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Short Circuit
August 20th, 2011, 01:04 AM
What age did you guys first realise you were gay or bi, also, are you comfortable/happy being the way you are?
christcenteredlife
August 20th, 2011, 01:10 AM
i don't believe someone can really know what they are until after puberty is complete. i think people can have attractions, but a for sure answer seems tough to come to when your hormones are going insane. that's just how i feel on the subject though.
Shadowin
August 20th, 2011, 01:14 AM
well i didnt really decide but i guess... I dont know you just can feel it.
Unsolvedmind
August 20th, 2011, 01:32 AM
This year (14) :D and I love being Bisexual <3
KingdomHearts
August 20th, 2011, 02:01 AM
17 (Last Year)
Happy Being Bi <3
Electra Heart
August 20th, 2011, 02:47 AM
I've always known I was bi deep down... always
Peep Show
August 20th, 2011, 03:45 AM
I'm still undecided, but I think I might be bi. I hope to make my decision by 16.
prob1996
August 20th, 2011, 07:00 AM
over the last couple of years, I always thought I was bi because I fooled around with guys and liked it more than with girls and it wasn't till this summer that I realized that I was really gay. I'm just not interested in girls in that way at all anymore and just can't see myself in relationship with a girl like the one I have with my boyfriend .
kuuliluuk
August 20th, 2011, 07:58 AM
I've been allways suspicious about my sexuality. I thought that I am also in a "Phase". I hoped. But then I fell in love with a boy from neighourhood. I didn't understand what happene to me and why I behave like that. I was 14 then. That was a very bad experience.
Donkey
August 20th, 2011, 08:10 AM
Puberty For Boys -> Teen Sexuality
zackboy
August 20th, 2011, 08:54 AM
I think I did just this year or so.Some girls are nice too but I think I like boys the most.I guess I'll figure it out sometime.
Giles
August 20th, 2011, 11:00 AM
13 or 14. Initially I thought I was Bi, like a lot of gay guys I imagine, but I now realise that I only felt that way because I felt like I should like girls too. It took a while to accept that I had no interest in girls, sexually or emotionally, and that I was only interested in guys.
Kujiro
August 20th, 2011, 11:33 AM
i would say the point when i realised that i am in love with my boyfriend, not sexually but truly emotionally.
Somewhere end of last year till the early this year.
Before that, there were girls on and off, but nothing as much to mention. :)
mrbob360
August 20th, 2011, 01:23 PM
im happy being bi according to reasearchers bi people are 50% more likely to be in a relationship than straight or gay people plus it gives me the ability to choose which sex i can go with and gives more freemdom of people
TrevorTime
August 20th, 2011, 01:57 PM
At 13 I sort of suspected it, but by 14 I knew for sure. Came out to my mom at 15 and all is well. :)
SilentKillah
August 20th, 2011, 04:14 PM
I figured out I was Bi when I was 14 and I'm pretty comfortable how I am. My whole family knowsand they dont care one way or another.
ADC12
August 20th, 2011, 04:32 PM
This year i realised i was bi... (14 yr old) proud to b bi :) only ever told my best mate i was though and no one else (except u guys lol :lol:)
Brice72
August 20th, 2011, 04:43 PM
I was 10. And I'm not happy about it.
ADC12
August 20th, 2011, 04:44 PM
I was 10. And I'm not happy about it.
Y not?
Joe1996
August 20th, 2011, 05:06 PM
I'm gay, I've known I was gay since about age 12 maybe 13.
The first sexual thoughts I had were with guys but i didn't know what someones 'sexuality' was back then so if I did know what 'sexuality' was I would have known at age 10/11 haha
I am extremely happy being gay ;D
tyler007
August 20th, 2011, 05:28 PM
I was 13 when i really felt something, but i was 14 when i acted upon it.
I was too thrilled about it at first but now i think it awesome, i get the best of both worlds...(ha-ha) im bi. At first it was really tough, but once i accepted it, and talk to other about it, then came out as bi, now i am quite happy.
yungzion
August 20th, 2011, 05:30 PM
I'm undecided, but I have feelings for guys. so I guess Bi and I'm happy
Kevinlegit15
August 22nd, 2011, 10:34 AM
Well in six grade there was this really cute boy and i always wanted to see him naked and stuff I guess thats when.
LittlePaperStars
August 22nd, 2011, 10:45 AM
I've been bi since March of this year, and I'm happy to be myself :) I have friends to back me up whens things get tough :D
Love.Hate
August 22nd, 2011, 11:08 AM
i have known i wasnt completely straight for a few years.. maybe 14/15 when i realised i was bi? i know i told people when i was 15.
TheAppleProsS
August 22nd, 2011, 11:32 AM
15 last year
lniehus55
October 27th, 2011, 08:15 PM
this year. its amazing to be bi
redmann
October 27th, 2011, 11:29 PM
Im Gay :-) I have had these feelings and thoughts since i was 3 actually. ( My mom told me of a few instances) i realized what i was feeling when i was about 14 and i accepted myself as Gay. 3 very emotional years later and i am very happy with who i am:-)
TheRev
October 28th, 2011, 12:22 AM
i am gay took me way to long to come out and be happy about myself but strangely now that i came out got a lot more friends, been less depressed, and grades are doing really good XD
KICKASSKID
October 28th, 2011, 01:24 AM
Can't remember a time when i didn't think i was gay, had my first crush on a guy when i was about 7.
PerpetualMotionSquad
October 28th, 2011, 07:37 AM
i have always sorta known there was something there but i only fully realised a few months ago and i can't say i am pleased with being bi but i am certainly happy because no one really hates me and i overall have a good life.
blackpo
November 5th, 2011, 10:05 AM
i have guessed since i was 13(last year) but i have been absolutely sure forabout a few monthes
AllThatYouDreamed
November 5th, 2011, 11:53 AM
10/11 I started being interested in girls, so yeah.
Don't think I had a word for it until 12
Syvelocin
November 5th, 2011, 04:30 PM
I honestly have memories of wishing I was a guy because guys got the "pretty" sex to marry when I was like eight or something. No actual feelings towards girls, but I think that's interesting to mention with turning out gay. Then I thought I was straight, then I had the bi feelings again at 14-15, and gay was just a year or two ago.
It's just sexuality. I didn't murder a person or something, there's nothing to come to terms with. I'm at my happiest when I'm being who I am, regardless of who has an issue with it.
aleexax3
November 8th, 2011, 10:50 PM
15 i knew i was bi
SuperSuraj
November 8th, 2011, 11:31 PM
It was like 4 months ago XD so i was 16 haha
Can'tHelpIt
November 11th, 2011, 01:28 AM
Like a month or 2 ago when i actually decided but I've been thinking about it for a year
phantomnull
November 11th, 2011, 11:36 AM
I'm starting to think I might be bi. I definitely like girls, but I also find myself fantasizing about being sexual with guys. I just don't want to deal with being judged or all the hub bub when/if I come out
johnwayne11
November 11th, 2011, 11:53 AM
I think people might be interested, but an answer that is difficult to achieve when their hormones are going crazy. is just that I think of you.
TacoRocco
November 11th, 2011, 12:06 PM
i was 10 years old when i figured I liked boys and girls. I love being bisexual
NHSoccerjock
November 13th, 2011, 01:46 AM
i was like 10 wen i realized i liked boys and looking at their bulges and dicks and underwear ads etc.. didnt know wat gay was until like 12 which was wen i knew i was gay. totally comfortable and happy with it.. no reason not to be.
jacob1
November 13th, 2011, 02:21 AM
I've only just realised it this year and I love having the freedom being bi gives you
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