Brother :'(

[Scottie]

Okay so to day maty and i started taking a few things serious with our things (holding hands in class, maty sitting on my lap and so on.. read other posts) so to day at our brake time we were closser then ever no one really caring about until my brother jake whose 16 and has a different gf every day came up to were me friends and i sit and started giving us (maty and i) about maty siting on me and i have a boner and started pushing us around kicking punching spitting and taking our stuff and calling me and maty a homo and seid he would tell dad and seid he'll give me a beating for being a homo im soo scared jakes not home yet but when he does he'll tell dad and dad is drunk with mate im so scared i dont wanna ve beated again please i just wanna talk or talk to someone whose been thru the same not one of those helplines please

[ADC12]

i really dont kno what to say...

add me so we can somehow talk about how u feel :)

[hhhfiuashfosihdf]

First of all , your brother sounds like an arse. Secondly, you dad shouldn't mind aslong as he loves you

[ADC12]

yh as long as you two like each other.. i mean im actually jealous cos uve got someone to hold hands with... i mean my best mate and i sit on each others laps but we havent held hands
anyways back to u ^ like he sed ur bros an arse... dnt b afraid cos ur family should just love you for who you are...

[SimplyTom]

yeah dont be afraid you love who you love and you cant help that so your bro and your dad should be understanding about it

[Scottie]

Thanks guys.. i got a beating.. i might end up with a black eye, i think dad just wants to tuffin me up and doesnt want me to be gay. i feel so bad i got maty beat up is it okay that im like crying i think i actually love maty

[Kujiro]

In my opinion, you brother is just a douche, and there is nothing much you can do about his new found knowledge.

Just dont let him use it as an excuse to threaten you to do things you really dont want to see yourself doing.

If you are definate about your sexuality, i'd believe its a good time to actually tell your parents how you feel.
Coming out is definately the hardest thing ever, especially when it comes to your parents.

But if i were in your dad's position, i would rather you telling me then your brother did.
It marks a sign of maturity and respect.
It take plenty of guts to beable to do so.
But its better than having a brother thats holding you on your nose.

Tell him when you find that hes sober, and your mum as well.

You have my support, Good luck.
*smile*

[Short Circuit]

So your dad thinks that beating you up will knock being gay out of you?

God, is he victorian or what?

You cannot help how you feel, its in your genes so nothing can be done about it.

I feel for you bro, and I am straight!

[Scottie]

If i told him he would just back hand me and thro me in the shed sober or drunk

[SimplyTom]

well he shouldnt hes your dad and he should be understanding

[Scottie]

I just wanna be out of this housee

[yungzion]

I feel so bad for you scottie I had the same situation it was my sister though..OMG, i feel so bad for you....:(

[Kujiro]

@ Tom He should , but we too have to understand that not everyone is as open and as understanding to such matters.
He may be acting this way because he is unable to handle it.
In fact when parents dont know how to react, they react by getting angry, especially when it comes to such.

@ Scotty There is nothing much you can do, well i'd suggest you keep it low, its kindna bad to be keeping hush about it, especially from your parents, but i'd suppose its the lesser of 2 evils for now.

Good luck
PM me if you have questions about it.
*smile*

[Vegito]

1st off, its illegal to beat kids in the first place. not to get too far into your life, but you might want to talk to a therapist, or a teacher, or call DCFS if it truely is serious. your bro is obiously an "arse" just tell him to fuck off. or tell a teacher or something. goof luck.

[Foamy]

Ur bros an ass. An what about ur mom? Couldn't u talk to her about it?

[yungzion]

You don't deserve that type of abuse "throw you in the shed" c'mon your bro should be trying to help you not beat you.. :( <3 for you..

[DramaKid13]

Wow reading this made me feel so sad :( it's ridiculous that your own father should beat you for something like that, and that fact that he'd do it sober is a little scary, it's really unfair for you :'( Idk how to help...but I want to... :'(

[mrbob360]

scottie mate it hink you should go to social services or the police or both because ur father hitting you is classed as child abuse and ur bro hitting you is classed as assult

[NomSan]

Aww! I'm so sorry for you! :(
I can't imagine what you are going through. A father is supposed to be supportive and caring, not beat you up because you like another boy! And your brother is not exactly better either. I would like to help you, but I'm afraid I cannot. :(

I just hope everything will sort out, it's not a healthy situation for you to be in.

