He didn't fit

[smalltowngirl9189]

Okay so me and my friend decided to have sex and he couldnt fit into my vagina. We were both pretty bummed out. I want to do it with him but I don't wanna get hurt. Btw we tried lube and this wasn't my first time.

[TrAnSMaN09]

what do you mean by "didn't fit?" like he couldn't get it in?

[anonymous53]

You might not have been relaxed enough, which could be your body telling you you're not completely ready :)

[smalltowngirl9189]

I don't know but I do know we wanna try again but he doesn't wanna hurt me.. I don't know what to do cause I'm really petite and hes really big.

[Short Circuit]

When a baby comes out of there, it is around 24 inches long, and around 14 inches in girth, are you saying your boyfriend is bigger than that?

You were not relaxed enough to have sex. Did he pay plenty of attention to get the juices flowing?

[BackOnTime]

When a baby comes out of there, it is around 24 inches long, and around 14 inches in girth, are you saying your boyfriend is bigger than that?

You were not relaxed enough to have sex. Did he pay plenty of attention to get the juices flowing?

Yeah, cause it's a really nice, pleasurable experience to give birth, obviously, so since she's a girl and can give birth, why does she complain about being stretched at all?

Jesus how I hate this stupid analogy from stupid people... :mad:

[Julien7]

you need to be 'wetter' so prolong the foreplay and female oral works best as it relaxes the vaginal muscles making it easier for the man to penetrate

[christcenteredlife]

he'll probably fit just fine. as said before, make sure you're relaxed, and well lubed, whether natural or not. it may hurt some at first, but that's part of having sex when you have a guy with a larger penis. it shouldn't hurt you for ever, just a moment. from what i've heard from girls, the pleasure out weighs the pain.

[Giles]

When a baby comes out of there, it is around 24 inches long, and around 14 inches in girth, are you saying your boyfriend is bigger than that?

Oh I hope that's a joke...

Like some have said it sounds like you weren't relaxed, or turned on, enough to have sex. Perhaps he needs to spend some more time getting you aroused and then give it another go - it might also help if you tell, or hint at, his length/girth - in case he's unusually large.

[crzy15]

I agree, you probably werent relaxed enough.

[Smith98]

Just exactly how big is he? Unless he's incredibly well endowed it should fit. Like others have said you probably weren't relaxed enough but I have heard of petite women having pain from "big" guys but it was from their penis hitting their uterus... They still got it in though.

[nickisamazing]

Let him finger you first till he gets like 3 fingers in and you very wet it works like a charm trust . My ex could never ride me then after I did that first she was fine

[girl555]

ummm i gotta say im like average height, really tight (so they tell me) and i have had sex with a guy with an 11 inch penis. no joke dont be saying bull and liar cause im not kidding. he went all the way into me. so i dont know how this guy could not fit into you. maybe you just couldnt stand the initial pain and backed out. but from my experiences with the 11 inch penis, the pain will be sooooo terrible but when the pain gets overflowed by pleasure its the greatest feeling of all time. next time try to with stand the first pains. its worth it :)

[benjones1769]

interesting....prob just the pain. lucky day anyway

[CoolCaliGuy]

try getting him to finger you, so you get wet, and then let him try to go inside.
It will be a lot easier

[Darkwizzard48]

you were not relaxed enough and maybe not ready . Also not lubed enough from ''natural lube ''

[OptimusPrime]

I agree with the above about not being ready. Is there even a need to have sex at 16? If you're not ready you're not ready. No need to force or anything.

[christcenteredlife]

wow an 11" penis went all the way in! i'm not saying you're lying, i just thought the vagina was only like 5" long. i didn't realize the vaginal canal was so long. good thing to know lol.

[Angel Androgynous]

ummm i gotta say im like average height, really tight (so they tell me) and i have had sex with a guy with an 11 inch penis. no joke dont be saying bull and liar cause im not kidding.

Sweetheart... were you having sex with a horse?

[Giles]

Sweetheart... were you having sex with a horse?

I have to agree.

[Vegito]

as the others said, u just need to be more aroused. and if he still doesnt fit... uh thats... unusual. if u can hint at his penis size, girth and lenghth, we could get a better idea...

[jacob_1995]

try more foreplay so you'll get more wet and loosen up a bit
try to relax and enjoy the moment also

[smalltowngirl9189]

Thanks guys :)

[Jose]

Try doggy style with lube

[Erikhbd]

He needs to tease your pussy with his dick for a while. Make sure it wet and you're loose and relaxed. He needs to make you beg first. Then it'll fit.

[Asd20]

If he fingers you first it should help.

[kuperman11]

make sure youre relaxed and and lubed it will fit eventually

[Mattattack]

You werent relaxed.

[abear_1999]

it happens sometimes. i didnt fit when i tried the first time with my first girlfriend

[Bigdalt96]

if u just keep working at it it should open up

[bigjohnson]

try fingering first

[lauren010]

If what everyone says about prolonging foreplay doesnt work, I'd suggest carefully inserting things, larger and larger to slowly stretch your vagina to an acceptable size. Dont go from like a marker to a cucumber, too big of a difference.

[randomme]

tell him to finger or lick you out for a bit first

[Wesley1369]

you just need more foreplay to become a little more wet before insertion. try fingering and making out while naked and giving him a blowjob or w/e
try again it should work. and jus tbe relaxed use a condom and lube

[Gingaboy]

I did not not fit my girlfriends vagina either

[Rapp]

i think you werent relaxed enough and if that doesnt work, i guess you needre time to get 'wetter'?

[ImCoolBeans]

This was bumped a little while back :locked: