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red_light drama
August 18th, 2011, 02:39 AM
So I used to be so confused and wished to be straight but, I feel that although Im not completely sure, I think Im coming to a conclusion that a safe thing to say is bi. Cause every little instant changes my thoughts and this seems most logical. Now comes the tricky part, if Im bi, do i need to come out to everyone when im ready cause basically im still straightish, and if im in a relationship with a girl, whats the difference, right? As long as I dont cut off my options, theyre just wider not switched.
judahtics
August 18th, 2011, 02:44 AM
i don't think any orientation needs to be announced.
LivierGleek
August 18th, 2011, 03:49 AM
You should do whatever you think is right. I think that perhaps you could tell your friends if you want to :) not everyone has to know
Shadowin
August 18th, 2011, 11:09 PM
i have the same problem :T but i suggest only tell people you think will keep the secret not any old friend
AltoVaughn
August 19th, 2011, 12:21 AM
My opinion is you only need to tell people you feel need to know. Like I have no intention of telling my grandfather I'm gay. He'll die soon enough.... (God I sound like a bitch).
Tell them if you think they need to know, simple as that. Otherwise keep it to yourself if you want.
DoctorWho
August 19th, 2011, 12:34 AM
You have no other choice but then to take who you are and enjoy your self
nameless12
August 19th, 2011, 12:34 AM
you dont need to tell the whole world your sexuality, just tell it to the people that most matter to you :)
Unsolvedmind
August 19th, 2011, 12:43 AM
I have already came out to one Of my closest friends and it felt so good
randomme
January 20th, 2012, 03:41 PM
i told one guy i was bi then he told me he was gay :)
Electra Heart
January 21st, 2012, 01:11 PM
I've told my last 2 girlfriends I was bi, the first one took it well and it didn't bother her, it didn't work out in the end but we're still friends! The 2nd... not so much... she was sure I would cheat on her, etc etc, ended out bad... it really depends on the person and how good of a friend they are too you, I haven't talked to the 2nd one in months because of it. I also told my 2 closest friends and they didn't really care, it felt nice.
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