when is it gonna get better???

[sarah14]

ever sence i was 7 i have been having many problems with my sister... when she was 11 she was rapped ... when she was 13 she was cutting herself... when she was 14 she was know as a whore only i never thought it was true but she really was one... when she was 15 she was out of the house ever night.. at 16 she was drinking and smoking.... at 17 she threw a butcher knife at me and i was in the hospital for weeks in coma.... now shes 18 and im afraid of what she will do next.... ... my sister is very unpredicatable and i alawys have to watch what i say just incase her mood changes ..... i used to think my sister was here to protect me... here to keep me safe from harm .................................................
not be it.
i dont live with her anymore becuse of my parents divorce... i love her with all my heart and i will still give my life for her.... i just would hope someday she would feel the same...

she wont awnser my texts and is ignoring me how do i get her to love me again... im tired of being the little sister who isnt ready to know things..... !!!!!!!!!!!!!! uggggggggg

[Dack]

She probably still loves you...she just doesn't show it. Maybe you shouldnt talk to he about it because if she's violent like she was in the past then you'll probably get hurt again.

You should talk to your parents about it, they might get her to see help, a physciatrist, maybe; therapy might be good for her before she hurts everyone around her.

[christcenteredlife]

don't blame her mental instability on yourself. it's not your fault. you need to be safe and it sounds like you are now, at least physically. give her time to get herself together. even though it's tough and will take considerable time, when she comes around, she'll see that you loved her and realize she loves you as well.

[sarah14]

we tried to help her all we could... we sent her to a therpist and she hit her then ran out............ and trust me thats not the only vilent things she done.. i just wish she would relize what she dose hurts me just as much it dose her :(

[sarah14]

i just dont want her to feel like i dont care ....... :(

[Dack]

Don't talk to her in person, that's where she can hurt you. If you anything, call her and talk to her. Make her feel sad for making you hurt and your parents hurt because of her being that way and that you want her to stop.

[sarah14]

she already blams herself for me being hurt my my father ... ( long story) but i want her to feel guilty but she wont listen to me no matter what i do ! she just gets mad and hangs up or runs away from the problem... that seems to be the best awnser thease days...

[christcenteredlife]

well technically, the doctors should have done something. they should have committed her for help and evaluation because she's a danger to herself and others.

[Dack]

Then leave it be for now. If she wants your help or wants to talk to you she will come to you. Don't push her so hard or you may end up pushing her away for the future.

[sarah14]

yea... my dads a normal doctor and he think he know everything and he dosnt ... i wish she could have gotten the help she needed before she turned 18 ... i dont know if ill ever see her again now

[ImCoolBeans]

when you look back you'll wish you didn't know everything, sometimes its the better choice

[sarah14]

even looking back right now i wished i was still that little girl who thought there was nothing wrong with her family ... the little girl who didnt have to worry about getting hurt by the people she loved...

[sarah14]

or by anyone at all for that matter...