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KillerKing
August 22nd, 2011, 03:33 PM
Hey all, Havn't been here in a while, been busy growing up I guess :)

Yeah, anyway. I've known I'm Bi for a while now. Actually, it's just gone a year :D

Thing is, Only a few friends know I'm Bi and so does my girlfriend but I want the important people to know but I'm scared....

I couldn't give a fuNk who knows but when it comes to my family and my GF's family im scared s***less!

See, my Gf has a younger brother who goes to the same school and so he could easily find out through school and tell her parents and they might never wanna see my face again! As for my family they can't make up their minds. My dad and sisters have never gave any real opinion on bi or gay but my mom, I can't make her out! I remember before watching some programme and there was a gay man and she said something like would you tell me if you were gay... i can't remember the exact thing but yeah, she seemed to be hinting that she would be supporting of it.. but since my girlfriend she seems to have changed her tune.... You know, sorts of makes comments etc indicating not hatred but just a general dislike...

So what the hell do I do? Im just stuck!

Koffing
August 24th, 2011, 10:32 AM
Well, if your GF has any general dislikes to you, I think it's better to think if she is really the girl of your life. If not, you should tell her that.

I should first tell my own family before telling it to your GF's family.

Your mum seems to be someone who should accept you for beeing bi. Maybe you could tell her and maybe you could ask her how you could tell it your dad and sister in the best way ;)