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[cyb3rw01f]

heres the deal, me and my cuz were at a creek by my house, and we found some ripped up porno magazines in a tunnel.

my cuz got a boner over it, and it was "good lookin" (im 13 almost 14, and my cuz is 11)

and he j/o'ed

but i didnt get a boner over it. :( and when i j/o i sometimes watch porn, mostly gay) its more realistic

then when i got home i thought about the pics, and having a naked girl over me, then i got a boner

am i gay? cuz it's bothering me :/

and even the other day, me and my 2 friends were in his moms car on the way to fball practice, and we were lookin at this magazine that started with an m i think?? and it showed sexy women from every state, like barely any clothes on and what not(and there were some HOT girls) but i didnt get a boner there either

i really dont think im gay, but i dont know >:O

[PoseidonX43]

no you are not gay, maybe bi, but dont consider that yet. hope i helped.

Sailer16

[Shadowin]

well i wouldn't say you are gay or straight i might consider this a phase where you are curious about girls like a straight guy is curious about boys.

[Dive to Survive]

I wouldn't label you at all. With hormones and evrything you could get boners at anything or nothing at all. It's not worry if you did or didn't get a boner at a specific time. Your cousin probably isn't too far into puberty so not all the hormones have kicked in so he's not curious yet. No worries :)

[Rubber]

no. i only get hard from girls by seeing things in real life. not in pictures and stuff. stories and stuff are the things tht get me hard.

[Kujiro]

I would not conclude my sexuality if i were you now,
Its more inclined to sexual attraction, and its not emotional as of yet.
Regardless of male or female, any form of sexual acts has its potential to arouse.

It need not necessarily be a male/female combination to get people excited.
it is possible to love women but still enjoy watching gay porn and have sexual thoughts on guys.

This does not conclude your sexuality, and in no way it does.
You need time to observe your own and identify you emotional preference, rather than just being sexual.

Experimentation and curiousity is normal at our age, to pass this stage, understand yourself with an open mind and and open heart.
Ignoring sterotypical thoughts and biased opinions, whats important is to be true to yourself.

Many a times, the answers could be found at the most unexpected places, among the most unexpected people.
Soon you will see the answers becoming clear to you.

Good luck on your journey, feel free to ask
*smile*

[lolatthatguy]

talk to him about it? he might be feeling the same and/or wanting to experiment

[christcenteredlife]

it's ok that you aren't getting constant boners. you just might require more than visual images, like more indepth thought.

[lambo420]

Nah I Dont think that you may be Gay, maybe just curious that's all

[Spock]

dont jump so say you are gay u might just be curious or u just have a lot of hormones

[Timmy93]

confused maybe

[hollisterboi95]

you're 14 and your hormones are crazy, don't worry, it doesn't sound like you're gay. you don't like guys right? sp you're not gay

[musicisfun]

At your age you shouldnt worry about being gay or straight, you have time to figure things out

[curious_boy123]

ehh dont worry about it!

[Drake]

Maybe you just need to imagine more than looking