Is this normal?

[Scottie]

Okay, so my best friend and i sit next to each other in class like all the time and its only been lately that we have been getting closser and closser and I think im bi or gay so hes been like wanting too hold my hand alot mainly when we are sitting down in class and since that we sit up the back of the class room is this normal? And he doesnt know im bi or gay..
Also at break times he sits on my lap and i get hard and he does not care or notice also i was playin soccer yesterday and after i went around his house and we were playing arould like play fighting and he put his hand down my pants is this normal as well and he told me to do it..
im confused please help

[mrbob360]

perfectly normal sounds like you two are just having some fun in a different kind of way so perfectly normal unless you didnt want it to happen but yer keep having fun :) you never know where life will take you

i forgot to add remember to use protection lol hehe :)

[Smartypants]

When I was your age, these things happen normally. I even had guy mates who kissed me at school! Anyway, don't feel as if something's wrong with you ,because you know how hormones could make us do some things. But if you really like your friend, i think you guys should talk. I think he likes you too! <3

[Brian12]

Okay, so my best friend and i sit next to each other in class like all the time and its only been lately that we have been getting closser and closser and I think im bi or gay so hes been like wanting too hold my hand alot mainly when we are sitting down in class and since that we sit up the back of the class room is this normal? And he doesnt know im bi or gay..
Also at break times he sits on my lap and i get hard and he does not care or notice also i was playin soccer yesterday and after i went around his house and we were playing arould like play fighting and he put his hand down my pants is this normal as well and he told me to do it..
im confused please help

Yes, I think you and your friend are very normal and you sound like you have a lot of fun with him.. Good for you.

[Kujiro]

Its awesome, to hang around with a trusted friend, in the process understanding yourself better.
Since you are still in the line of thinking you are bi, then let this be a stage of understanding yourself.

Being homosexual or bisexual, does not just evolve around sex, but it evolves mainly from emotions, its the attraction of love, that superceeds sexual desire.
Hence do not be too quick to conclude, give yourself more time to understand you genome.

Have fun.
*smile*

P.S Finally this is my 500th post :D

[spoke]

sounds perfectly normal. it may lead to sometjhing and may not. as long as you're ok with it of course

[Scottie]

When I was your age, these things happen normally. I even had guy mates who kissed me at school! Anyway, don't feel as if something's wrong with you ,because you know how hormones could make us do some things. But if you really like your friend, i think you guys should talk. I think he likes you too! <3

So how should i talk to him because hes like heaps cool and everyone likes him and stuff

[Kujiro]

So how should i talk to him because hes like heaps cool and everyone likes him and stuff

I think you should, talk to him about it at your private time with him,
Im sure he would get the picture.

Good luck
*smile*

[Brian12]

So how should i talk to him because hes like heaps cool and everyone likes him and stuff

Well I think he is really interested in you and likes you very much. I would let him know how you feel about him too. You could also let him know how you like it when he holds your hand and sits on your lap. You could take hold of his hand first and sit on his lap. I think he knows you get hard and he likes it. Tell him and show him you like it too. Hope this helps. Have fun!

[Scottie]

Thanks Brian12

[Scottie]

So wait should i do things he does to me or..

[Brian12]

So wait should i do things he does to me or..

Sure if you would like to. Show him you like him as much as he likes you. Have fun with it.

[Brice72]

It is normal. But if you dot feel comfortable, make sure you tell him to stop. During puberty, guys have homosexual urges as well as heterosexual urges. It's naturL, even if you dont grow up to be gay.

[Scottie]

It is normal. But if you dot feel comfortable, make sure you tell him to stop. During puberty, guys have homosexual urges as well as heterosexual urges. It's naturL, even if you dont grow up to be gay.

If i told him he might disown me as a friend.. has this ever happen to any of yous?

[Joe1996]

It's normal, maybe this is a good opportunity to test if you really are gay/bi. If he wants to do something sexual, maybe you should.
Obviously if it makes you uncomfortable just say you dont like it and hopefully he should stop

[yungzion]

Ask him if he likes you, if he doesn't he just curious.. :) I think he likes you though <3 :)

[musicisfun]

So wait should i do things he does to me or..

If you want to you should, but make sure you are comfortable with everything that is going on.

[Smartypants]

So how should i talk to him because hes like heaps cool and everyone likes him and stuff

If you really like your friend, I think you are ought to show some interest on him as well so he'll get the hint about it. Try to spend much more time with him, keeping it cool like buddies do, dropping hints here and there. Once you are sure he's into you also , only then I think you should confess your feelings about him. Because if it turns out that he isn't, things will get weird between you two.

Hope this helps :D

[Teen141]

Try doing some of the stuff more often, like holding his hand more and try to do more play fighting and then finally tell him that you are attracted to him? (if you are) You never know things might go better then you thought

[DramaKid13]

How weird, I have a friend who does the exact same to me, what I usually do is play along and also start doing stuff he does to me to him so he can sorta get the message :)

[Glee]

Its really whatever you're comfortable with. I mean, its normal to experiment with sex and the same sex. Have fun, and if you're okay with it, then go for it!:yeah:

[benang]

at the same age i did the same things whit my friends