Am I bi or gay?

[DramaKid13]

Alright, so right now I'm bi, I decided to be bi cause I liked boys but I also like girls still. But lately, I can only look at boys and like them, and aside from one girl I have a crush on, I only feel attracted to boys. Also, girls have never made me hard ever, but boys do. Whenever I have fantasies, they're always of boys. Also, i have a huge crush on my best friend that has been going on for months, and I can't seem to stop thinking about him. I know for sure that I'm bi, but now I'm questioning whether I may be 100% gay, what do you think?

[Timmy93]

hrmm i would say bi but mostly like guys...could just be curious

[StoppingTime]

Nobody here can tell you what you are, but we can help you.

Anyway, judging from what you are saying, there are two possible answers.
Either one, you are curious like almost every other teen, only for you, that curiosity has gone farther than most, which is fine. This means it might just be a phase in your life when you don't like girls, but it may pass with time.
The second option is tat you may be completely gay, but labels aren't important. This may not be a passing phase, and possibly permanent. You are the only one whoa really can decide your orientation, and take your time, you definitely don't have to make that decision yet.

Good Luck :woot::woot:

[Foamy]

Exactly what nyyanks said

[DramaKid13]

No, like I know for a fact I'm bi, I was curious for like 2 years, maybe longer, I knew that I was, but I'm just wondering whether I am fully gay

[DarkHorses]

I'm kind of in the same situation right now. I used to be attracted to girls, then it became girls and guys, and now I'm leaning more towards girls. But I think it's important not to worry about labeling yourself just yet. It's understandable for a teenager to be unsure, and it happens a lot. Some people might know they're gay from childhood, but for others it's a little bit more difficult than that, and that's fine. I would experiment a little, just let time pass and see where it takes you. Eventually you'll be more certain, but right now you should just worry about your current emotions, and about being yourself as best as you can be.

[ExhibitG]

maybe you have a sexual and emotional attraction to guys, and just an emotional attraction to girls. no worries. if this is the case, i'd still categorize you as bi. although categories are really unnecessary. everyone's different.