Huge Conflict

[disassociation2016]

Okay everyone in my infinite wisdom I've decided texting guys I presume are gay with a number that nobody knows and asking them if they're gay and want to talk... I feel as this may be a terrible idea and I'll have a poor response however I figure its worth a shot... Coming out doesn't seem like a great idea for boys at my school so not many have. Anyways back on topic, this guy I'm texting acts gay and seems to think I'm cool and is pretty comfortable win me.... Well he doesn't find drinking after me to be gross so I guess that's a good thing. Anyways what's your opinion on this whole ordeal? Oh and I typed all this on my DROIDX :]

[christcenteredlife]

well, i don't think it's exactly a smart idea, but it's your choice in the long run. i'd suggest being extremely careful. if you get in touch with the wrong person, things could go completely wrong.

[Guillermo]

I'm not so sure if that's a good idea...You never know who it could be that you're really texting or wait...do you? Now as for that guy you just never know if he's gay or not...so I'd be careful about that too.

[disassociation2016]

Im getting the numbers off of Facebook. Also these won't be tied to my name and I don't plan on saying anything that would get me into any trouble...

[SilentKillah]

Hm. Be careful bro!

[Guillermo]

Err well still...I don't think it's right. You're being "someone else". I can just see you trying hurt by all this in the end.

I know how frustrating it can be when trying to find other bi/gay people. My school is definitely not the best place to be bi/gay either but whatever. You never know. If you make more friends then those friends could have others friends who are bi/gay.

[Skyhawk]

From personal experience, it's too much drama in the end, cost me nearly all of my issues I have now, and trust me; that's a long list from simple drama.

Why not the classic way?

btw, typed all of this, plus all of my other posts on my iPod Touch Gen4. Plus every image I have posted here :P

[AltoVaughn]

I don't support the idea. Guys will come out when they feel they're ready. I honestly don't think you should "Poke at them" Until they tell you.

On a side note, If someone texted me and asked if I was gay (assuming I'm Closeted) I'd still lie because I have no idea who's asking.

Third, If you want to support guys(or girls) coming out. Be open about it yourself, Sense I've come out I've had several people come out to me.