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Gummi
August 19th, 2011, 12:00 AM
School starts in 2 weeks, and theres a girl I really like. I don't like to text people first (mostly because I don't want to text them, its different here) and she texts me every day when I wake up and usually at night too. Most of last school year when I was single, and sometimes when I wasn't (I wasn't cheating or anything like that), I would sit on a chair and she would tell me to move over and she would sit on the chair too. Even though there were a lot of other chairs around. (When I would ask her why she doesn't get her own, she says its too much work and would require walking lol) Every class I had with her she would always sit by me, and talk to me a lot. She comes to me with a lot of her problems and she tells me secrets. We both have dirty minds (not super perverted ones, like funny ones if you know what I mean) and laugh at stuff like "it hurt so much last night," when I dropped the pan on my foot.

My problem is, I play xbox 360 and computer games. A lot in the summer, but not much in the school year. I am not fat. I am pretty muscular and play track, basketball, soccer. (I took 1st or second in most of my track running events which is hard to do if your fat) I have almost no pimples, just some small ones that most every teen gets. I have very good higene (however you spell it)

I was wondering if you liked a guy and you found out he plays xbox 360 and computer games, would you still go out with him? Also she know what an xbox is and she knows I play it, and she knows a lot more about it than I thought (she knows what halo is and an xbox live party and that stuff)

I was thinking about asking her out because we flirt about 24/7 and she asked me to give her a hug for her birthday (which was actuall yesterday) and I told her I would when school starts (she lives far away and neither of us can drive yet) Shes 13 and so am I.

I really hope someone takes the time to read this and help me out. I am very confident that she will say yes, but I want to know what you girls think. I'm ganna ask her out most likely anyways, unless something happens.

Angel Androgynous
August 19th, 2011, 12:03 AM
Why would an Xbox 360 and computer games be a deal breaker in the first place?


Go ahead and ask her out.

Gummi
August 19th, 2011, 12:09 AM
Why would an Xbox 360 and computer games be a deal breaker in the first place?


Go ahead and ask her out.

Ive heard that some girls don't like guys that play video games. So I was wondering if it was true.

Angel Androgynous
August 19th, 2011, 12:11 AM
They don't like it when you would rather spend time with your xbox than with them... Either way, offer to play xbox with her and give her a little time too. You'll be fine.

Gummi
August 19th, 2011, 12:31 AM
They don't like it when you would rather spend time with your xbox than with them... Either way, offer to play xbox with her and give her a little time too. You'll be fine.

I would definitely rather spend time with her. I would rather do that than anything in the world. Shes great to be around and I really like her.

Dack
August 19th, 2011, 12:54 AM
Dude...if that's that much of a deal breaker...you don't want her because she's probably an attention whore who can't stand having you look away for a second. My girl enjoys watching me actually. It's not even multiplayer games, either, she suggests I play Dead Space 2 (cause she likes cuddling, I guess)

sammy1996
August 19th, 2011, 12:59 AM
the signs are good, most girls dont mind aslong as you dont spend more time on xbox than with them.
definatly ask her out

Gummi
August 19th, 2011, 01:03 AM
Dude...if that's that much of a deal breaker...you don't want her because she's probably an attention whore who can't stand having you look away for a second. My girl enjoys watching me actually. It's not even multiplayer games, either, she suggests I play Dead Space 2 (cause she likes cuddling, I guess)

Shes not an attention whore at all. not even close. she doesn't like a lot of attention and never tries to get it. shes actually very shy and nice.

and I also noticed that girls like to watch scary stuff because they get to cuddle. I gotta get dead space 2 lol

Dack
August 19th, 2011, 01:14 AM
Exactly, so why would it matter? I know for me, it usually ends up with us getting really close and making out, so it's a win win for both of us.

The only reason they would care is for the attention whore reason.