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janebennet
March 12th, 2007, 12:15 PM
Ok I feel really embarrased about posting these but i need some help. There are two stories.
OK first,
I have a twentyeight year old neighbour and he is always in his garden watching me out there. I went round his house for tea, because my mum knew we had sparked up a relationship. We sat on the couch and he came closer to me so i came in. So he looked at me and we kissed. So one thing led to another and soon we were naked on his bed ( we went upstairs) having oral and anal sex. I liked it alot, but am but am not sure what to do because I went round again a few days later and I ended up mastrubrating him and watching porn with him. He now looks at me and when my parents are out we have sex. I don't now what to do and am doing the right thing. Also he hits me when i first come thrugh the door.
Secondly,
My best friend came ver and we were wondering what it to have lesbian sex so we did. I have gone past the stage of curiosity, and have finished puberty ( I finished at a young age) I d not kno whether I am gay Please help.:confused:
ThatCanadianGuy
March 12th, 2007, 12:38 PM
HOO BOY! Thats alot to think about. You have to ask yourself though, are you ready for any of this? Like this guy, is 28 a big age difference, because if you are not 18, this is classified as sexual assault, unless you have the consent of your PARENTS or something like that. Also, you should NEVER let him hit you or hurt you in any way!
As for your girlfriend, I gotta say that unless you are romantically attracted to her (would rather marry her than a man) you are NOT gay. We are sexual beings. We can get attracted to the same sex, simply because sex is involved! But if this is just simple curiosity, and you would rather choose the boyfriend of your dreams over her, YOU ARE NOT GAY, just sexually curious, and most likely bisexual (you enjoyed the sex with her and this guy, right?)
Most importantly, STAY SAFE. Always use protection.
MOST MOST IMPORTANTLY: I'm sorry, but you have to tell your parents about this guy. It seems to me that he doesn't treat you well, and your relationship with him is just for the sex. NEVER stay with anyone who only wants you in this way. You need to have a meaningful relationship with anyone BEFORE you BOTH decide to take the next step (to sex), or pain and heartache will be the only result.
PM if you need someone to talk to.
God Bless
Bankai15
March 12th, 2007, 01:25 PM
Ok I feel really embarrased about posting these but i need some help. There are two stories.
OK first,
I have a twentyeight year old neighbour and he is always in his garden watching me out there. I went round his house for tea, because my mum knew we had sparked up a relationship. We sat on the couch and he came closer to me so i came in. So he looked at me and we kissed. So one thing led to another and soon we were naked on his bed ( we went upstairs) having oral and anal sex. I liked it alot, but am but am not sure what to do because I went round again a few days later and I ended up mastrubrating him and watching porn with him. He now looks at me and when my parents are out we have sex. I don't now what to do and am doing the right thing. Also he hits me when i first come thrugh the door.
Secondly,
My best friend came ver and we were wondering what it to have lesbian sex so we did. I have gone past the stage of curiosity, and have finished puberty ( I finished at a young age) I d not kno whether I am gay Please help.:confused:
And how old are you?
Ironic Infidel In England
March 12th, 2007, 01:48 PM
We're really going to need to know how old you are.
Elscire
March 12th, 2007, 04:43 PM
judging about the phrase "finished with puberty" about 18 i'm guessing
dannyley
March 12th, 2007, 05:02 PM
If he hits you the first thing I would recmend that you do is to stop seing him or/and call the poliice because this is assault, as welll as the fact that we do not know your age he could also be commiting sexual assault!
As for your activities with your friend if you say you are finished with puberty then you cannot be in the curriousity phase, you could just be bi.
ViolinPro
March 25th, 2007, 12:52 AM
HITS YOU???? what u mean by that, and how old are u. listen i have a big problem with my roommate... so i have a forum here
i dont think its right to have sex with the same gender, and by my psychology, you cant have sex if u are unmarried. ok, well. thats just my advice
KEEP AWAY FROM HIM AS WAY AS POSSIBLE>
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