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evil04
March 14th, 2007, 01:09 AM
Alright, well I've been friends with my best friend for ~2 years now (it's a girl). We've been good friends for that long now... She has a boyfriend, but lately she's been acting somewhat weird. One day we were studying for a biology test and when I went up to leave, she said "your a bad boyfriend." Of course, I was confused and wasn't sure if I heard her correctly. Therefore I said "huh?" and she quickly thought of something to say as if she didn't want me to hear it. I was thinking maybe she accidentally said it. Then only a few days later I was texting her, and another girl texted me, so I texted to my best friend "sorry, Ashley texted me." And she texted back "Ashley? are you cheating on me?" Of course this could just be messing around, but lately shes a slight bit more "touchy feely" that normally, and playful. I'm not sure what to think, or what to even do. I might even be falling for her :confused: Any sugestions or advice?

saintersin2007
March 14th, 2007, 01:31 AM
well, if you think your falling for her, tell her, but if you dont want anything to happen, tell her

evil04
March 14th, 2007, 02:00 AM
it's harder than just telling her. What if I'm just thinkin' things, and she doesn't feel that way? Could possibly end our friendship. :(

Gumleaf
March 14th, 2007, 03:27 AM
i'm no dating or relationship expert (far from it) but from what you have said it sounds like she is just messing around to me. were you falling for her before or after this has happened because maybe your feeling like this because of the things she has said to you? i would want to be very sure that you are falling for her before you tell her because it could upset your friendship as you have already said.

evil04
March 14th, 2007, 11:12 PM
Well I went ahead and told her everything. Unfortunately, her phone died so I haven't yet gotten a response. I will post the results when I have them. Wish me luck:(

Gumleaf
March 15th, 2007, 12:30 AM
of all the times for a phone to die!!!

Link3737
March 15th, 2007, 02:46 PM
maybe its not a coincidence...lolz

i once knew a girl like dat who played a mind game with her best friend and they ended up totally hating each other and havent spoken to each other since...so i hope thats not whats happening to you

that_guy
March 16th, 2007, 03:20 AM
Well i guess its kinda too late now seeing as you've already gone and told her, if yr already mates then if you continue just treating her as a mate she'll get more and more obvious if she really wants it to be more or else it'll just go back to normal.