View Full Version : Help. One testicle advice
Matt95
August 23rd, 2011, 04:14 AM
I am 16 and was born with only one testicle. This has changed my life for the worst. After sports I am afraid to go shower with my teammates and also very uncomfortable talking to girls because I only have I testicle. If anybody has any advice or guidance it would be greatly appreciated.
Kujiro
August 23rd, 2011, 04:29 AM
I understand you are having a medical condition, resulting in such. And in school it's a place where people may be alittle insensitive.
There would be a little form of embarrassment, but what's most important is to look past them.
It will be a tough one, but you would have to accept yourself, before anyone is able to accept you.
By accepting yourself, it would generally bring up your self esteem, with it would bring about your confidence in talking to girls.
This would too boost your confidence in the showers, you too have understood, it was not a choice that it happened, and any sincere friend would know they are not going to make fun out of you.
It's an awesome opportunity to display maturity and filtering the good friends from the crappy ones.
Remember no one is perfect, and being able to look past imperfection, is a step to self perfection.
All the best
*smile*
Wakesetter03
August 23rd, 2011, 05:55 AM
I friend of mine had one of his testes removed because it was twisted. It was only when he was 12 or something, so when he showered after work the first time he was really nervous.
At the end of the day, your with guys. Only a real arsehole would tease you.
Most guys would be curious and might ask you about it.
At the end of the day, hold your head high a f*** the idiots who give you crap about it.
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