe for hand sexual activity but definately both for girls.
kimo4fun
August 31st, 2011, 02:35 AM
i have the same probleme i don't know what to do i'm trying to focs on girls but it's not working so i'm gonna keep trying untill i become a full man because being gay it's not a choice
kimo4fun
August 31st, 2011, 02:36 AM
thank u joe for being a such nice person in this topic ofcaurse i'll send u a lot of messages hope to be friends
SyrupSeal
September 6th, 2011, 11:50 PM
I think you may be just curious, because bisexual is emotional and sexual feelings towards both.
KALAMAR
September 7th, 2011, 06:22 AM
Im right there with you, the thought of kissing or marrying another dude just doesnt seem right, but they cant tell me we are still straight because its not straight to be willing to do sexual stuff with guys like anal or hand/blow jobs. Because if we were straight, we wouldnt have those thoughts to begin with.
Joey2198
September 8th, 2011, 11:45 AM
For me attraction to guys is just physical. I just get turned on by guys more but like girls too.
Electra Heart
September 8th, 2011, 12:38 PM
I like guys and girls but with guys its mostly just physical... I could actually love a girl but I'm not sure with a guy
SinisterMystery
September 8th, 2011, 09:35 PM
I have had emotional feelings for both girls and guys, I could imagine dating girls and guys. My friends think that I'm just curious but I'm not. I know that I am bi. It's not just a physical attraction for me.
darkknight
September 9th, 2011, 09:18 PM
decide for yourself
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