[Teen141]

Omg Scottie i feel so sorry for you, Your brother is obviously a complete prick.
Your Dad and brother hitting you is out of order?! Regardless of the reason for beating you it is illegal and is wrong!

and how is your friend? Have you spoken to him yet ?

[VamosToro]

I know it sounds scary but u need to call the cops or something. U should never be scared in ur own home. Wtf! Being thrown in a shed. That shouldn't happen to anyone.

[Tenoramic]

Don't be afraid to phone the police. I know Australia is pretty much like US. So I would phone the police and address the severity. Child abuse is illegal and sibling beating is even worst.

[christcenteredlife]

wow, i don't know what to say. i've been in foster homes where beatings were the normal thing and i know how much they suck. i hope you can get out of this situation or it works itself out on it's own. until then, try to stay positive no matter how tough it is.

when you feel overly sad and helpless, even hopeless, come on here and share. pm someone or something. i'm sure plenty of people would be willing to be there for you. let me know if there's anything i can do.

[Thanatos]

This is a really hard thing for anyone on ther internet to help you with. All we can do is best wishes, give some slight advice and words of encouragement or tell you to call the cops.

[this is going just by what I read in this thread]

Your brother is obviously a complete and utter douchebag who doesn't deserve to be related to you. Your father is an abusive person who is a danger to yourself and Maty. Due to the fact that your brother already knows, is willing to beat you and enjoys getting your dad pissed at you, it would be exceptionally hard to just lie low about it at home. This leaves the only option other then letting yourself be abused, which you should never do, to be A. Moving in with someone else or B. Calling the cops.

Do you have grandparents that you could move in with? An aunt or uncle or older cousin? That could be a potential solution to the situation if they were tolerant/understanding and let you move in with them rather then stay with your dad/bro.

If all else fails the Cops are one call away.

Whatever way you decide, I wish you the best of luck, offer you my sympathy, and if you need to vent and the other twenty people on here offering you their ears and hitting on you arent enough feel free to add me on Skype.

[DirtyDog78]

idk what to say bout ur situation. Ur dad shouldnt care.

[Bobbyfishstick]

Personally if I was in your situation I would call either the police or child services. You father beating you because your gay? If I was ever to come across a scene like that I'd beat him. Your brother dosent deserve to be breathing. I send my best wishes for you and Maty. God bless.

[Vegito]

2 ppl to call, DCFS, or the police
DCFS=

Department
of
Child
and
Famly
Services

[tyler17OKC]

Wow… This is terrible…

My Advice. If neither your dad nor brother will stop beating you, go to your local fire or police station(whichever is closer) and explain everything to them. They have to assist you. If it gets really bad, living with a friend for a while wouldn't hurt.

[Kevinlegit15]

Call the cops if he hits you, child abuse if very serious.

[Wakesetter03]

Well mate, your in a pickle. Obviously the logical thing is to talk about it to some sort of authority. But I can understand how it would be difficult to get your dad in trouble, where you could either make it worse or get your dad taken away. But what he is doing is not right.

Australia has the kids helpline, they are councillors that are over the phone, completely anonymous, who would know a lot more about the rules and what to do than other resources. I'm not sure if I'm allowed to post phone numbers on the forums, for whatever reason, so google 'Kids Helpline' and it will be the first thing that comes up.

Good luck

[seannc11]

I don't find your dad's technique of handling this situation a very good way. He is suppose to be supportive. I hope things get better between you and your dad!

[WithoutFear]

that is horrible! i know how unaccepting, violent and alchoholic australia can be! i would in your situation, try to maybe stay at a relative or friends house for a few days untill this blows over. or stay in the closet infront of your family untill you can leave that douche of brother and ahole of a dad of yours.
i hope things work out with you and maty!

