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yorkie
March 10th, 2007, 02:19 PM
well my roommate is like the fittest guy i know and hes also my friend...but hes str8 and im bi, i dont know if he knows im bi but i really wanna date him

so please help me

redcar
March 10th, 2007, 02:39 PM
...but hes str8 and im bi...
Unfortunatly you answered it there... if he is straight there is nothing you can do about it. And if you tried to turn him, you will loose a friend.

thesphinx
March 10th, 2007, 03:23 PM
Yes unless he decides to be gay/bi then i wouldn't ask him about it because he will probably not want to be friends with someone who likes him in that way.

dannyley
March 10th, 2007, 06:26 PM
well does/has he got or had s gf b4? if no he cud b bi but ashamned of tellin u, if yers then i wudnt ask

Gumleaf
March 10th, 2007, 07:36 PM
if he is straight then thats it. by trying to ask or convince him otherwise things could get ugly.

gamerdude12
March 10th, 2007, 07:38 PM
ewwwwwwwwwwww

Underground_Network
March 10th, 2007, 08:02 PM
[Request move to Relationships and Dating]
Anyways... I agree with everyone else, trying to change him will end your friendship, so if he's straight, find someone else. But also, does he know you're bi?

DestroyTheFuture
March 11th, 2007, 02:56 AM
look, god, this is already a well known fact.

if he is straight, then you can still turn him bi or gay. Bi people turn straight and gay all the time anyways soo....


i still dont recommend it. if i thought my roommate was straight, and then he said that he was bi and wanted to hook up with me, then id scoot my ass out of there as fast as i could. straight guys DONT like other guys hitting on them.


bottom line. DONT DO IT!

redcar
March 11th, 2007, 08:22 AM
if he is straight, then you can still turn him bi or gay. Bi people turn straight and gay all the time anyways soo....

Ok I don't mind you posting this sort of stuff anywhere... except puberty. This guy is asking for help, and do you know what will happen if he reads your post and thinks "Maybe I can turn him!" and actually tries to, it will ruin his friendship.

Now I am not debating here, so don't argue with me. Debate as much as you like in the debate forum, but this is about giving help.

Cap'nCrunch
March 11th, 2007, 03:13 PM
Be real careful about doing anything like that. It could ruin your relationship. Maybe take it slowly, learn more about him and if he'd ever date a guy. If you're sure he wouldn't, don't dare ask him.