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Joker_93
August 20th, 2011, 10:49 PM
Often when I'm at a club, I dance with several girls, but most of the time they end up leaving after grinding for a couple songs. I was wondering if anyone had some advice to help me advance further with a girl.
Also, what signs should I be looking for to know that the girl is into me?

Thanks in advance.
LuckyLuke
August 20th, 2011, 11:51 PM
If she's grinding her ass against your genitals, she better damn well be into you otherwise she's a whore. And if she is a whore, what do you care if she's into you or not since your thread implies you're just looking for a hookup?
HAWAiiAN 808
August 21st, 2011, 12:40 AM
when i'm out to a club or concert and a girl starts grinding, i try to read her and see how comfortable she is. If we are grinding for 2 songs and she is starting to look bored, i just casually walk away and if she doesn't follow me, than all she wanted to do was dance. But if a girl is grinding for more than 4 songs, then she is probably down to hook up. I usually just wait for the song to build up to a strong beat, then at the hardest part of the song, i make sure the girl is looking into my eyes and then i just move in for the kill if i get the okay from her. But never just try to make out with a girl unless she gives you her eye contact and either moves in to you, nods her head, or sometimes girls will give you a cute smile to let you know that she is down to make out.
AltoVaughn
August 21st, 2011, 12:52 AM
Hooking up with a random person in a club doesn't sound like something I'd enjoy.. Meh.
HAWAiiAN 808
August 21st, 2011, 05:35 AM
Hooking up with a random person in a club doesn't sound like something I'd enjoy.. Meh.

yeah, a lot of people i know always say the same thing. They think its weird that people can just randomly hook up with someone they probably know nothing about except they like to dance. I used to be like that, until i started going to house parties and a girl would pull me out to dance so it kinda got natural to just do something spontaneous when everyone is having a good time.
ShatteredWings
August 21st, 2011, 07:48 PM
This *really* isn't dating advice IMO, this is sex advice which we don't allow here