[Scottie]

Heey Thanks everyone oh so every much.. just knowing thats there are people out there wanting to help me Thank you again and maty is okay we are still friends i came out to him i had too we are greater then ever now and my dad is not my real dad his my step dad my real dad run away and my mum dont have one i never met her and my bro he just love my step dad way to much..
Love you all xxx

[Darkwizzard48]

I feel so sorry for you !

[Albert01]

Im sorry, just live how you want to be :yes:

[Curoz]

I think you need to get out of that house.
No one should be required to live in fear of been themselves in their own home.
Remember there are always options you can use if you really can't remain living like that.
And there will ALWAYS be people that want to and are able to help you. Ensure you remember that.

[yungzion]

Heey Thanks everyone oh so every much.. just knowing thats there are people out there wanting to help me Thank you again and maty is okay we are still friends i came out to him i had too we are greater then ever now and my dad is not my real dad his my step dad my real dad run away and my mum dont have one i never met her and my bro he just love my step dad way to much..
Love you all xxx

Wow, that's a lot to take in are you emotionally okay.?

[landone]

Sorry that your brother and dad treat you this way :( If your dad is actually doing those things you need to TELL someone. Not on the internet, someone with authority. Does your mom know abt this? If your dad beats you for being gay I'd suggest not associating yourself with him.

[crzy15]

Thats terrible. I cant imagine going through that. Im so sorry ! I hope it all works out ok, be strong !

[broford]

Oh dude. I haven't been on here in ages, but I just had to post when I saw this. :( Add me on skype or
Msn if you wanna talk about things. I'd love to help. :)

[Unsolvedmind]

I feel so sorry for you and maybe you should try to get a counsoler at school and they might be able to help! If you need a bisexual friend ( to talk to) come to me. I will always be there :D

[Vegito]

i have a 2nd degree black belt in karate, if u want, come to the usa, and in chiacago, ill beat the fuck outta ur brother and father if u want me to. i know im not supposed to, but i am supposed to defend those in need of help, so just throwing an idea out there.

[yungzion]

i have a 2nd degree black belt in karate, if u want, come to the usa, and in chiacago, ill beat the fuck outta ur brother and father if u want me to. i know im not supposed to, but i am supposed to defend those in need of help, so just throwing an idea out there.

That's so thoughtful. <3

[Vegito]

any new news?

[maxhahaxd]

oh thats sad maybe u talk to your mate an figure out what to do
its not okay that ur dad beats u up!

[Baby_James94]

Talk to a school counselor or call Child Protection. If your not safe, you need to get out of there. You do NOT deserve to be beat up for being who you are. I would hate to see something bad happen over someones ignorance. Please seek help. There are professionals who deal with all this and could help you in any way possible.

I just wanna be out of this housee

[Unsolvedmind]

Talk to a school counselor or call Child Protection. If your not safe, you need to get out of there. You do NOT deserve to be beat up for being who you are. I would hate to see something bad happen over someones ignorance. Please seek help. There are professionals who deal with all this and could help you in any way possible.

I agree :D

[alexander747]

Talk to someone you trust about it - someone who is experienced and wise would be the best option (teacher, adult, etc.). Remind your brother and dad that you're no different than them - would your dad beat up a black person just because of his skin color? Finally, you need to get through this with someone - that special someone: Maty. Stick together and you'll be stronger than ever, and never let anyone tell you what's right and what's not.

[TheMJS]

Your brother is fucking pathetic.

[Jstr]

Isn't that child abuse?!?!

[Smartypants]

beating you won't take away who you are so what they did is just MAD!!!

[Asd20]

If your dad's beatin u u should report him for child abuse

[Fear]

Your brother sounds like a total prick. I suggest maybe start defending yourself, don't take any crap from him no longer. You don't deserve to be treated like this. Maybe, you should talk to your othjer about this, or when your dad is sober, talk to him. Your brother should be taken down, maybe public emrassment? I mean publiclly embarrass him in school or in town. That may teach him.

[logan fields]

scottie i agree with ben and parents are not allowed to beat their kids like that and lock them in sheds so hey tell someone about it and if you love a kid then be true to you and him and screw your brother because he is a creep.

[Rukua]

well my dad dont know im bi.. so i dont really know what your goin trhough! but i do not what its like to be beaten... my dad has pushed me into a fry pan before... got two scares from that... hes threatened to punch me a LOT of times all because i wasnt like him when he was my age....... stupid right!?

the last time hes done stuff like that was start of this year so things have sort of cleared up, and if he does touch you violently... call someone!! dont be an idiot like me and endure it... tell someone whats going on... it does get better (:

[NotASpyingRent]

Scottie-

True love is true love. There is nothing that can be changed about that. I am SO sorry your brother acted the way he did and he acted irresponsibly and just pain mean. Im sorry but your brother and your dad need to get in line and realize that love whether it is homosexual or not is still love and if they don't like it they can go F themselves (pardon my language but this truly enrages me). PLEASE PLEASE do not run away- it will not make the situation bad as it is better. As for your friend Maty, i do congratulate you, but you should try and keep a low profile. as i said before PLEASE do NOT run away or do anything drastic like that. We at VT are here for almost 24/7 if there is no one else to help. I wish you the best of luck in your new relationship.

[Electra Heart]

I'm really sorry... your brother's a dick. Stay strong, report abuse do SOMETHING. Don't sit there and do nothing... if i were you I'd kick the shit outta him... maybe you cant but try a neighbors house or something...

[russjr08]

I feel very bad! That kind of thing is something I wouldn't tolerate. As for your brother, he is a... okay... I don't usually say bad words, and don't know how tolerated it is on here so I'll let you use your imagination. Your Step Dad.... he needs to go to jail, correction place (Can't remember what its called). You need to either call someone or talk to someone at school, or.... well I don't know. If you can't stand living in your own house because of your dad, something needs to be changed, and I think it should be him. I can't stand people who are mean because someone is different. I'm not gay, but I still don't hate people or think they should be beaten up because they choose to be like that. I hope your step dad goes to jail and your brother does too. He intentionally knew that was going to happen to you, and he wanted it to happen so he needs to be taken away too. Something has to be done. And I think the best thing would be to let someone know wheater it be the cops or a teacher. You shouldn't feel afraid to live in your house. I recommend you do something immediately.


I can't stand people who hate on others because they're different. My brother does it, people at my old school did it, and a lot of people in the world do too (like hitler), I don't wish they were dead, but that they were never born.


I hope you and Matty can still enjoy yourselves. I wish you luck.




-Russell


P.S. Please do something about your brother and father, when you tell someone about your dad, tell them about how your brother wanted to inflict that on you too. I don't think you should have to live like this.

[Koffing]

Please do something about your brother and father, when you tell someone about your dad, tell them about how your brother wanted to inflict that on you too. I don't think you should have to live like this.

I'm 100% behind this. If they keep beating you up then you should talk to someone ;)

[russjr08]

I'm 100% behind this. If they keep beating you up then you should talk to someone ;)

I know, because personally, if it happened to me, the next day I would just say something at school, and then not go home.

[WilliamArmstrong]

If anything u shouldnt get a beating for being bi curious. I mean Almost everyone gets a little bi curious sometimes. Idk ur one year older than me u might know more. But anyway they are just being assholes. U cant help how u feel maybe u should call someone in ur family u really trust

[the beast]

Im sorry that this happens to u. My advice is to move in w a friend or family member who is more supportive and wont react in the same manner ur dad does. I support whatever decision u decide to make 100% and i will be here to help whenever u need it either send me a vm or ask for my email and ill help u out.

[KarkatLuv]

Your story is so sad, i hope everything ended up ok :(

[Trinity_15]

stand up for yourself. so giveback what you receive and they will stand down eventually

[lniehus55]

thts not right at all!! msg me if you wanna tlk about it

[PerpetualMotionSquad]

oh scottie i don't know how to respond to this and if ur dad has truly beat you then you shouldn't take it and you should phone or talk to someone who deals with child abuse. Also if your brother is purposely trying to get you into trouble like this then he is just as much of a tit as your dad is. If you need to talk to me about any of this pm me or ask for my msn address i will always talk to you about this stuff. :)

[teenboi14]

You shouldn't have to live with getting beatings. It not right and it's illegal. There's lots of places you can get help and I hope you do get some help so you can be safe and not get hurt anymore. :/