Is he straight gay or bi ? URGENT !

[jack316]

I've liked this straight guy for 2 1/2 years and he knows that. He has been a good friend of mine for the 6 months and we talk about everything. We compare penis photos, talk about masturbating and lots of other stuff.
I always say to him how hot he is and how much I want him and can't wait to give blow jobs and stuff and he just laughs it off. Everybody at school knows I like him and everybody says to me they think he's gay or bi even though I think he's straight because he has had girlfriends and done stuff with them. He is really masculine and constantly flirts with girls and people say he does with me too. He really looks amazing and manscapes really well and has no body hair.

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Anyway a few months ago we both got really drunk and stuff happened. And it was totally amazing. After it happened he pretended to forget and things and things have gone back to normal.
I feel really guilty that I may have taken advantage of him or that he will hate me now.
I really want to tell people about it of course because my dream has come true and everybody would be SO happy for me, but I value mine and his friendship a lot so I havent told a soul.
Do you think he is straight, bi or gay ?

[mattyfaz]

I'd say bi-curious. That means he only dates/has relationships with girls but experiments with guys too.

[Lights]

You're in a very similar boat to me actually, just without something ever happening between me and the boy I like like you described with the boy you like. Your feelings sound very similar to mine anyway.

It's very difficult to try and label someone you don't actually know, who's being described by someone else. However, my totally honest thought is that this guy is more than likely straight. I say this only because he's only ever done something with you, or any other boy, while drunk. Boys and girls my age do that when they're drunk, but never when sober. I think the only way you could ever judge this boy to be anything different to straight,is if he did something remotely sexual (like a kiss) to another guy while sober and in his right mind. A drunk mind really can't speak for his sexuality.

You're a very respectful person though, and he should really value that. I know if I was in your boat, I'd be telling a few people; just out of the pure excitement, because like you said it was like 'a dream come true'. I think you should sit down with him, just the two of you, and talk it out though. Even if you ultimately don't get the response you'd like from him (that he's bi/gay), at least you've set things straight (no pun intended) with him.

[Dimitri]

I think he is straight due to the sinple fact that when I get drunk I do random things and/or let people do me, needless to say I am straight just like he might be if this makes any sense to you.

[KillerKing]

Well its hard to judge if he was under the influence of alcohol, if he was sober and you two did stuff, then I'd say curious, but considering he tried to forget it and he was drunk, I would say he is still straight.

[ADC12]

Omg im in the exact same position as you
We flirt witheach other and sit on each others laps and stuff but he says hes straight... We sort of make those sexual jks as well like what u sed giving him a bj.. Lol
Anyways bak to u ^^
I thunk hes straight curious or bi curious... Hes wedged in between these to 'labels' as u sed hes trying to forget wt happened so he might b straight...

[OptimusPrime]

He's very much like a friend of mine. My friend admits he's as straight as the word straight means but he sometimes tells me on MSN and such about a hot guy, or something about a guy or whatever. I guess people are too scared to admit they like the same sex.

[tyler007]

Sounds like he is a really good friend to you, he might be bi, or he just might like doing stuff with you, flirting and all guys like to hear how good we look, he sounds gorgeous.
Anyway i think you should stay friends and be happy with that for now, and see if things change. BUT i would not tell anyone about what happened when you were drunk,,, he has not tried to repeat the event or talk to you about what happened. For you to tell anyone would be super uncool.

[jack316]

Yeah I think he's bi-curious. I've still not told anybody and it's so hard when people are saying what they've done with guys and then they ask me and i have to pretend I've not done anything, but I have with HIM. Because he was my first <3
Its so annoying and I really want to tell people I could never do that to him.

[Unsolvedmind]

I would say Bisexual

[spoke]

he may have just been curious and let the alcohol relax his inhibitions enough to satisfy his curiousity. since he has decided not acknowledge it happened, he may be straight.
you had a great experiance and still have a good friend so i'd say it worked out well for you.

[rockafella40]

he is definitely bi curious. and i reckon if you make a move, you can convert him?

[lniehus55]

i thnk hes bi

[tyrone]

i think he might be bi curious because he still acts like your friend really

[thomasgj]

him "just forgetting" doesn't exactly means he's straight; he could be curious, but maybe he's in denial of it and isn't ready to be comfortable with it.

tbh, most straight guys would be scared off knowing you like them, so if he's stuck around... maybe there's something there?? idk but it's possible ;)

[Shadowin]

sorry

[nameless12]

i say he is just straight curious, just because a guy kisses another guy when he is drunk, it dosent mean anything. anyone can do anything when theyr drunk and not mean it.
the other thing is that he could be bi, just the fact that he knew you liked him for a lot of time and that you still liked him and still talks to you is a bit... supicious.

[Drew7]

sometimes people use alcohol so they don't have to deal with the choices they made while they were drinking. you bud could blame the alcohol and blame you if things go bad. The reality is he did what he wanted to do alcohol or not and I don't think you took advantage of him. Gay.

[PerpetualMotionSquad]

i would say he is straight because he hasn't taken advantage of your comments when he is sober