wow , im a real loser

[anon1992]

i cant even get any girl to even go on one date with me. wow am i that ugly and worthless of an individual. i cant even get one date , let alone a girlfriend. the last date i had was in 2006 , it was my first and only date. wtf. i was 13 at the time and it was with some 14 year old girl i barely knew. she never went on another date with me. my brother however is in his mid 20s and easily gets dates with girls my age (18) and younger and still struggles to get a girlfriend despite having girls of all ages going on dates with him. and i cant even get a girl to talk to me. am i the only one? it seems like ill never get a girlfriend

No im not coming on too strong or anything like that . and yes i do try to get out and do things. and no the "there is someone for everyone" thing is bullshit. i know plenty of people who never got married, and not by choice either . So dont come on here saying , "i know you dont think that there is someone for everyone, because there isnt". and yes ive heard it all, there is billions of girls in the world,etc.

girls wont even talk to me.

[AltoVaughn]

Well, I'm not looking for girls... But Yes I'm alone too. You're not alone on that. As for why girls won't talk to you I don't know you so I can't say. But the advice you told us not to give you honestly is true, but you can't expect them to fall in your arms. You have to work to find that person.

[Dack]

I was in your same position, too. Don't come off as the creepy kid who makes perverted jokes or flirts constantly, just try to be nice (although there is a very fine line between nice guy and creepy kid) and chat them up, ask a out homework, school, life, or anything that could start a conversation. You never know, that girl could be your one.

[judahtics]

i have autism/tourettes/ocd and i still manage to do great with girls even though i'm completely awkward socially. you don't sound very confident, maybe try being ok with yourself before looking for a relationship.

[DerBear]

Just dont worry about it your young. Life will pick up for you at some point

[ryantombs]

ok 1) dont go looking for a girl/ relationship let it fall where it is... thats it... you will get one i promise.
2) honestly just be nice dont be creepy hanging off them... start slow look for a friendship then close friendship then relationship... ask everyonce in a while for hw help, even if you dont need it or something just talk be easy to talk to...
trust me bro you will get a girl

[sarahtheweber]

You aren't a loser hun. Question- why won't girls talk to you? If you know why you can change that, then get to know them better maybe??? And i bet your not ugly or worthless!!

[Bath]

Dating is overrated anyway.
Give it more time. I can honestly assure you that you are not alone, and it's not really that big of a deal. You're either just out of high school, or going out of high school soon, and most high school relationships don't last anyway.

[AncientCatastrophe]

You're still young, there are plenty of stuff to do anyway besides dating, if you really want a relationship try being nicer and easier to approach to :)