age to lose your virginity

[jacob_1995]

at what age do you think it is appropriate for a guy to lose his virginity? (not the legal age)

[hhhfiuashfosihdf]

16 is the legal age in the UK. But don't loose it for the hell of it. Do it with a guy/girl you love

[Kujiro]

I'll quote my previous post on my thoughts on virginity..
I am beginning to really wonder if males has this thing called virginity.
By actual terms, virginity is the breaking of the hymen of the female's vagina.
But guys dont really have a hymen to break right? (not considering anal sex ) *ponders*.

Hence is virginity classified as sexual purity? or is virginity something thats classified only to females whom has not had the hymen torn.

I have heard this article about the guy who is married to his wife had sex for years, never manage to get a child, a visit to the doctor, the doctor says shes a virgin, as her hymen is not torn. as his penis was alittle too... yes short.

Hence it truely depends how you want to classify virginity.
But i believe in the modern defination is having sex = losing your virginity.
If you are going by that defination, then yes you have lost it.
If you are going by medical terms, you dont really have a virginity to lose.

But it depends how wide a spectrum you would consider that you have lost your virginity.
If you are defining it by an ejaculation, be it self stimulated or induced by others, then you can say you have lost it on your first ejaculation.

This is a board spectrum, but if we are looking at general terms, then i'd suppose theres no actual age cap, it depends truly on the person himself.

Good luck
*smile*

[Short Circuit]

When your ready to do it. Just remember, Once you pop, you cant stop!:yummy:

[team-player44]

i would think that at 16 you are really able to be yourself and make your own good choices on what is right and wrong and when u are ready for something. im 17 and not ready, hell im not even sure if im straight or not so im not ready for sex. most guys on my baseball team have lost theirs and they are 16-18

[vtRED]

most of my friends includeing my self lost there virginity at age 15-16, thats ussaly when the girls are ready to go, so most guys that try will get it done.

[Teen141]

Depends, if it is with someone you love or really like then it doesnt matter, but dont just go out to have sex with someone who 'gets around quite a bit'.

[ExhibitG]

personally, i believe the right age is when you are financially able to take care of a child, so whenever that may be. no condom or pill is 100% guaranteed to prevent a baby, so you ought to be fully prepared just in case of rare scenarios.

[christcenteredlife]

for me, my plan is to wait until i'm married. not just because i feel it's morally right, but because i don't want to risk a child out of marriage and have to deal with that person for my entire life because of our mutual child. i also wouldn't want to ever compare another woman to my future wife, which, i know i'd do.

and i always thought virginity meant, having a lack of sexual intercourse. i think that's what most people see it as being.

[Joe1996]

When your ready to do it. Just remember, Once you pop, you cant stop!:yummy:


Isn't that an advert for crisps or something? :S

Anyway, to answer the question. I don't think there is an age, just do it when you're ready

[SilentKillah]

When you feel you're ready.

[Can'tHelpIt]

18 and up

[VamosToro]

I agree it should be when ur ready for a child and you know you'll be with that person for a while cuz I wouldn't want to deal with baby mamas

[TrevorTime]

at what age do you think it is appropriate for a guy to lose his virginity? (not the legal age)

Hmmmm, this is a tricky one. I lost mine at 14 1/2, but it was to another boy, also a virgin. So there was no risk of making a baby, LoL.

As to straight sex, I think a guy should wait until about 16. By then puberty should have slowed down a bit and he can think with a clear head. Because getting a girl in trouble can sure mess up a kid's life. :(

[ExhibitG]

Hmmmm, this is a tricky one. I lost mine at 14 1/2, but it was to another boy, also a virgin. So there was no risk of making a baby, LoL.

As to straight sex, I think a guy should wait until about 16. By then puberty should have slowed down a bit and he can think with a clear head. Because getting a girl in trouble can sure mess up a kid's life. :(

puberty by no means slows down at 16 lol.

[Cybercode]

i was born in a religious family, so if i'm married. but i think in my opinion 18 should be a good age. at 18 you are at your prime, the point in your life you are the most active. and plus you have a whole life ahead of you. and i agree with that one post, once you loose it, there's no going back.

[Unlucky_Leprechaun]

Age is number, but being able to make the correct decisions is sometimes hard. Some guys mature faster than others. It also depends on who you are with..their maturity level. Don't rush it and do it for the sake of doing it...do it with someone who you care for..I wish I would have delayed it, truthfully. I was 15... maybe 16 to 17 if your looking for a distinct age I guess.

[Spock]

when you are ready

[Shining Star]

at what age do you think it is appropriate for a guy to lose his virginity? (not the legal age)

There really is no right age....i think its appropriate when you and your partner have weighed the pros and cons of having sex, taken steps to do it safely and both want to do it :)

[HungAndYoung]

14 or 15

[OptimusPrime]

21 :)

[Darkwizzard48]

When you feel ready !

[Peep Show]

16 earliest I reckon

[prob1996]

There really is no right age....i think its appropriate when you and your partner have weighed the pros and cons of having sex, taken steps to do it safely and both want to do it :)

I agree with this. it is a mutual decision between you and partner. and you have consider what it is you are doing

[Travis Is Losing It]

I lost mine at 12. I say 21 minimum. i know i didnt listen to myself and got me in alot of trouble. untill you can get married without parents permision you shouldnt be having sex

[Giles]

When both you and your partner are ready for sex is the 'right time'. Obviously that doesn't apply if you both think you're ready but you're 12 or something ridiculous. I'd say that maybe 14/15 is an appropriate age if you're both physically and emotionally ready.

[SimplyTom]

just when you are both "ready" to do it theres no such age when it is the "earliest" to do it

[Tall T]

whenever you are mentally physically and most importantly emotionally ready