Show your little sister??

[amy463]

Last week I saw my little sister (9) masturbating in her room and i was thinking, should i show her how to masturbate or is that inappropriate.

[Sebastian Michaelis]

That would be inappropriate. If she is already doing it herself then she will figure out what she likes best without any help from her older sibling.

[Bougainvillea]

I think Amy is a girl.

Amy, I think you need to leave her be. It would be embarassing for her. Masturbation is something we all do privately, and not something you'd want to be confronted about. Especially at that age.

[judahtics]

i'd leave it alone also.

[solosarah]

He'll no, I wish I had had a sister to show me but my cousin stepped in and showed me the light.

[mbishop94479]

What do you think? I want your thoughts.

[Spock]

^^^^^^^^^^i agree^^^^^^^^^

[KelseyR]

how long did you watch her?

[amy463]

how long did you watch her?

Just a Few seconds.

[amy463]

What do you think? I want your thoughts.

I have no thoughts that's why i ask this question

[Travis Is Losing It]

Masturbation is pretty much natural. Learning from a sibling may cause sorta emotional issues down the road if that bothers her. she may not say it would because shes your younger sister and probably looks up to you. showering her is probably a bad idea. let her learn on her own

[amy463]

Masturbation is pretty much natural. Learning from a sibling may cause sorta emotional issues down the road if that bothers her. she may not say it would because shes your younger sister and probably looks up to you. showering her is probably a bad idea. let her learn on her own

Thanks this helps me really much

[bleedoutlove]

Yeah, just leave it alone :/ I'd be so embarassed if I were her to be honest.

[mbishop94479]

Yeah, I agree. Just let it be.

[DoctorWho]

Well I say that maybe you should talk to her about it and tell her that maybe she should wait a bit till she's older because it can become and addiction.

[mbishop94479]

I'm going to amend my answer.

I don't think you should show her how. If you catch her constantly doing it and it seems to be a problem, talk to her about it.

[amy463]

I'm going to amend my answer.

I don't think you should show her how. If you catch her constantly doing it and it seems to be a problem, talk to her about it.

Thanks, i'l think about it

[endgame]

I agree with everybody else. Let her explore her own body. Only show her if she comes to you with questions.

[Shadowin]

well i think that would be a little to private for her she should find her own way to do things not bu help just let her do it herself

[christcenteredlife]

why do you feel it would be appropriate i think is the real question. you are her big sister and plus this is a very private thing. something you may do as a teen could actually hurt her delicate body as a child. something to think about if you decide to tell her after all.

[Timmy93]

just let it be she will tell you/ask you when the time is right

[Unsolvedmind]

Its your choice! :D

[Nicky97]

I'd say it's a good time to make sure she knows she can come to you with her concerns. Saying things like "when I was your age... (but not preaching) occasionally helps, but most of all don't be a jerk to her, make her feel welcome in your world. I assume it's no different with girls.

I agree, respect her privacy. Just be available in a way she understands.

[Kujiro]

I agree with nicky's opinion.
Its good to educate her in a way that you do not have to jerk infront of her, but at the same time let her feel comfortable talking to you.

It is basically an embarrassing deed for her to be caught, but you should highlight a few pointers on privacy and doing it at the right places and right times.

There is not a need to discuss techniques, but highlight on safety as well.

Good luck
*smile*

[Giles]

I don't think that actually showing her would be a good idea but perhaps talking to her about it wouldn't be a bad one. If she's often doing it somewhere that you walk in on her (with her knowing or not) then even just suggesting somewhere else to do it or being more private about it.

[Hannahgurl]

I never had anyone to show me how to do it, and I have incrediable orgazms . so she may not need any instructions, BUT if she ask or indicated she has some sex related issues ,ake sure your there for her. If she ask the you can help.

[jacob_1995]

i think you should leave her alone and let her explore her body by herself.
it wouldn't be good if you embarrassed her by talking about what she does privately.

[girl555]

ok i think that you should maybe watch her a little bit more, see if it looks like she knows whats shes doing and having a good time, and if she is leave it but still talk openly with her about it. if it looks like she has no idea whats shes doing and is struggling just ask her about it yourself and see if she wants some help on how to do it. maybe not a demonstration but an explanation on how to do it well. hope i helped :)

[amy463]

I never had anyone to show me how to do it, and I have incrediable orgazms . so she may not need any instructions, BUT if she ask or indicated she has some sex related issues ,ake sure your there for her. If she ask the you can help.

Thanks

[amy463]

ok i think that you should maybe watch her a little bit more, see if it looks like she knows whats shes doing and having a good time, and if she is leave it but still talk openly with her about it. if it looks like she has no idea whats shes doing and is struggling just ask her about it yourself and see if she wants some help on how to do it. maybe not a demonstration but an explanation on how to do it well. hope i helped :)

Thanks

[awsomekid23]

i think its best for her to learn on her own

[Giles]

ok i think that you should maybe watch her a little bit more, see if it looks like she knows whats shes doing and having a good time, and if she is leave it but still talk openly with her about it. if it looks like she has no idea whats shes doing and is struggling just ask her about it yourself and see if she wants some help on how to do it. maybe not a demonstration but an explanation on how to do it well. hope i helped :)

Yeah, sure.. spend plenty of your type watching your younger sister masturbate...

[mbishop94479]

ok i think that you should maybe watch her a little bit more, see if it looks like she knows whats shes doing and having a good time, and if she is leave it but still talk openly with her about it. if it looks like she has no idea whats shes doing and is struggling just ask her about it yourself and see if she wants some help on how to do it. maybe not a demonstration but an explanation on how to do it well. hope i helped :)

No. Wait for her to come to you with any questions.

[amy463]

i think its best for her to learn on her own

Thanks i think i do that

[Unown]

If she is doing it wrong, show her how to do it correctly

[Asd20]

I would let her learn on her own and if she comes to you answer her questions and help her, but if you walk in on her a lot tell her that and suggest better places and ways to keep it hidden.

[AmusedDJ]

9!?!:eek: isnt that a little young?

[endgame]

9!?!:eek: isnt that a little young?

I started masturbating when I was 10. Some people start younger.

[scouse-emo-chick]

I know some sisters are reeaaaally close like my and my sis, just say to her that you've been through it all before, and you're there if she wants to talk or advise. Then she'll trust you, and come to you if she wants help. Its not that innapropiate at all, as I only found out us girls could masturbate two weeks ago. Just suggest it to her :)

[KellyNC]

I showed my sister when she was 11. I'd give her a little longer on her own, but there's nothing wrong with showing her if you want

[mbishop94479]

What did you decide to do?

[amy463]

What did you decide to do?

To wait and see what is going to happen and if she comes to me that i explaine everything.

[amy463]

I know some sisters are reeaaaally close like my and my sis, just say to her that you've been through it all before, and you're there if she wants to talk or advise. Then she'll trust you, and come to you if she wants help. Its not that innapropiate at all, as I only found out us girls could masturbate two weeks ago. Just suggest it to her :)

Thanks that is true

[Surferchic2362]

Let it be, but let her know she needs to lock the doors use some caution.