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sarah14
August 23rd, 2011, 01:24 AM
when you look at a person you see one thing.. but when you get to know them you relize the outside is just 1 simple thing and you cant judge a book by its cover.... no matter how happy a person looks ... they could be dyeing inside... when you look at a pretty girl you think i hate her cuz shes pretty or i wish i could be her ... but what you dont relize is that her parents could be getting devorcied or her dad/ mom might have died ... you cant ever tell what a persons like by there outside skin you have to dig deep enough to see their true selves...
Kujiro
August 23rd, 2011, 10:21 AM
This is a very good and realistic perspective.
In fact, every new face is a tip of an iceberg.
True that everyone has a fair share of problems, and it would take time, and understanding before they are willing to open up to you.
Looks are always decieving, and as people grow, they tend to wear a mask to face the world.
As even in the working industry, very few employers are interested in helping one find themselves, they have to do it on their own time.
It may be sad, but thats life. In due time people dont eazily share their problems.
Regardlessly, the first impression is the most important impression you make for yourself.
And thats the impression that would stay in people's minds for a long time.
"A Resume gets you an interview, Soft skills gets you jobs"
When do look at people living off well and having a good job, we are only seeing things on the surface level and making many assumptions on our own, but have you considered the sacrifices they have made to get to where they are?
Family? Children?
In summary, we should not assume what we see is always true, and never judge a book by its cover.
There is much more you would learn as we sink into the lives among our peers and friends.
sarah14
August 24th, 2011, 06:20 PM
This is a very good and realistic perspective.
In fact, every new face is a tip of an iceberg.
True that everyone has a fair share of problems, and it would take time, and understanding before they are willing to open up to you.
Looks are always decieving, and as people grow, they tend to wear a mask to face the world.
As even in the working industry, very few employers are interested in helping one find themselves, they have to do it on their own time.
It may be sad, but thats life. In due time people dont eazily share their problems.
Regardlessly, the first impression is the most important impression you make for yourself.
And thats the impression that would stay in people's minds for a long time.
"A Resume gets you an interview, Soft skills gets you jobs"
When do look at people living off well and having a good job, we are only seeing things on the surface level and making many assumptions on our own, but have you considered the sacrifices they have made to get to where they are?
Family? Children?
In summary, we should not assume what we see is always true, and never judge a book by its cover.
There is much more you would learn as we sink into the lives among our peers and friends.
ok first of all ur a skilled writer for a 13 year old boy :) nice and then second you are very true:):):)
Kujiro
August 24th, 2011, 08:59 PM
ok first of all ur a skilled writer for a 13 year old boy :) nice and then second you are very true:):):)
Thanks much,
Hope you have learnt something from my opinion.
Cheers
*smile*
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