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Jades
August 17th, 2011, 04:40 AM
hey guys, need some help here. i love naked girls, i have had sex with 7 of them, i just love having sex with girls. and i have a long term girl friend.
-yet sometimes i sexually fantasize with boys. when i masturbate, i think of boys occasionally but when i'm done with it, it felt gross. i have thought of having sex with a boy but i cant do it. i have many good looking friends but i just cant imagine having sex with them except for one, but i think i really cant do it if given the chance but i still have the desire.
-if given a change to choose from a really hot girl and really hot guy, i would choose the girl. but sometimes i would really fantasize having sex with boys. so what am i? am i bisexual? if i have sex with a guy, will this answer my question?will i regret it?

Aweshum
August 17th, 2011, 05:23 AM
Well, I don't know your age. But when a guy is through puberty it makes his hormones go crazy and sometimes feel attracted to the same sex even if they truly aren't.
Then there are people who are born gay or bisexual.
Do you hold emotional value to the guys you think about, or is it all just in the heat of the moment?

Also, unless you really believe it, you aren't bisexual until you have sex with a guy, in your situation.

Jades
August 17th, 2011, 05:28 AM
actually i'm 18, and emotional value as in i hope he likes me too? heck no. it's pure sexual.

Foamy
August 17th, 2011, 07:52 AM
Dont think ur bi.

Lights
August 17th, 2011, 08:05 AM
actually i'm 18, and emotional value as in i hope he likes me too? heck no. it's pure sexual.

If there are no emotional values, then I would definitely lean to saying you're not bisexual, but more curious. Being Bisexual means you have equal interest in each gender, emotional and physical, and that clearly isn't the case here for you.

I mark these feelings down to adolescent hormones that are making you want to experiment. Many guys do go through phases of curiosity in their gender, and this curiosity can, and probably will, include fantasising.

ExhibitG
August 17th, 2011, 10:23 PM
first of all, let me just say that you don't need to convince people you are straight. i noticed you made numerous remarks like how you would 'choose the girl' and stuff, and i'm sure that's true and stuff, but just know that you should not feel pressured or judged. i used to be exactly like you "i have a sexual attraction guys BUT i love girls and i want their bodies and etc." it's cool, this is a judgment free zone.

to answer your question, i think you are just curious, not bi. i'm like you for the most part. i have a sexual attraction to guys without any emotion, and i have an emotional AND sexual attraction to girls (though the sexual attraction to guys is much stronger) so i just categorize myself as curious.

Jades
August 18th, 2011, 12:22 AM
learned a lot. thank you.:)