Bad break up, and still not over him. help!

[lovefashion]

In high school and I dated my boyfriend for over 6 months. He broke up with me, never 100% sure why, but I'm guessing the spark died. :(
I really did care for him and love him, and I still can't get over him and it's been 5 months since the break up. What should I do?
He also won't talk to me and I feel like he hates ME, but why?
I want to talk with him so bad.
Help from both guys and girls would be very much appreciated!
I want to get out of feeling down all the time...

[disassociation2016]

I've seen this over a thousand times. Best advice for you is to move on. Otherwise he might think you're stalking him or something. No need to make a breakup something nasty.

[Kujiro]

I'd agree that breakups dont have to get nasty, but i'd suppose its not always practiced.
When do you intend to move on, and walk out of that room, is entirely up to yourself.

You have to move on, regardless how miserable you are, does not look like hes going to care about it.
You should be happy and prove to him that you can live happily without him as well,
mulling in the past would not help, but to treat it as a learning experience.

It is true that, regardless how close a couple maybe, its difficult to stay even as friends upon a breakup.
Thats the reason, when you get into a relationship, you may lose 2 of your best friends in the process.

During a breakup, its the empty void which needs to be filled which makes you feel lonely. All the times when you used to be free, were spent on him, thus making you dependent on that feeling.

Go out with your friends, keep your self occupied, make life more meaningful, taking up a hobby, and making new friends.
You have to accept whats gone is gone, and its not coming back.
What does not kill you makes you stronger.

Its something you cannot change.

"Grant me the strength to accept the things that I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can and the wisdom to know the difference."

Best wishes
*smile*

[Travis Is Losing It]

My best friend once told me relationships are an act of trial and error. You will have many and they will end. Eventually you will find the one that works for you. Its like everything in life. Its ok to be upset over a relationship and some you never get over. I still miss my ex of 9 months i ended up cheating on and lost her forever. Eventually i moved on and had many girlfriends that ended. But im still trying because i know that girl for me is out there. If you dwell on the past and dont go for other people then you may miss your chance with that special person. Even if you miss them still try. Easiest way to get over someone is find someone that gives you that feeling back again

[SadAngel]

You have to move on when breaks ups,divorce,cheating you gotta move on moving on is always the right answer for everyone having a hard time may not be easy but it's worth it. Yes your very upset he did that to you but remember he lost someone who loved him and he doesn't even care because that's the reason why he broke up with you. He's a jerk he's moving on He's carrying on his own life without you better to leave him alone. He gaved you the message loud and clear you had no choice but to take those words and move on. He ain't the right guy for you if he just hurt you badly. You much more better then him. You talking to him is not gonna get you no where he'll just end up ignoring you. Arn't you worth the fight and the chasing? if yes show that you moved on not like hes running back to you wanting you back I say f**ck him