98/2?

[Can'tHelpIt]

So my friend gave me a bunch of scenarios and she said that im totally 98/2 guy/girl and I don't want to answer totally yet bc i want to experiance so I just said 60/40 guy/girl im really confused and i want to know what i should do?

[Peep Show]

Mate it's alright you dont have to know your orientation at this stage in your life - your only 13.

You dont have to tell him if you dont want to, but if you do - just tell him how you feel now. It's not like that's not going to change as you start puberty, and it probably will!

[Nicky97]

Do whatever you feel like. Do friends. Do dating. Do sex-play. Have fun. Don't worry about labels. Don't worry about preferences you will develop later in life. Real friends you can tell. Others - it's none of their business.

[senior.2013]

Right, you dont have to have youre whole life planned out yet. If someone thinks you do, screw them and have fun living in the moment.

[Donkey]

Puberty For Boys -> Teen Sexuality

[Lights]

So my friend gave me a bunch of scenarios and she said that im totally 98/2 guy/girl and I don't want to answer totally yet bc i want to experiance so I just said 60/40 guy/girl im really confused and i want to know what i should do?

Okay, I need you to clarify one thing: Are you unsure whether your transgendered or gay?
Only, your signature says you think you're gay, but in your post you're giving ratios of how much of a boy compared to how much of a girl you think you are.

Either way, don't be pushed into anything you don't want to do. You'll know when you're good and ready to confirm your sexual orientation. It might not be for years you can really be sure; but also it could only be months. Different people work different things about themselves out at different rates. Some people just know from an early age that the opposite gender doesn't really appeal to them, while others don't finally accept it until they've married the opposite gender and settled down with kids. There's no rush for you to be telling people what you think you are, so just mellow out and take things as they come. :) One day you'll just feel settled about who you are.

[StoppingTime]

I think the OP meant to say that those were the numbers that he was attracted to guys/girls.

anyway, don't do anything that you don't feel comfortable with. Your only 13, and you don't need to plan out your entire life yet. Your the only one who can really tell yourself whether your str8. bi, gay, or anything else. This could take you a while to fully figure out, so don't stress over it too much. Like Lights said, some people aren't ready to accept/ admit to who they really are until they have a family and kids, and thats fine. Just do whatever you are comfortable with, and good luck to you :)

[Shadowin]

don't worry it doesn't matter what they think as long as they are your friend they wont care you can be anything they like and if they dont like that i suggest getting new friends

[Guillermo]

Just don't worry about labels..I made that mistake when I was 14..now I just dont even label myself because I know what I like and I'm not going to listen to other people telling me what I like.