still like her

[Solvez18]

ok, so this girl i know has been my crush for nearly 5 years now. do u think i will ever get over her? it's complete torture to me. when i talk to her my mind goes blank and next thing u know im sweating. but she doesn't notice i sweat %100 sure of that. i just can't stop thinking about her. what do i do?

[Dack]

Talk to her. Tell her how you feel about her, maybe she feels the same way back. And if not, chances are you'll just ebb off of those feelings slowly.

[Timmy93]

yeah you will either tell her you do or get over it

[Solvez18]

Talk to her. Tell her how you feel about her, maybe she feels the same way back. And if not, chances are you'll just ebb off of those feelings slowly.

i think she likes me, shes given me some stares. but i don't want to tell her till im atleast 14 or 15, because i want the relationship to last. but also i get mocked for being too white, and i wanna change that and lose a bit of weight before i tell her i like her.

[Kujiro]

5 years is a little long for a crush, hence I'd doubt it's one.

This depends on how close the both of you are, from the sweating and mind blanks, I would presume the both of you are not very close to each other.
I suggest getting closer to have and carry out regular conversations, getting to know her a little more helps.

There is no right or wrong answer, do not be careless but do not be too careful either, when you see a shot, take it, make it count.
If you don't tell people how you feel, they will never know.

Regardless of the answer, at least you have answered to yourself, it's better to try and get an answer, than to live in a mystery forever.

All the best
*smile*

[Solvez18]

ty kujiro, but one thing is, when i was in primary school when i was about 10, we used to talk alot n stuff. but the thing that stopped us talking was changing class at the end of the year, then going on to intermediate school. so were just people that know each other now. but were on to high school next year, and im not sure if were going to the same one. i just have huge feelings about her, it feels like im dying here. but im not telling her i like her atleast till next year.

[Kujiro]

The longer you don't communicate, the worst it would be, don't be a stranger or w face in the crowd.
Try becoming closer rather than drifting due to change of classes.
Do it a step at a time.

[Solvez18]

The longer you don't communicate, the worst it would be, don't be a stranger or w face in the crowd.
Try becoming closer rather than drifting due to change of classes.
Do it a step at a time.

well i have been hanging around in the same group or near her lately. btw out of honesty u give great advice ty.

[Kujiro]

Thanks for the compliments,
Good luck.

[Solvez18]

i said already, yes i know her well.

[Sage]

Kiddo, that really isn't healthy. At your age, you should really get out and talk to other people. This isn't doing you any favors.

[Solvez18]

Kiddo, that really isn't healthy. At your age, you should really get out and talk to other people. This isn't doing you any favors.

im never gonna get something positive or encouraging from u am i? well nothing has happened because i haven't tried yet

[Sage]

im never gonna get something positive or encouraging from u am i?

All I'm saying is that if you've had strong feelings for someone for five bloody years and nothing good has come out of it, why would you expect that to change now? You have absolutely no relationship experience, and becoming fixated on this girl is going to do a lot of damage to your ability to hold up a relationship down the road.

[Amaryllis]

Honey, she's a girl. There are many girls. She's a grain of sand on a beach. There are many stars in the galaxy. There are many leaves on the tree. She's a bloody millimeter of water in a big, big ocean.

Try not to think about her. Do something else. Concentrate on the things you love to do. A crush is a crush. You'll fall in and out of love. You'll learn that the people of the sex you're attracted to are simply a small little aspect of your life. Unless you're completely love drunk, then you're most likely doomed.

Have you spoken to her? Are you close? Do you know -anything- about her? I'm not trying to be harsh but trust me, honey, she isn't worth your time. You're killing yourself. If you want, tell her how you feel. It's now or never. If she rejects you, fine. Move on. If she says "Lets go make-out at that sexy corner over there" then fine, good for you.

But she's just a girl. Giving her your all is giving her the ability to break it all. So let it go if it doesn't work out. You have a long life ahead of you.

Love,
Faith and Trust

[Donkey]

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