Hitting on my friend?

[Teen141]

So I have this friend who I really fancy (A boy), we are close but I have closer friends and I think that he is gay aswell but I have no idea how to go out about this ? Any ideas? Maybe dont ask at all because it could ruin our friendship? Help!? :)

[Can'tHelpIt]

Start talking about things that include gay things (you hate people hating on gays etc.) and see where it goes from there

[musicisfun]

Start talking about things that include gay things (you hate people hating on gays etc.) and see where it goes from there

Agreed ^^ Just start asking him questions and see if you can find out more about him.

[DirtyDog78]

Originally Posted by Can'tHelpIt
Start talking about things that include gay things (you hate people hating on gays etc.) and see where it goes from there

hes right he'll go down sooner or later

[Teen141]

Wow thanks guys! :) I wil give that a shot Thank you all <3

[Peep Show]

Well you've gotta ask yourself firstly, do you want to keep your friendship? Because if you get in any sort of sexual relationship with you your friendship will be ruined most likely.

[Teen141]

Hmm that is a possiablilty but that doesn't always happen? ... Does it?

[Kujiro]

If your are asking this, is likely you don't know him enough, even if he does not spell
It out, a close friend would have pretty much get a rough idea of where he stands.

Instead of attempting something which may ruin the friendship, why not understand him more, observe and analyze the situation.
Only when you are more confident on which direction to proceed then attempt it.

Good luck.
* smile *

[PerpetualMotionSquad]

Yer just do what the top one said

[cpr97]

well first off does he know your gay? n if he does how did he react towards it when he found out n how does he act around you? i mean if he knows your gay n he is interested in "learnin or explorin" it im sure he would give you clues its just a matter of you pickin up on them or not to be mean if he is into boys there is also a chance he hasnt expressed it cuz hes affraid of gettin harrassed by others or he may not even be attracted to you... just if you get the hunch he might be curious but worried what others will think make sure you let him know what happens "behind closed doors" is between you n him... he may just be insecure... boys are age are always affraid of "what happens if my friends find out" but i would say if you get the feelin he is into boys (curious/bi/gay) then you find a way where you can feel him out but make it look like your not tryin to hit on him if he reacts negatively always leave yourself that emergency exit incase things go bad in a hurry you can back out n make it look like it wasnt your intention n remember if you do it in a way where he feels uncomfortable it may stress the friendship or even ruin... n no i dont think sex ruins EVERY friendship it all depends on the involvement of the sex/feelins that go along with it there are lots of things that can ruin friendships

[Young Wolf]

Soooo! Did you talk to him - did it work out for you both?

[sob2st]

nice advices.. ^_^

[Spike7]

I agree pretty nice advices.

[MassiveAttack]

Ask questions to find out more about him first

[bwdude15]

just ask questiond bro...haha be curious ;)

[SportsNutChase]

I agree with these guys. I have never hit on a friend but I have been hit on and it was ok . He took my no well and we are still friends. If he is a real friend all will be fine either way. Good Luck !

[Donkey]

old thread. :locked: