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ally_____
August 22nd, 2011, 04:47 PM
Ok I'm not sure where exactly this is suposed to go but, oh well!...

Anyways, so the other night I went to my best friends party/sleep over, after the guys left we decided to go in her pool again. It dark out and her parents were going to bed so we started playing truth or dare. After a while we got bored and started playing spin the bottle(only we used a floaty instead ;P) anyways, I ended up kissing 4 different girls. For about 3 years now I've been convinced that I'm bisexual, but when I kissed them it only felt awkward. I dont know if its because we're friends or because I might not be bi :confused:
Dose this mean I'm might not be bi? Please help me out!:(


btw; I was also really nervious cuz only two out of the seven girls there knew that im bi.

georgiamay
August 22nd, 2011, 05:02 PM
:arrow: Teen Sexuality.

IMO, you're 14. A lot of girls go through a stage in their teens where they're confused about their sexuality, it's completely normal.
No one here can tell you if you're bi, straight or gay, but I think one day, you'll know. Just do whatever you feel comfortable with. If you feel comfortable kissing guys and girls, then just go with it, but if you don't feel confortable kissing girls, maybe that's a sign that you might not be attracted to them.

But it's normal to experiment, and maybe in a few years time you'll feel a lot more secure about your sexuality.

ally_____
August 22nd, 2011, 05:58 PM
thanks, i havnt been to sure lately, and i thought i was, but i am still only 14. lol, me and my way of over reacting and over dramatizing things! XD

Guillermo
August 22nd, 2011, 06:20 PM
And hey, it must have been pretty awkward kissing them in front of all those other girls so nahh it doesn't mean that youre not bi. You've got plenty of time to figure that out.

christcenteredlife
August 22nd, 2011, 06:56 PM
give yourself time and your sexuality will work itself out, whether you're straight, lesbian, or bi.

ally_____
August 23rd, 2011, 12:31 AM
thanks guys, yeah i still have a long way to go before im sure what my sexuality is :)

Skyhawk
August 23rd, 2011, 12:50 AM
You may simply be not attracted to those four girls, yet you could be to others.

You arent a guy so any thing that is slightly sexual isn't a turn on (lol it's funny 'cause it's true).

Gangstapie
August 23rd, 2011, 08:30 PM
I think everyone goes thru wierd stages in life lol. Plus like everyone said, you're just 14. In a few years, you'll probably know for sure what you are. Now you're just kinda curious and not real sure of what you are.